*The Myth About Soulmates!* Many people erroneously believe that there's ONE person out there who is their soulmate, someone God had predestined for them to marry, and until they find that ONE person, they will never enjoy true love. Some people call it "missing rib," someone that was divinely created for them alone. But that is not true! There is no ONE person in the entire universe that is your soulmate or missing rib. You can choose your soulmate. You can choose who to fall in love with, and eventually marry. If I didn't marry my wife, there are more than 1 million women I could still marry, and the marriage will work, and if she didn't marry me, there are many other men she could have married. But I chose her, and she chose me. And we both became each other's soulmates! Yes, God helped us to make the choice, because of his plan and purpose for our lives. If you believe there's ONE person in the world that is your soulmate, what if that person dies, even before you meet him/her? Will you remain single for life? Some people are still single today, because they are waiting for a magical soulmate, and they have missed an opportunity with many amazing men and women. If you're a believer, the instruction is to never marry an unbeliever or a believer who isn't focused on serving God and pursuing the plan and purpose of God. Sister Adetola, brother Timothy is not your soulmate, if he doesn't marry you, another brother can marry you. Stop being frustrated because someone you love isn't interested in marrying you. Open up your heart, and you will find love in places you least expect. And when you meet that man or woman that truly deserves you, you can make them your SOULMATE! I hope this helps! #truelove #soulmate #relationship #happiness #Marriage Tips

Thank You, Lord, for the breath in my lungs, the laughter in my heart, and the hope that guides my way.

I marry early, just 20 years old. My husband na 24 that time. We love ourself well-well. E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle. We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby. But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain. I labour for almost 3 days. When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak. Two hours later, my pikin d!e. I cry tire. My husband too cry. But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again." Six months later, I carry belle again. After 9 months — another stillbirth. Third belle, the same thing happen. Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.” But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen. Some people say na spiritual matter. We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer. Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one. I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e. Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear. Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again. I tell my husband make we try adopt for now. Him agree. I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish. My husband vex. Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again. I begin follow the matter spiritually again. Different prophecies, no solution. One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money. Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million. She say e legit. I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out." I go borrow money. I give my friend 600k as first payment. One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me. I shock. My heart cut. I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter" Next day, police land arrest me. My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.” I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.” Just like play, I land prison. No lawyer. No family. My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence. My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her. She promise to help me too. Nothing happen. I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish. Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people. Different NGO dey come prison. Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope. Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out. Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me. She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail. When I reach house, my husband don move. Don remarry with three children already. When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match. That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.” She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills. From there I start my small baking business. But inside me, I still dey cry. I no even fit look mirror. I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope. One day, I go deliver wedding cake. As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house. I tell myself, “I go change this story.” I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type. I watch make-up beginners videos. I start to buy small affordable good clothes. I begin dey apply simple makeup. I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin. I begin see my beauty again. Customers begin notice. Begin compliment me. I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile. My self-confidence begin return. One day, I go deliver cake again. I dress well. The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business. But na love him come find. Him fine, young, tall — and kind. I open up tell am everything. He say, “Your past no be your name. Let’s build something new.” Today, I don marry again. I don born two boys through CS operation. Dem survive. My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years. My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again. I don finally become mama. Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story. --- To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you. The pain of stillbirth no be small thing. Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand. Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited. But make you hear this one: you never fail. Your womb no betray you. Your heart still be the heart of a mother. And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you. To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look — My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body. Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary. Self love dey build back self esteem You go rise again and glow in your own time. To the women wey their husband don abandon them — No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away. God never walk away from you. Stand up, dust your pain, start again. Look good, take care of yourself. You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again. To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles — May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears. Amen. #everyoneシ゚ #woman #virals #marriage

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There is grief in accepting someone won’t change!" (Nedra Tawwab) In the quiet depths of the heart, there lies a profound sorrow in the realization that someone may never change. It is a poignant acknowledgment, a tender letting go of hopes for transformation or growth in another. This grief is not loud or dramatic but a subtle ache, a gentle mourning for the possibilities that may never come to fruition. Accepting this truth requires a deep well of strength and resilience, a willingness to release expectations and embrace the reality before you. It is a bittersweet journey of acceptance but within it lies the opportunity to learn the art of detachment. Detachment does not mean indifference or lack of love; rather, it is the gentle practice of releasing the need to control or fix others, allowing us to embrace reality as it is. By cultivating detachment, we free ourselves from the weight of expectations and the pain of disappointment, creating space for acceptance and peace. It teaches us to love without attachment to outcomes, to honor our own well-being while holding compassion for others. In learning this art, we transform grief into wisdom, finding strength in surrender and serenity in embracing life’s impermanence

BREAKING NEWS: A CURE FOR HIV/AUDS HAS JUST BEEN FOUND A cure for HIV could be a step closer after researchers found a new way to force the virus out of hiding inside human cells. The virus’s ability to conceal itself inside certain white blood cells has been one of the main challenges for scientists looking for a cure. It means there is a reservoir of the HIV in the body, capable of reactivation, that neither the immune system nor drugs can tackle. Now researchers from the Peter Doherty Institute for Infection and Immunity in Melbourne, have demonstrated a way to make the virus visible, paving the way to fully clear it from the body. It is based on mRNA technology, which came to prominence during the Covid-19 pandemic when it was used in vaccines made by Moderna and Pfizer/BioNTech. In a paper published in Nature Communications, the researchers have shown for the first time that mRNA can be delivered into the cells where HIV is hiding, by encasing it in a tiny, specially formulated fat bubble. The mRNA then instructs the cells to reveal the virus. Globally, there are almost 40 million people living with HIV, who must take medication for the rest of their lives in order to suppress the virus and ensure they do not develop symptoms or transmit it. For many it remains deadly, with UNAids figures suggesting one person died of HIV every minute in 2023. It was “previously thought impossible” to deliver mRNA to the type of white blood cell that is home to HIV, said Dr Paula Cevaal, research fellow at the Doherty Institute and co-first author of the study, because those cells did not take up the fat bubbles, or lipid nanoparticles (LNPs), used to carry it. The team have developed a new type of LNP that those cells will accept, known as LNP X. She said: “Our hope is that this new nanoparticle design could be a new pathway to an HIV cure.” When a colleague first presented test results at the lab’s weekly meeting, Cevaal said, they seemed too good to be true. “We sent her back into the lab to repeat it, and she came back the next week with results that were equally good. So we had to believe it. And of course, since then, we’ve repeated it many, many, many more times. “We were overwhelmed by how [much of a] night and day difference it was – from not working before, and then all of a sudden it was working. And all of us were just sitting gasping like, ‘wow’.” Further research will be needed to determine whether revealing the virus is enough to allow the body’s immune system to deal with it, or whether the technology will need to be combined with other therapies to eliminate HIV from the body. #HIVawareness #HIV #hivprevention #hivcure

Reality TV Star, Porsha Williams’ Estranged Husband Simon Guobadia Deported to Nigeria After ICE Detention. Simon Guobadia, the estranged husband of Real Housewives of Atlanta star Porsha Williams, has been deported to Nigeria after spending several months in ICE custody at Stewart Detention Center in Georgia. A friend of the 61-year-old businessman confirmed that he was recently placed on a flight back to Nigeria, following his February arrest by immigration authorities. Despite the tough conditions at the detention center, Simon is said to be in “good spirits” and reportedly hopes to meet with President Donald Trump.

The APC is deploying divisive tactics to brand Peter Obi as an ethnic candidate, hoping to diminish his rising popularity ahead of 2027. But we see through their propaganda. We know the truth. Peter Obi is not an ethnic champion he is a national visionary. A leader who has stood, and continues to stand, for every Nigerian  Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa, Fulani, Ijaw, Tiv, and every other group without bias or prejudice. His record speaks louder than their lies. From education to healthcare, from economic reform to youth empowerment, Peter Obi has reached across regions, religions, and tongues with policies grounded in justice, equity, and progress. They want to divide us. We must not let them. In a time when Nigeria cries out for unity, competence, and integrity, Peter Obi offers hope not to a tribe, but to a nation. His passion is not for a section of Nigeria, but for all Nigerians. Let us resist the merchants of division. Let us reject the politics of hate. Let us stand together for the Nigeria we deserve a Nigeria where leadership is earned through vision and service, not propaganda and fear. Peter Obi is not the candidate of a tribe. He is the candidate of the future for all Nigerians.

JUST THINKING : The way you perceive, process and respond to the successes of others is a major determining factor in your own success. Here are some pointers to help: 1. BE COMPASSIONATE: No one wants to be a Failure. So when others venture out to accomplish something, pray for them and wish them well. Help if you can. 2. DON'T HATE: Every Success comes at a price. Stop talking down on other people's progress, you have no idea how much preparation, hardwork, prayers and resilience they put in to make it happen. If you are at a loss about what to say when you see someone's success, Just say- CONGRATULATIONS! 3. CELEBRATE: The Bible says "Rejoice with those who rejoice..." This is the way to resist the spirit of jealousy and envy. 4. DETERMINE TO BE GREAT: Each of us has a call to greatness in some area. Never believe that you need someone to fail for you to succeed. That is a narrow minded view of life. There's enough for everyone. GOD is big like that. So, go be GREAT! Hope this made sense ?

JUST THINKING : The way you perceive, process and respond to the successes of others is a major determining factor in your own success. Here are some pointers to help: 1. BE COMPASSIONATE: No one wants to be a Failure. So when others venture out to accomplish something, pray for them and wish them well. Help if you can. 2. DON'T HATE: Every Success comes at a price. Stop talking down on other people's progress, you have no idea how much preparation, hardwork, prayers and resilience they put in to make it happen. If you are at a loss about what to say when you see someone's success, Just say- CONGRATULATIONS! 3. CELEBRATE: The Bible says "Rejoice with those who rejoice..." This is the way to resist the spirit of jealousy and envy. 4. DETERMINE TO BE GREAT: Each of us has a call to greatness in some area. Never believe that you need someone to fail for you to succeed. That is a narrow minded view of life. There's enough for everyone. GOD is big like that. So, go be GREAT! Hope this made sense ?

JUST THINKING : The way you perceive, process and respond to the successes of others is a major determining factor in your own success. Here are some pointers to help: 1. BE COMPASSIONATE: No one wants to be a Failure. So when others venture out to accomplish something, pray for them and wish them well. Help if you can. 2. DON'T HATE: Every Success comes at a price. Stop talking down on other people's progress, you have no idea how much preparation, hardwork, prayers and resilience they put in to make it happen. If you are at a loss about what to say when you see someone's success, Just say- CONGRATULATIONS! 3. CELEBRATE: The Bible says "Rejoice with those who rejoice..." This is the way to resist the spirit of jealousy and envy. 4. DETERMINE TO BE GREAT: Each of us has a call to greatness in some area. Never believe that you need someone to fail for you to succeed. That is a narrow minded view of life. There's enough for everyone. GOD is big like that. So, go be GREAT! Hope this made sense ?

JUST THINKING : The way you perceive, process and respond to the successes of others is a major determining factor in your own success. Here are some pointers to help: 1. BE COMPASSIONATE: No one wants to be a Failure. So when others venture out to accomplish something, pray for them and wish them well. Help if you can. 2. DON'T HATE: Every Success comes at a price. Stop talking down on other people's progress, you have no idea how much preparation, hardwork, prayers and resilience they put in to make it happen. If you are at a loss about what to say when you see someone's success, Just say- CONGRATULATIONS! 3. CELEBRATE: The Bible says "Rejoice with those who rejoice..." This is the way to resist the spirit of jealousy and envy. 4. DETERMINE TO BE GREAT: Each of us has a call to greatness in some area. Never believe that you need someone to fail for you to succeed. That is a narrow minded view of life. There's enough for everyone. GOD is big like that. So, go be GREAT! Hope this made sense ?