10 THINGS EVERY WOMAN MUST LEARN BEFORE BECOMING A WIFE”
Dear sister,
Marriage is not for girls — it's for women who are ready in mind, spirit, and attitude. You don’t just wish your way into a happy marriage; you prepare for it. If you want to be a blessing in your husband’s life, not a burden, then take these to heart:
1. Learn How to Speak to a Man
A man is not your younger brother, houseboy, or classmate. Learn respectful communication. If you talk down on a man, mock his efforts, or constantly challenge his leadership — don’t expect peace.
Do this: Practice respect now in your words, tone, and timing. If you can’t honor him, don’t marry him.
2. Define Your Life Vision
You were not born just to cook, clean, and bear children. You have a calling! Without a personal sense of purpose, you’ll lose your identity in marriage.
Ask yourself: What are my goals? What’s my assignment on earth? Marriage should complement your purpose, not replace it.
3. Don’t Be Financially Idle
If you’re waiting for a man to carry all your financial responsibilities while you do nothing, you’re not preparing to be a wife — you’re preparing to be a burden.
Start now: Learn a trade, pursue a career, run a business. Be an asset, not a liability.
4. Become a Woman of Prayer
Marriage is not a luxury cruise — it’s a battlefield of destinies. A prayerless woman is a powerless woman.
Strengthen your altar: Build a lifestyle of prayer now. Intercede for your future home, children, and husband even before they arrive.
5. Take Care of Your Health and Appearance
Looking unkempt in your 20s is not cute — it’s careless. Beauty isn’t everything, but looking fresh, neat, and healthy shows that you value yourself.
Practical tip: Eat clean, exercise, rest well, dress well, smell good. A wife should be spiritually deep and physically attractive.
6. Learn the Art of Cooking
Your husband doesn’t expect restaurant-level meals, but cooking well is a basic life skill that helps keep the home joyful and united.
Start experimenting: Learn new recipes, local dishes, and healthy meals. Be creative in the kitchen — it’s a love language.
7. Understand Your Body and $exuality
No, don’t experiment with sin. But ignorance is not purity — it’s a setup for frustration.
Get educated: Read about your anatomy, menstrual cycle, $exual expectations in marriage. Books like Every Woman can guide you. Knowledge will help you confidently meet your husband's needs and enjoy the experience too.
8. Build Emotional Maturity
Can you handle conflict without shouting? Do you know how to manage jealousy, anger, and pressure? Marriage exposes every hidden character flaw.
Work on this: Learn emotional intelligence, forgiveness, and patience. A wise woman builds her home with grace.
9. Break Dependency on External Validation
If you need constant attention, praise, or social media likes to feel good, marriage won’t fix that. Your husband is not your happiness factory.
Start within: Find your confidence in God, grow your self-worth, and enter marriage as a whole person.
10. Understand That Marriage Is Service, Not Just Status
Marriage is not a crown to flaunt — it's a commitment to serve. If you’re focused only on the wedding day and not the lifelong journey, you’re not ready.
Shift your mindset: Learn humility, submission, teamwork, and responsibility. Prepare to give, not just receive.
Final Words:
Marriage is a garden — what you sow into it is what you’ll harvest. Prepare intentionally, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. Don’t just wish for a happy home — build yourself to be a pillar in one.
May you enter marriage as a prepared woman, not just a pretty bride.
Kindly share this message with your loved ones
10 THINGS EVERY WOMAN MUST LEARN BEFORE BECOMING A WIFE”
Dear sister,
Marriage is not for girls — it's for women who are ready in mind, spirit, and attitude. You don’t just wish your way into a happy marriage; you prepare for it. If you want to be a blessing in your husband’s life, not a burden, then take these to heart:
1. 📍Learn How to Speak to a Man
A man is not your younger brother, houseboy, or classmate. Learn respectful communication. If you talk down on a man, mock his efforts, or constantly challenge his leadership — don’t expect peace.
💡Do this: Practice respect now in your words, tone, and timing. If you can’t honor him, don’t marry him.
2. 📍Define Your Life Vision
You were not born just to cook, clean, and bear children. You have a calling! Without a personal sense of purpose, you’ll lose your identity in marriage.
💡Ask yourself: What are my goals? What’s my assignment on earth? Marriage should complement your purpose, not replace it.
3. 📍Don’t Be Financially Idle
If you’re waiting for a man to carry all your financial responsibilities while you do nothing, you’re not preparing to be a wife — you’re preparing to be a burden.
💡Start now: Learn a trade, pursue a career, run a business. Be an asset, not a liability.
4. 📍Become a Woman of Prayer
Marriage is not a luxury cruise — it’s a battlefield of destinies. A prayerless woman is a powerless woman.
💡Strengthen your altar: Build a lifestyle of prayer now. Intercede for your future home, children, and husband even before they arrive.
5. 📍Take Care of Your Health and Appearance
Looking unkempt in your 20s is not cute — it’s careless. Beauty isn’t everything, but looking fresh, neat, and healthy shows that you value yourself.
💡Practical tip: Eat clean, exercise, rest well, dress well, smell good. A wife should be spiritually deep and physically attractive.
6. 📍Learn the Art of Cooking
Your husband doesn’t expect restaurant-level meals, but cooking well is a basic life skill that helps keep the home joyful and united.
💡Start experimenting: Learn new recipes, local dishes, and healthy meals. Be creative in the kitchen — it’s a love language.
7. 📍Understand Your Body and $exuality
No, don’t experiment with sin. But ignorance is not purity — it’s a setup for frustration.
💡Get educated: Read about your anatomy, menstrual cycle, $exual expectations in marriage. Books like Every Woman can guide you. Knowledge will help you confidently meet your husband's needs and enjoy the experience too.
8. 📍Build Emotional Maturity
Can you handle conflict without shouting? Do you know how to manage jealousy, anger, and pressure? Marriage exposes every hidden character flaw.
💡Work on this: Learn emotional intelligence, forgiveness, and patience. A wise woman builds her home with grace.
9. 📍Break Dependency on External Validation
If you need constant attention, praise, or social media likes to feel good, marriage won’t fix that. Your husband is not your happiness factory.
💡Start within: Find your confidence in God, grow your self-worth, and enter marriage as a whole person.
10. 📍Understand That Marriage Is Service, Not Just Status
Marriage is not a crown to flaunt — it's a commitment to serve. If you’re focused only on the wedding day and not the lifelong journey, you’re not ready.
💡Shift your mindset: Learn humility, submission, teamwork, and responsibility. Prepare to give, not just receive.
💬 Final Words:
Marriage is a garden — what you sow into it is what you’ll harvest. Prepare intentionally, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. Don’t just wish for a happy home — build yourself to be a pillar in one.
💖 May you enter marriage as a prepared woman, not just a pretty bride.
Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏
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