“RAISING A CHILD WITHOUT RULES IS RAISING A DISASTER”

(Why freedom without boundaries is destroying today’s kids)

Let’s stop lying to ourselves:
Children don’t need too much freedom — they need firm direction.
You think you're giving them "space to express themselves"?
But what you're really doing is giving them a fast-lane ticket…
To self-destruction.

A child without boundaries will test everything.

They’ll test time.
They’ll test truth.
They’ll test how far they can go — until something breaks.
And when there are no rules, no “NOs,” no clear lines drawn…
They don’t become confident. They become confused.

You’re not helping their self-esteem.
You’re raising someone who won’t respect law, leadership, or life.

Parents, wake up:

It’s not “modern parenting” to allow your 12-year-old do what they like.
It’s not “freedom” to let your 15-year-old lock their door 24/7 and live like a tenant.
It’s not “trust” to hand them a phone, laptop, and data without supervision.

That’s not love. That’s neglect with WiFi.

Look around you:

Kids cursing their parents online.

Teenagers dressing like strippers and calling it “fashion.”

Boys addicted to porn and calling it “freedom of expression.”

Girls posting half-naked pictures with captions like “God’s masterpiece.”

Young boys who can’t say “yes sir” or “no ma” because they were “raised to speak their minds.”

What’s the result?
A generation that wants respect but knows nothing about discipline.

Let’s be clear:

Boundaries don’t destroy children — they build them.

Rules don’t limit children — they shape them.

Discipline is not wickedness — it’s protection.

Correction is not abuse — it’s love in motion.

A child who grows up without consequences becomes an adult who disrespects everything — including God, law, and you.

Many of you are afraid to say “NO” because you want to be liked.

But parenting is not about popularity.
Your job is not to be their best friend.
Your job is to raise a man, to mold a woman, to train a future leader.

And yes, it will involve:

Saying no.

Checking phones.

Cutting off bad friends.

Seizing devices.

Setting curfews.

And making tough decisions that your child will not like — but will thank you for later.

Don’t wait till damage is done:

Don’t wait until the police call you.
Don’t wait until you’re dragged to a hospital.
Don’t wait until you’re kneeling in church, crying, “Where did I go wrong?”

The time to guide is now. The time to lead is now.

Final Word:

Give your child structure, not just softness.
Give them discipline, not just data.
Give them correction, not just comfort.

Because no matter how sweet your child is,
freedom without rules will turn even an angel into a problem.

Happy parenting to us all. Copied!!!!!!!

LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE!

This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cr¥. A cr¥ for the girl child. A cr¥ for our schools. A cr¥ for sanity.

Dear young male teacher,

You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you.

But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity.

They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them.

You kiIIher confidence.
You kiII her future.
You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe.

Let me tell you what many don’t talk about.

There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them.

Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies.
Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve.
Some can no longer focus in class.
Some lost their voice.
Some have never healed.

And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves.

You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbr£ak, her first betrayaal, her first $hame.

Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal.
Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on.

Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not.
Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t.
Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse.

The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough.

Be different.

Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness.

You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul.

So protect her.
Guard your role.
Be disciplined.
Be a real man.
Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n.

Let this be the end of this madn€$$.
Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma.

If this message touched your heart, share it like fire.
We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it:

Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

**HOW TO LOVE AND HELP YOUR HUSBAND 👱‍♀**

*"An excellent wife is the crown of her husband." - Proverbs 12:4*

1. **Respect Him Unconditionally.**

Listen to him and ask for his opinion. Value his advice and follow his guidance. Men have a deep need for respect, so show it in your tone of voice during conversations and how you approach him, especially when you disagree. Ensure your children respect their dad in the same way. Prioritize him over the children and teach them to do the same. Let him know his thoughts matter and that you truly value his input.

2. **Accept Your Husband as Your Spiritual Leader.**

Men are created to lead the family, which doesn’t imply that women are any less significant. It means God has equipped men with certain skills to effectively guide their families. As stated in Ephesians 5:22-23, “the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.”

Accepting your husband as your spiritual leader involves recognizing and supporting his role in guiding the family’s spiritual life. Allow him to lead in prayer, Bible study, and spiritual decisions while also contributing your own insights to enrich your family’s faith journey. If he’s struggling in this area, offer your support and encourage him to seek guidance from trusted sources or professional help if necessary.

3. **Listen More.**

Engage and listen when he speaks. While you might want to make him smile, your willingness to listen can be even more impactful.

4. **Be the Best Version of Yourself.**

Show love by striving to become the best person you can be. Your happiness will positively affect your husband’s well-being too.

5. **Contribute Financially.**

Marriage is teamwork; be willing to share your financial resources to help pay the bills. Avoid being stingy with your money.

6. **Be Caring and Compassionate.**

Support him when he has a bad day or celebrate with him on a good day. Show your love and care without waiting for him to get sick or need assistance. Simple gestures like a cup of coffee in bed or a cuddle can mean a lot.

7. **Support His Dreams.**

Be flexible and willing to sacrifice for your husband’s goals. A supportive wife allows a man to push his limits and achieve success. Stand by him as a team, working together toward daily routines and long-term ambitions.

8. **Love Him Unconditionally.**

Be there for him through good times and bad, demonstrating unwavering love.

9. **Give Small Gifts.**

Make your husband feel special every day, not just on special occasions.

10. **Maintain His Wardrobe.**

Wash and iron his clothes, including underwear.

11. **Celebrate His Achievements.**

Recognize and celebrate his successes, no matter how small.

12. **Discipline Your Children Together.**

Avoid saying, “I will report you to your daddy.” Work as a team in parenting.

13. **Spend Money Wisely.**

Utilize any money he gives you judiciously, showing you value his contributions.

14. **Submit to Him** as your lord and king.

15. **Pray for Him Regularly.**

Let him know you’re praying for his well-being, demonstrating care for his spiritual life.

16. **Comfort and Console Him.**

Be there to provide strength and support whenever he needs it.

17. **Be Intimate.**

Prioritize your physical relationship and do not neglect your s€xual intimacy.

18. **Keep a Clean Home.**

Maintain a tidy and organized living space.

19. **Prepare Timely Meals.**

Ensure he is fed and nourished regularly.

20. **Show Appreciation.**

Praise him and express gratitude. Encouragement can motivate him to go the extra mile for you.

21. **Make Him Laugh.**

Lighten the mood by making him laugh daily.

**COUPLES WHO HELP EACH OTHER CAN NEVER BE HELPLESS**

You will not fail in marriage, in Jesus' name.

Please share this message with your loved ones.

Abia’s Alex Otti vs Delta’s Sheriff Oborevwori
Same time in office. Different results.
One is building a future.
The other is wasting one.

Delta receives more money than the entire Southeast combined yet has nothing to show for it. Let’s talk FACTS 👇🏾
REVENUE: WHO REALLY HAS THE MONEY?
Delta State
Over ₦1.9 TRILLION received in 24 months
(₦700bn FAAC + ₦400bn 13% Derivation + ₦300bn IGR + ₦500bn borrowings/debts)

Abia State
Less than ₦300bn combined revenue in same period

YET: Delta is gasping.
Abia is growing.

INFRASTRUCTURE: WHERE’S THE WORK?
Abia (Otti):
– Rebuilt Abia Secretariat for ₦900m (₦1.1bn saved)
– Massive road projects across Umuahia, Aba, Ohafia
– Overhauled streetlights, traffic control, & environment
Delta (Sheriff):
– Key roads like Effurun-Warri, Sapele axis, Jesse, Bomadi still death traps
– No flagship project launched
– Secretariat, schools, and hospitals in ruins

HEALTHCARE: A STATE OF LIFE OR DEATH
Abia:
– Allocated 15% of budget to health (first in SE Nigeria)
– Revived ABSUTH (Abia State University Teaching Hospital)
– Renovated PHCs & digitized medical records
Delta:
– Central Hospital Warri is a glorified mortuary
– Medical staff strike constantly
– No major hospital completed in 24 months

Yet Delta spends billions on “consultancy.”

EDUCATION: INVESTING IN BRAINS OR BUILDINGS?
Otti:
– ₦29.5bn to fence public schools (for safety)
– Restored accreditation to ABSUTH
– Launched bursaries & ICT training for youths
Sheriff:
– DELSU underfunded
– Schools lack desks, staff, basic infrastructure
– Education budget still bloated with ghost expenditures

IGR & FISCAL DISCIPLINE: WHO’S MANAGING BETTER?
Otti:
– Raised Abia IGR to ₦15bn in 6 months
– Working toward ₦5bn monthly target
– Cost of governance cut by ending fraudulent contracts
– Prioritized salaries, pensions, and contractors
Sheriff:
– No known IGR strategy
– Huge FAAC dependency
– No clear debt servicing plan
– Budget padded with vague “empowerment” votes

TRANSPARENCY & ACCOUNTABILITY
Otti:
– Publishing contracts (partially)
– Subjected Abia’s past finances to forensic audit
– Sacked ghost workers
– Implementing due process in procurement
Sheriff:
– EFCC still probing Okowa’s ₦1.3trn derivation fund
– Sheriff silent on financial abuse
– No audit report published since he took office
– Key ministries operating in secrecy

COURTS & RULE OF LAW
Abia:
– ICT-driven judiciary
– 17 LGAs with modern courtrooms
– Judges motivated, cases now digitized

Delta:
– Lawyers protest delay in justice
– Courtrooms in shambles
– Judges neglected, salaries delayed

COST OF GOVERNANCE
Yes, Otti spent ₦5bn in 3 months. But he’s showing work.
Delta spends the same and we ask, for what?

Govt House in Asaba is bloated with aides, contracts, PR tools and “influencers” eating millions monthly. Zero productivity.

VISION
Abia is building an economy around technology, health, agriculture, and infrastructure.

Delta is still doing “empowerment” and handouts like it’s 2003.

Abia’s Otti is planning for 2050.
Delta’s Sheriff is repeating 1999.

SO DELTANS, ASK YOURSELF THIS:

What if a man like Alex Otti governed Delta State with the kind of resources we’ve wasted under PDAPC?

– Delta would be West Africa’s industrial hub.
– Our schools and hospitals would be world-class.
– Warri, Ughelli, Asaba, and Sapele would be model cities.

Instead?
We’re stuck in reverse.

CONCLUSION

Abia is proof that bold leadership can work.

If a state with less than ₦300bn in 2 years can show us working hospitals, digital courts, smart schools, and real savings.

Then Delta has NO excuse.
We don’t lack money.
We lack vision.
2027 must not be about party.
It must be about performance. Integrity. Audacity. Boldness. Character.

Delta must rise from the ruins of deceit.
We need a reformer, not a seat-warmer.
We need an Alex Otti not more of the same.

#DeltaDeservesBetter
#OttiModel
#SheriffNoDeliver

Sex is not the proof of love, discipline is. Respect is. Waiting is.

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.
@highlight
@topfans

Celebrating Pastor W.F. Kumuyi at 84

- Dr. Paul Enenche

Today, we celebrate a man whose life has been wholly yielded to God — Pastor William Folorunso Kumuyi.

For 84 years, your unwavering devotion to holiness, truth, and sound doctrine has shaped lives and nations. You have stood as a voice of revival, a model of discipline, and a teacher of righteousness in a world desperate for light.

Through your global outreaches and timeless teachings, millions have found salvation, healing, and purpose. Your example reminds us that it is possible to live above compromise, to serve with humility, and to finish strong.

As you mark this new year, we thank God for your life and pray for continued strength, wisdom, and divine health.

Happy 84th Birthday, Daddy @officialwfkumuyi .
You are deeply loved and greatly honoured.

Celebrating Pastor W.F. Kumuyi at 84

- Dr. Paul Enenche

Today, we celebrate a man whose life has been wholly yielded to God — Pastor William Folorunso Kumuyi.

For 84 years, your unwavering devotion to holiness, truth, and sound doctrine has shaped lives and nations. You have stood as a voice of revival, a model of discipline, and a teacher of righteousness in a world desperate for light.

Through your global outreaches and timeless teachings, millions have found salvation, healing, and purpose. Your example reminds us that it is possible to live above compromise, to serve with humility, and to finish strong.

As you mark this new year, we thank God for your life and pray for continued strength, wisdom, and divine health.

Happy 84th Birthday, Daddy @officialwfkumuyi .
You are deeply loved and greatly honoured.

Celebrating Pastor W.F. Kumuyi at 84

- Dr. Paul Enenche

Today, we celebrate a man whose life has been wholly yielded to God — Pastor William Folorunso Kumuyi.

For 84 years, your unwavering devotion to holiness, truth, and sound doctrine has shaped lives and nations. You have stood as a voice of revival, a model of discipline, and a teacher of righteousness in a world desperate for light.

Through your global outreaches and timeless teachings, millions have found salvation, healing, and purpose. Your example reminds us that it is possible to live above compromise, to serve with humility, and to finish strong.

As you mark this new year, we thank God for your life and pray for continued strength, wisdom, and divine health.

Happy 84th Birthday, Daddy @officialwfkumuyi .
You are deeply loved and greatly honoured.

Celebrating Pastor W.F. Kumuyi at 84

- Dr. Paul Enenche

Today, we celebrate a man whose life has been wholly yielded to God — Pastor William Folorunso Kumuyi.

For 84 years, your unwavering devotion to holiness, truth, and sound doctrine has shaped lives and nations. You have stood as a voice of revival, a model of discipline, and a teacher of righteousness in a world desperate for light.

Through your global outreaches and timeless teachings, millions have found salvation, healing, and purpose. Your example reminds us that it is possible to live above compromise, to serve with humility, and to finish strong.

As you mark this new year, we thank God for your life and pray for continued strength, wisdom, and divine health.

Happy 84th Birthday, Daddy @officialwfkumuyi .
You are deeply loved and greatly honoured.