Success isn’t handed out like a favour. It’s seized with grit, forged in the fire of discipline, and claimed by those who refuse to give up.

It’s not for the faint-hearted or the ones who wait for luck to knock. Success bows to those who chase it relentlessly, who rise every time they fall, who stare failure in the face and still move forward.

The path to greatness is littered with excuses, distractions, and doubts. However, those with iron determination carve their way through. They don’t wait for perfect moments or anyone to make it happen for them. They turn chaos into opportunity.

Success isn’t given; it’s earned, it’s battled for, it’s taken. Survival of the fittest!!!

Two frames, same determination.

Gracious morning to everyone out there chasing their dreams without excuses. Salute 🫡

Let me tell you a story about Love

Title: The Love That Stayed

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In a small town filled with cobblestone streets and blooming jacaranda trees, there lived an old man named Mr. Bello. Every evening at exactly 6 o’clock, he walked the same quiet path through the town square, dressed in his crisp grey suit and holding a fresh bouquet of lilies—his wife's favorite.

He would sit on the same wooden bench, smile gently at the sky, and place the flowers beside him like he was waiting for someone.

People watched him often—some curious, some moved. But no one ever asked, until a little girl named Zina did.

She was just seven, bold and curious, with two braids and a backpack full of questions. She walked up to him one evening and asked, “Why do you bring flowers here every day, sir?”

Mr. Bello looked down at her, a warm smile lighting up his weathered face. “This was where my wife and I met every Sunday for 42 years. Rain or shine, we sat here, talked about everything and nothing, and just… loved.”

“But she’s not here now?” Zina asked softly.

“She passed away five years ago,” he said, his voice calm, like a soft breeze. “But love like ours—it doesn’t end when someone leaves. It stays in the air you shared, in the habits you kept, in the quiet moments that still feel full.”

Zina was quiet for a while. Then she sat beside him and pulled a crumpled flower from her backpack. “It’s not as pretty as yours, but can I leave one too?”

Mr. Bello chuckled, eyes misty. “That would be perfect.”

From that day on, every Sunday, Zina joined him on the bench. They’d talk about life, dreams, and sometimes about his wife—how she laughed with her whole face, how she loved humming while cooking, and how she always said, ‘Real love is the kind that stays even when you can’t see it.’

And so, the bench became more than just a memory. It became a symbol—a little spot in the world where love still lived, blooming in petals, words, and shared silence.

Moral: Love is not only what we say or feel, but what we continue to give—even when the world has changed. True love echoes in how we remember, honor, and pass it on.

Until you are willing to go the extra mile, don't expect the extra grace to work in your life. Do not be discouraged when men mock your dreams. It simply shows that they are blind to your possibilities.
"And Elijah said to him, stay here Elisha, the Lord has sent me to Jericho and he replied; As Surely as the Lord lives and as you live, I will not leave you, so they went to Jericho "(2 kings 2:4).

THE DANGEROUS & COSTLY MISTAKES THAT THE MAJORITY OF GEN Zs' ARE MAKING
TODAY

Let’s be honest — Gen Z is bold, intelligent, creative, and filled with untapped potential. But greatness requires wisdom, discipline, and intentional living. If these mistakes go unchecked, they can sabotage futures before they even begin.

Let’s dive in.

1. LIVING FOR THE INTERNET, NOT FOR IMPACT;

Mistake: Chasing trends instead of transformation.

Wisdom:
In a digital age, it’s tempting to measure worth by likes, followers, and viral moments. But the internet has a short memory. What it remembers are those who made a difference, not those who made noise. Purpose outlives popularity. Build a life that leaves footprints, not just impressions.

Key Thought:
Legacy matters more than likes.

2. MOCKING THE PROCESS, BUT DESIRING THE RESULT;

Mistake: Entitlement without effort.

Wisdom:
You can’t harvest where you haven’t sown. Many want a millionaire lifestyle without embracing a laborer’s discipline. Mocking the hustle while coveting the reward is a self-inflicted curse. Every result you admire was born in hidden, hard places. Embrace the grind — it’s the gate to greatness.

Key Thought:
Desire must be matched by discipline.

3. REPLACING HARD WORK WITH AESTHETICS;

Mistake: Valuing appearance over substance.

Wisdom:
Looking wealthy is not being wealthy. Flaunting lifestyles you haven’t earned is deception to self and others. Clothes, cars, and curated feeds can’t cover empty bank accounts and shallow legacies. Invest your time in developing skills, building assets, and adding value. Substance sustains — aesthetics fade.

Key Thought:
Image fades, value endures.

4. PRIORITIZING FUN OVER FOUNDATION;

Mistake: Sacrificing tomorrow for temporary thrills.

Wisdom:
Youth is a gift, but what you do with it is your offering to the future. Fun has its place, but when pleasure takes priority over preparation, destruction is near. Lay a solid foundation now — in character, skills, relationships, and spiritual depth. Fun without foresight is fatal.

Key Thought:
Your future is the harvest of today’s habits.

5. THINKING YOU STILL HAVE TIME;

Mistake: Delaying destiny.

Wisdom:
Time waits for no one. While you hesitate, someone else your age is already leading, building, and shaping history. Starting early is an advantage, not a burden. Greatness isn’t scheduled for the future — it begins the moment you decide to grow. Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time.’ It doesn’t exist.

Key Thought:
The earlier you start, the stronger you finish.

6. TALKING MORE THAN DOING;

Mistake: Replacing execution with inspiration.

Wisdom:
Inspiration is everywhere, but action is rare. The gap between your dreams and your reality is called discipline. Stop being a motivational addict and start being a transformational leader. Speak less, do more. Let your results be louder than your quotes.

Key Thought:
Execution outperforms excitement.

7. RUNNING FROM CORRECTION;

Mistake: Canceling accountability.

Wisdom:
Correction is not rejection; it’s protection. Those who tell you uncomfortable truths are your true allies. Surrounding yourself with only those who applaud you is the fastest road to destruction. Value mentors, accept rebuke, and welcome growth conversations. Pride resists correction — wisdom craves it.

Key Thought:
Correction today saves catastrophe tomorrow.

8. CONFUSING ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION;

Mistake: Seeking applause over authentic connection.

Wisdom:
The culture rewards clout-chasing, but attention is shallow currency. Don’t dress, speak, or live for applause while starving for meaning. Real affection is built on character, trust, and value — not viral trends. Pursue depth over display. Attention fades fast; authentic relationships last.

Key Thought:
Be known for who you are, not just what you show.

9. BELIEVING YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO FALL;

Mistake: Assuming immunity because of early success.

Wisdom:
Success without humility is a ticking time bomb. No one is untouchable. Pride blinds, and it always precedes a fall. Stay teachable, stay grounded. Let your head bow as your platform rises. Arrogance disqualifies faster than ignorance.

Key Thought:
Success unmanaged is a silent threat.

10. SLEEPING ON YOUR GIFTS;

Mistake: Letting fear bury potential.

Wisdom:
Talent unused is purpose wasted. The world doesn’t need another copy, it needs the original you. Stop hiding behind fear, perfectionism, or excuses. Wake up your gifts. Refuse to be buried with your greatness still locked inside you.

Key Thought:
Unused potential is a tragedy.

FINAL CHARGE TO GEN Z;

You are the future, but only if you survive the present. Refuse to let laziness, entitlement, pride, or fear sabotage your destiny. The world is watching — but more importantly, your generation is counting on you.

Rise with wisdom. Build with intention. Lead with humility.

Your future isn’t promised, it’s prepared. Start now.

70 hours. One board. A million dreams. And I’m one of them.

This is more than just chess; it’s hope, courage, and purpose coming alive. I’m honoured to be one of the kids representing @chessinslums, Nigeria and Africa at large in this incredible challenge.
@Tunde_OD

FACTS OF LlFE

1. Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide.

2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.

3. When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones.

4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.

5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge.

6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.

7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.

8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere.

9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.

10. You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.

11. If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven't done much today.

12. If you don't build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

13. If you don't climb the mountain; you can't view the plain.

14. Don't leave it idle - use your brain.

15. You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.

16. It is not what you don't have that limits you; it is what you have but don't know how to use.

17. What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.

18. The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.

19. If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool...... Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.

20. Honesty is an expensive gift; don't expect it from cheap people.

STAY BLESSED

It begins
For the dreamers

#70hourschessmarathon
The One Who Wears Big Caps for Little Children.

These are my final thoughts before I hand over my phone to management. The team says I need to sleep.
But before the world goes quiet around me, allow me say a few things…

It’s my second time doing this insane thing of trying to break a world record.
You’d think it would be easier now,after all I’ve done it before. But that’s the thing about impossible things:
The first time, you survive them because you don’t yet understand the cost.
Now that I’m fully aware of the exertion it takes both physically and mentally, I’m equal parts excited and terrified. I embrace both.

Today I’ll tell you why I always wear a cap…

The night before I left Nigeria for this journey, something happened.

It was 9pm on a Tuesday night.
I was at the mall picking up some last-minute items.
Two boys, scruffy and barefoot approached me at the car park.
They were hungry and hadn’t eaten all day.
I asked their names.
“Yusuff,” said one. “Ayomide,” said the other.  Both young teenagers.
As I turned to check for cash in the car, the light hit my face and Yusuff immediately recognized me and blurted out “Chess players observe,”
I was stunned.
That was our mantra at Chess in Slums, it was what we taught the kids. I asked how he knew this, he explained that he had seen me months prior at their ghetto.
This made sense as we had spent the entire month of December teaching chess and maths to street children in that ghetto. Yusuff wasn’t part of the training but on the day of the final tournament, he watched from a distance as the other kids chanted “chess players observe”. It stayed with him ever since.

He told me his story.
His mother died during childbirth. His father disappeared.
He lived with his ailing grandmother for sometime but had to leave for the streets to fend for himself. It’s been five years of trying to survive in his own
Five years of growing up too fast…He is 15 years old now.

Then, something surreal happened.

A white Range Rover pulled up beside us.
A woman rolled down the window, “Chess master!” she called out.
She stepped out with her son Jayden.
Impeccably dressed. British accent.
She wanted a photo. Jayden loves chess.
She’s a fan.

So there they stood, Jayden and Yusuff.
Both teenagers.
One in branded sneakers. The other barefoot.
One polished by privilege. The other hardened by survival.

As I asked them to introduce themselves,
Yusuff’s confidence crumbled.
He looked down. His voice faltered.

I took a selfie with Jayden and his Mum, and as they drove off I had my epiphany….

And in that moment, I saw it:
The cruel reality of the world we live in
where a boy like Jayden and a boy like Yusuff would never meet
except by accident or because I happened to stand between them.

But what separated them wasn’t merit or character, It was birth. The arbitrary lottery that decides who gets to dream,
and who must survive.

Jayden will likely go on to attend the best schools, see the world, and live fully. While
Yusuff probably ends up doing the bidding of whoever can promise him his next meal.
An Area boy.

I have met thousands of bright eyed children like Yusuffs in this life, whose pain is invisible, and by no fault of theirs live in a world where their suffering doesn’t matter.
Sometimes, we save them.
Sometimes, we fail.
But I will never stop carrying this burden in my heart.

This is why I wear big caps for little children and wear one my self.
So the world may see them in all their colors, not for the suffering they bear,
but for what I know they can truly become.

I hope have shared this burden with you as honestly as I could.
If you ever believed in me, believe in them.
Cheer for them. Donate. Share. Amplify.
We are trying to build the largest free school in Africa.
A sanctuary for every child like Yusuff
where their dreams won’t die quietly.

I do this so their dreams may find validation in my sacrifice.

I have to go now, big day ahead. Gotta make it count.

LESSONS FROM LIFE...

1. Not everyone will clap for you when you succeed. Do it for yourself, not for validation.

2. Holding grudges is like carrying extra weight on a long journey. Let it go and move lighter.

3. A partner who genuinely supports you is a blessing—don't take them for granted.

4. The biggest mistake you can make is lying to yourself. Be honest, even when it's uncomfortable.

5. If you're the one people rely on, don't expect the same from those who depend on others.

6. Focus on your dreams, not on impressing people.

7. Your 20s are for building, your 30s for enjoying the foundation you laid. Make the right investments.

8. Peace is priceless. Let go of anything that steals it.

9. Silence is a weapon. Use it wisely.

10. Take care of yourself. Looking good isn’t about showing off, it’s about self-respect.

11. Some people will root for your failure because they feel stuck in their own lives. Ignore them.

12. Being kind is great, but don’t let people take advantage of you.

13. Losing people isn’t always a loss. Losing yourself while trying to please them is.

14. Keep your moves quiet until they’re finalized. Premature announcements invite unnecessary energy.

15. Love wisely. Heartbreak is expensive—therapy isn't cheap.

16. Your mindset shapes your reality. Keep it positive.

17. Social media is full of illusions. Don’t let it make you envy a life that isn’t real.

18. Treat yourself on your birthday. No one owes you a celebration.

19. Fear is the biggest barrier between you and success. Take the risk.

20. Rushing the process will only ruin your progress. Trust the timing of your life.

21. Some people aren’t worth reaching out to, even in desperation. Choose your sources wisely.

22. Skills and knowledge are investments that will never fail you. Keep learning.

23. Love with wisdom, not blindness. Protect your heart.

24. Be your own biggest supporter. You’ll always have yourself.

25. Some people return just to see if you’re still naive.

EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN, YOU TRANSFER POWER — WHO'S WINNING?

A Brutal Post About How Careless Sex Is Weakening Men More Than They Realize

Most men don’t understand this…

Sex is not just physical.
It’s transactional.
It’s spiritual.
It’s energetic.

Every time you have sex, especially as a man —
Something leaves you.

You’re either building your strength or draining it.
You’re either transferring power, or receiving poison.

Let’s break it down:

1. Sex Is Energy Exchange — Not Just Pleasure

When you climax as a man, you don’t just release semen —
You release life force.

The same drive that builds empires, creates inventions, and conquers nations —
You’re releasing it into random women you don’t even respect.

And you wonder why you feel tired, foggy, unmotivated…
Check your body count.

2. Not Every Woman Deserves Access to Your Power

Some women carry peace.
Some carry confusion.
Some carry grace.
Others carry destruction.

But when you’re lust-driven, you’ll sleep with anything in a skirt —
And wonder why your life is going backward.

Sex doesn’t just feel good. It plants seeds.

You might be planting vision into the wrong soil.

3. Women Receive — Men Release

It’s biological.
She gets filled.
You get emptied.

That’s not just about sperm — it’s about power.

The more careless you are with your sexual energy,
The weaker your focus, your discipline, and your drive becomes.

You’re draining yourself for free… and calling it “enjoyment.”

4. Sexual Discipline Is Masculine Strength

Any man can chase women.
But a real man controls himself.

While others are busy chasing sex,
You’re chasing wealth, purpose, legacy, and influence.

That’s how kings think.

Your d*ck is not a compass — stop letting it lead your life.

5. You Are Becoming the Women You Sleep With

Yes. That’s real.

You’re exchanging spirits, mindsets, and even emotional baggage.

You may think it’s just a quickie,
But you don’t know what demons she’s carrying.

Now you’re battling depression, laziness, addiction…
And it all started the night you “just wanted to relax.”

6. You Can’t Be Focused and Sex-Obsessed

Sex on the brain? Vision will suffer.
Always in a woman’s DMs? Bank account will suffer.
Too many women in rotation? Your name, health, and peace will suffer.

Your greatest distractions will often come with curves.
And if you’re not smart, you’ll trade your future for thighs.

7. Power Leaks in Pleasure

Every time you finish inside the wrong woman,
You finish a part of your ambition.

And guess what?
You’re empowering her… and disempowering yourself.

She gets free resources.
You get delayed dreams.

She gets emotional attachment.
You get emotional confusion.

You’re transferring power — but you’re not getting any back.

8. The Strongest Men Aren’t the Most Sexually Active — They’re the Most Disciplined

Do you know what turns a man into a king?
Not money. Not women.
Control.

When you can master your urges,
You can master your life.

If your penis controls you,
You are not a man — you are a slave with WiFi.

9. Stop Empowering Women Who Do Nothing but Drain You

She has no plan.
No purpose.
No values.
Just vibes, makeup, and waist.

And you’re giving her all your energy?

You’re investing your masculine power into a human distraction.
And wondering why you're stagnant?

10. Before You Enter Her Body, Ask Yourself:

What am I entering into?
Is this going to elevate me or destroy me?

Am I giving my power to a queen — or a crisis?

Because every sexual act is not just about pleasure —
It’s an agreement.

Some of you are in spiritual contracts you never signed in prayer —
You signed with your pants down.

BOTTOM LINE:

You’re a king.
Stop acting like a stray dog.

Preserve your energy.
Value your seed.
Respect your mission.

Because every time you have sex —
You transfer power.

The question is: Who’s winning? You or her?

THE MAKING OF MEN..
Gen 1:26-28, Eph 2:10
Every man was created for a purpose and it was for you to be in the duty of Responsibilities..

The major Purpose of God creating man aside worship is to be in
In charge
Take charge
Dominate
Rule
"TO BE A LEADER"...
Add as much as you know to it..

Note: God can not fulfill your destiny for you,he can only help you to fulfill destinies..

KEYS TO BECOMING AND REMAINING A LEADER..
1. VISION..
Leadership is conceived when a person's mental photograph(Vision) of a future that incorporate his purpose becomes more important to him than the pleasure of the present..

Note: When an individual captures his vision it's begins to stairs the heart of the multitudes..

The truth is! Nobody wants to follow the person who is going no where!! Prov 29:18

Vision validate leadership,It explains the existence of leadership..

Without vision leadership is invalid and unnecessary

Remember! when vision is lost a leader dies!!
For every vision to stand the test of time...it must be Sustained...

HOW TO SUSTAIN A VISION
HABAKUK 2:2-3

1. CAPTURE YOUR VISION
2. REFINE YOUR VISION
3. PLAN YOUR VISION
4. SIMPLIFY YOUR VISION
5. DOCUMENT YOUR VISION
6. COMMUNICATE YOUR VISION
7. LIVE YOUR VISION
8. MAINTAIN YOUR VISION

2. INSPIRATION
Dreams, Vision and Leadership becomes unrealistic when it begins or lacks inspiration...

The fuel that fan a leader to flame is inspiration.

Leadership(Leader) dies when inspiration dies..

when the power of inspiration becomes potent in any leader he begins to re-order his personal priorities..

When a leader lacks inspiration he begins to "expire" when he begins to expire He begins to manipulate people.

And A true leader does not manipulate people,he inspire people...

3. COMMITMENT
No leadership (LEADER)survives without personal sacrifice and Dedication..

The hight at which your commitment stop is the level at which your responsibilities ends
To be Continued...

Any Woman That Will Make You Successful Carries These 7 Signs

Not every woman you see on the street is headed the same way you are heading. Some women come to distract, some come to destroy, and others will come to damage.

There are a few rare ones, sent to build, to bless, and to bring out the king in you.

Here’s how you’ll know her:

She believes in your dreams

Even when they look crazy to others, she sees your potential. She doesn't laugh at your vision, she reminds you of it when you start forgetting who you are.

She prays for you

Even when you don’t know it. In silence and in secret, she lifts your name up to God, covering your battles with faith and not fear. A praying woman is a powerful partner.

She pushes you to grow

She won’t let you settle. She challenges your comfort zone with love, because she sees what you can become. Growth is never easy, but she makes it worth it.

She speaks life into you

When the world tears you down, she builds you up with her words. She reminds you of your strength, your vision, and your value, not just with sweet talk, but with truth.

She respects your hustle

She understands your grind, your long nights, your silent battles. She doesn’t compare you to others, she celebrates your efforts and your process.

She brings peace, not pressure

Her presence feels like calm in a storm. She's not in competition with your purpose; she aligns with it. She doesn’t drain your energy, she restores it.

She loves you into purpose, not just into pleasure

She’s not just there for the good times or for what she can get. She’s invested in your becoming. She helps you walk in your calling, even when it’s hard.

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Your success as a man will greatly be influenced by who you marry. One mistake, and everything you've built will collapse in seconds.

All dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. ..Watt Disney