• To all mothers:
    When you are privileged to become a grand mum,
    Please love your grand children equally.
    Your son's children from someone else's daughter is equally your grand children and deserves equal love.
    To all mothers: When you are privileged to become a grand mum, Please love your grand children equally. Your son's children from someone else's daughter is equally your grand children and deserves equal love.
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  • *What to Have Before You Become a Wife *

    Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire.

    But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience.

    So before you become a wife; Have

    1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself

    Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions.

    Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else.

    Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself.

    Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure.

    2. Emotional Maturity

    Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love?

    In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband.
    There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills.

    Learn Good Communication Skills too.

    Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man.

    Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough.

    Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence.

    A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom.

    3. Financial Wisdom

    You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that.

    You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally.

    Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you

    Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both.

    Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain!



    4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life

    What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose?

    Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife?

    It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision.

    Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep.

    If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met.

    Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort.


    5. Sound Marital Knowledge

    You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage?

    In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent.

    You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it.

    You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible.

    All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing

    Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ?

    Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront.

    Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can.

    6. Healing from Past Wounds

    Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage.

    Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married.

    Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage.

    Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow.

    7. The Right Community

    Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage.

    Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage.

    Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them.


    8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility

    Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed?

    Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them.
    Start building them now— the right habits.

    Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids.

    9. Hobbies and Passions

    In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow.

    Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season.

    When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home.

    10. A Prayer Life

    Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God.

    A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan.

    A kneeling woman is a winning woman!


    Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it.

    Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole.

    So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman.

    A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key.

    Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it.

    Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED , not to be ENDURED .

    You are worth the wait. PEACE!
    *What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️
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    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
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  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U

    Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share..
    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
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    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
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  • 1st Corinthians 15: 33
    Says do not be fooled ,bad companions ruins good character
    Be mindful of the type of companion you keep , your children keep.
    1st Corinthians 15: 33 Says do not be fooled ,bad companions ruins good character Be mindful of the type of companion you keep , your children keep.
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  • Check your wife.
    Not just if she’s okay, but really okay.

    Did she eat today?
    Did she get to rest, or did she spend the day chasing little feet and cleaning up little messes?
    Did she get a moment of silence, or was her head filled with crying, calling, and chaos?

    Check her heart.
    Is it heavy? Is she overwhelmed but doesn’t want to bother anyone with her feelings?
    Is she tired of being strong all the time?

    Check her eyes.
    Are they tired from all the things she’s trying to hold together?
    Are they longing for a little affection, appreciation, or just a simple, “Thank you, love”?

    Check your wife.
    She’s not just the mother of your children,
    She’s still the woman who once dreamed of her own life too.

    And sometimes, all she needs is someone to say,
    “Love, I see you. I’m proud of you. How can I help you today?”
    Check your wife. Not just if she’s okay, but really okay. Did she eat today? Did she get to rest, or did she spend the day chasing little feet and cleaning up little messes? Did she get a moment of silence, or was her head filled with crying, calling, and chaos? Check her heart. Is it heavy? Is she overwhelmed but doesn’t want to bother anyone with her feelings? Is she tired of being strong all the time? Check her eyes. Are they tired from all the things she’s trying to hold together? Are they longing for a little affection, appreciation, or just a simple, “Thank you, love”? Check your wife. She’s not just the mother of your children, She’s still the woman who once dreamed of her own life too. And sometimes, all she needs is someone to say, “Love, I see you. I’m proud of you. How can I help you today?”
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  • Malia, daughter of former U.S. President Barack Obama is making headlines after choosing to drop her famous last name. Now going simply by Malia, the 25-year-old’s decision has gone viral, sparking widespread debate.

    While many noted her striking resemblance to her mother Michelle Obama, it’s her move to distance herself from the Obama name that’s grabbing attention.

    Michelle Obama once said, “It is very important for my kids to feel they have earned what they are getting in the world… They don’t want people to assume they don’t work hard & are just handed things.” Online reactions have been mixed

    Some support her desire for independence, while others see it as a rejection of her father’s legacy. One user commented, “Sucks to be a father & build a legacy just to have your children abandon your name.”

    Another wrote, “White dynasties don’t do this — Bush, Kennedy, Trump… why are we always doing the most?” Despite the criticism, many admire her effort to carve her own path — with or without the Obama surname
    Malia, daughter of former U.S. President Barack Obama is making headlines after choosing to drop her famous last name. Now going simply by Malia, the 25-year-old’s decision has gone viral, sparking widespread debate. While many noted her striking resemblance to her mother Michelle Obama, it’s her move to distance herself from the Obama name that’s grabbing attention. Michelle Obama once said, “It is very important for my kids to feel they have earned what they are getting in the world… They don’t want people to assume they don’t work hard & are just handed things.” Online reactions have been mixed Some support her desire for independence, while others see it as a rejection of her father’s legacy. One user commented, “Sucks to be a father & build a legacy just to have your children abandon your name.” Another wrote, “White dynasties don’t do this — Bush, Kennedy, Trump… why are we always doing the most?” Despite the criticism, many admire her effort to carve her own path — with or without the Obama surname
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  • Seasoning Cubes Are Slowly Damaging Your Liver.
    Let’s stop pretending.
    Those cubes you throw into every pot?
    They’re not spice—they’re sabotage.
    They’re lab chemicals, designed to trick your tongue into thinking you’re eating something flavorful.
    But what they’re really doing is hijacking your brain and exhausting your liver.
    Let me break it down.
    Most of your beloved cubes are loaded with MSG (monosodium glutamate)—
    Yes, the same stuff that overstimulates your nervous system and can make you feel tired, anxious, bloated, and addicted to junk.
    That’s not all.
    Here’s the cocktail hiding inside each cube:
    —Artificial flavor enhancers
    —Refined salt (not sea salt o, the cheap one)
    —Chemical preservatives
    —Hydrogenated oils
    —Synthetic coloring agents
    Now imagine you’re cooking with this cocktail every single day.
    Rice? Add it.
    Stew? Two cubes.
    Egusi? Add more.
    Beans? Spaghetti? Okro?
    Na cube cube cube.
    You’re not seasoning food anymore.
    You’re seasoning disease.
    Your liver and kidneys are breaking their back trying to detox what you keep willingly swallowing.
    Then you say it’s “spiritual attack.”
    No, my dear.
    It might be that cube in your pot that’s been fighting your health since 2005.
    And worst of all?
    You’re raising your children on it.
    You’re shaping their tongue to crave fake flavors and hate real food.
    You’re teaching their taste buds addiction, not nourishment.
    So, what do you use instead?
    Real ingredients that your ancestors thrived on:
    Garlic. Ginger. Onions. Locust beans (iru).
    Curry. Thyme. Fresh pepper. Scent leaf.
    Salt your food with wisdom—not shortcuts.
    Make your own seasoning.
    Give your liver peace.
    Let your tongue taste truth.
    Seasoning Cubes Are Slowly Damaging Your Liver. Let’s stop pretending. Those cubes you throw into every pot? They’re not spice—they’re sabotage. They’re lab chemicals, designed to trick your tongue into thinking you’re eating something flavorful. But what they’re really doing is hijacking your brain and exhausting your liver. Let me break it down. Most of your beloved cubes are loaded with MSG (monosodium glutamate)— Yes, the same stuff that overstimulates your nervous system and can make you feel tired, anxious, bloated, and addicted to junk. That’s not all. Here’s the cocktail hiding inside each cube: —Artificial flavor enhancers —Refined salt (not sea salt o, the cheap one) —Chemical preservatives —Hydrogenated oils —Synthetic coloring agents Now imagine you’re cooking with this cocktail every single day. Rice? Add it. Stew? Two cubes. Egusi? Add more. Beans? Spaghetti? Okro? Na cube cube cube. You’re not seasoning food anymore. You’re seasoning disease. Your liver and kidneys are breaking their back trying to detox what you keep willingly swallowing. Then you say it’s “spiritual attack.” No, my dear. It might be that cube in your pot that’s been fighting your health since 2005. And worst of all? You’re raising your children on it. You’re shaping their tongue to crave fake flavors and hate real food. You’re teaching their taste buds addiction, not nourishment. So, what do you use instead? Real ingredients that your ancestors thrived on: Garlic. Ginger. Onions. Locust beans (iru). Curry. Thyme. Fresh pepper. Scent leaf. Salt your food with wisdom—not shortcuts. Make your own seasoning. Give your liver peace. Let your tongue taste truth.
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  • The most intelligent family in England and certainly in the world, is African and originally from Nigeria. They are in the Guinness Book of Records as the most intelligent family in England.

    In the Imafidon family, there are twins Peter and Paula, who obtained the equivalent of high school at the age of 9 and became the youngest to attend the University of Cambridge, where they broke the record for mathematics at this university.

    In addition, both are national champions in sports disciplines. The funny thing is that this record was brought before them by their older sister Cristina Imafidon, who had obtained high school at the age of 11 and at 14 was pursuing a masters degree in mathematics and statistics.

    But this is not all, there is also sister Samantha Imafidon who was in 3rd grade at 8 years old. And who is the UK national 100m champion? Imafidon children break all records.His father is a famous professor at Oxford University
    The most intelligent family in England and certainly in the world, is African and originally from Nigeria. They are in the Guinness Book of Records as the most intelligent family in England. In the Imafidon family, there are twins Peter and Paula, who obtained the equivalent of high school at the age of 9 and became the youngest to attend the University of Cambridge, where they broke the record for mathematics at this university. In addition, both are national champions in sports disciplines. The funny thing is that this record was brought before them by their older sister Cristina Imafidon, who had obtained high school at the age of 11 and at 14 was pursuing a masters degree in mathematics and statistics. But this is not all, there is also sister Samantha Imafidon who was in 3rd grade at 8 years old. And who is the UK national 100m champion? Imafidon children break all records.His father is a famous professor at Oxford University
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  • *NB* Today, we are praying for our children and all your descendants.

    Jeremiah 29:11: Pray for God's plans for their future.

    Matthew 5:16: Pray for them to be a light to the world through their actions.

    Psalm 139:13-14: Pray for them to know their worth and that they are fearfully and wonderfully made.

    Psalm 32:8: Pray for God to instruct and guide them.

    Philippians 1:6: Pray for God to complete the good work He has begun in them.
    Romans 8:11: Pray for the Spirit of God to live in them.

    1 Corinthians 15:57: Pray for victory in Christ.

    Blessings🙏🏾
    *NB* Today, we are praying for our children and all your descendants. 🌼Jeremiah 29:11: Pray for God's plans for their future. 🌸Matthew 5:16: Pray for them to be a light to the world through their actions. 🌼Psalm 139:13-14: Pray for them to know their worth and that they are fearfully and wonderfully made. 🌸Psalm 32:8: Pray for God to instruct and guide them. 🌼Philippians 1:6: Pray for God to complete the good work He has begun in them. 🌸Romans 8:11: Pray for the Spirit of God to live in them. 🌼 1 Corinthians 15:57: Pray for victory in Christ. Blessings🙏🏾
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  • SEE WHAT A SLAY QUEEN NEIGHBOR DOES WITH HER NEIGHBORS' SON
    Episode 3

    Life was slowly beginning to change for Kobe after Auntie Merera’s arrest. The house felt different now. Even though his parents tried their best to smile and joke with him, Kobe could still feel the heavy silence in the air. Sometimes, he would wake up at night to hear his mother crying softly in the living room, whispering prayers for him.

    The once lively Kobe was still struggling to return fully to the boy he had been. His nightmares were frequent — dreams where he would find himself trapped in Auntie Merera’s house, unable to escape no matter how loudly he screamed.

    One afternoon, as Kobe sat quietly drawing pictures at the dining table, his father, Mr. Omari, came and sat beside him.

    "Kobe," he said gently, "do you want to talk to Daddy about anything?"

    Kobe put down his pencil and looked into his father's eyes. For the first time in months, he felt safe. But instead of speaking, he burst into tears. Mr. Omari immediately pulled him into a warm hug and allowed him to cry as much as he wanted. He did not interrupt him. He just held him tightly, rocking him gently.

    From that day, Mr. and Mrs. Omari enrolled Kobe in a counseling center specifically for children who had faced trauma. It was there Kobe met Miss Clara, a young, friendly therapist who always wore colorful dresses and carried a little teddy bear with her to every session.

    "This bear," Miss Clara would say, handing it to Kobe, "is called Brave. And you, Kobe, are Brave too."

    At first, Kobe would barely speak during sessions, but Miss Clara was patient. Slowly, with time, Kobe began to open up more — not just about Auntie Merera, but about how abandoned he had felt when his parents were always working.

    "I missed you both," Kobe said one evening as his parents sat with him at dinner. "Even before... everything happened."

    Mr. and Mrs. Omari exchanged guilty looks. They realized that while they had been busy trying to secure Kobe’s future, they had neglected his present.

    From that day forward, the Omari family made a new rule:
    Family Time Every Evening.

    No matter how busy work got, no matter how tired they were, they all had to spend two hours every evening together — playing board games, reading stories, cooking, or even just talking.

    Gradually, the deep wounds in Kobe's heart began to heal. The nightmares became fewer. The smiles became more genuine. The bed-wetting reduced until one morning, Kobe woke up to a dry bed for the first time in months.

    "Mummy! Daddy! Come and see!" he shouted excitedly.

    When Mr. and Mrs. Omari rushed into his room and saw the clean sheets, they all burst into laughter and tears. They hugged and danced together right there in Kobe’s room.

    At school, Auntie Anichi continued to check in on him often.

    "Kobe, my champion," she would say, patting his head fondly. "You are so brave. Always remember that."

    Meanwhile, news spread in the community about Auntie Merera’s arrest. Many parents became more cautious, and talks about child protection increased in the neighborhood.

    One Saturday morning, Mr. Omari organized a Community Awareness Meeting at the town hall. He stood before the crowd and spoke from his heart.

    "We almost lost our son," he said with a shaky voice. "We were too busy. Too trusting. And it cost us dearly. Please, let’s not assume that danger only comes from strangers. Sometimes, the greatest danger is someone you trust."

    From that meeting, a new Neighborhood Watch group was formed. Volunteers patrolled after school hours, ensuring that children returned home safely. New rules were set: no child would stay alone with any adult without parental permission. The community finally woke up.

    But despite the healing happening in Kobe's life, there was still one loose end — the court case.

    Kobe was called to testify in court against Auntie Merera. It was a terrifying thought for a 10-year-old, but with Miss Clara and Auntie Anichi’s help, he prepared bravely.

    The day he entered the courtroom, he felt his heart thudding heavily in his chest. Auntie Merera sat there, dressed simply, looking nothing like the happy neighbor he had once known.

    "Kobe," the judge said kindly, "just tell us the truth. You are safe here."

    With trembling hands but a strong voice, Kobe narrated everything — from the beginning to the end. Every adult in the courtroom listened in stunned silence. Some mothers sobbed quietly. Some men clenched their fists in anger.

    By the end of the trial, Auntie Merera was found guilty of child sexual assault and sentenced to twenty-five years in prison with no option of parole.

    It was over.

    Really over.

    As Kobe walked out of the courtroom, he felt the heavy burden that had been sitting on his chest lift for the first time. He was free.

    Months passed.

    Kobe returned fully to the vibrant boy he had once been — excelling in school, winning medals in soccer, laughing freely with his friends. He still visited Miss Clara occasionally, but it was now for happy talks, not heavy ones.

    One evening, as he sat outside with his parents, looking at the sunset, he smiled and said, "I'm happy again."

    Mr. and Mrs. Omari looked at each other with tears in their eyes, and his mother whispered, "Thank you, God, for giving us our son back."

    To be continued...

    To Be continued.....
    SEE WHAT A SLAY QUEEN NEIGHBOR DOES WITH HER NEIGHBORS' SON Episode 3 Life was slowly beginning to change for Kobe after Auntie Merera’s arrest. The house felt different now. Even though his parents tried their best to smile and joke with him, Kobe could still feel the heavy silence in the air. Sometimes, he would wake up at night to hear his mother crying softly in the living room, whispering prayers for him. The once lively Kobe was still struggling to return fully to the boy he had been. His nightmares were frequent — dreams where he would find himself trapped in Auntie Merera’s house, unable to escape no matter how loudly he screamed. One afternoon, as Kobe sat quietly drawing pictures at the dining table, his father, Mr. Omari, came and sat beside him. "Kobe," he said gently, "do you want to talk to Daddy about anything?" Kobe put down his pencil and looked into his father's eyes. For the first time in months, he felt safe. But instead of speaking, he burst into tears. Mr. Omari immediately pulled him into a warm hug and allowed him to cry as much as he wanted. He did not interrupt him. He just held him tightly, rocking him gently. From that day, Mr. and Mrs. Omari enrolled Kobe in a counseling center specifically for children who had faced trauma. It was there Kobe met Miss Clara, a young, friendly therapist who always wore colorful dresses and carried a little teddy bear with her to every session. "This bear," Miss Clara would say, handing it to Kobe, "is called Brave. And you, Kobe, are Brave too." At first, Kobe would barely speak during sessions, but Miss Clara was patient. Slowly, with time, Kobe began to open up more — not just about Auntie Merera, but about how abandoned he had felt when his parents were always working. "I missed you both," Kobe said one evening as his parents sat with him at dinner. "Even before... everything happened." Mr. and Mrs. Omari exchanged guilty looks. They realized that while they had been busy trying to secure Kobe’s future, they had neglected his present. From that day forward, the Omari family made a new rule: Family Time Every Evening. No matter how busy work got, no matter how tired they were, they all had to spend two hours every evening together — playing board games, reading stories, cooking, or even just talking. Gradually, the deep wounds in Kobe's heart began to heal. The nightmares became fewer. The smiles became more genuine. The bed-wetting reduced until one morning, Kobe woke up to a dry bed for the first time in months. "Mummy! Daddy! Come and see!" he shouted excitedly. When Mr. and Mrs. Omari rushed into his room and saw the clean sheets, they all burst into laughter and tears. They hugged and danced together right there in Kobe’s room. At school, Auntie Anichi continued to check in on him often. "Kobe, my champion," she would say, patting his head fondly. "You are so brave. Always remember that." Meanwhile, news spread in the community about Auntie Merera’s arrest. Many parents became more cautious, and talks about child protection increased in the neighborhood. One Saturday morning, Mr. Omari organized a Community Awareness Meeting at the town hall. He stood before the crowd and spoke from his heart. "We almost lost our son," he said with a shaky voice. "We were too busy. Too trusting. And it cost us dearly. Please, let’s not assume that danger only comes from strangers. Sometimes, the greatest danger is someone you trust." From that meeting, a new Neighborhood Watch group was formed. Volunteers patrolled after school hours, ensuring that children returned home safely. New rules were set: no child would stay alone with any adult without parental permission. The community finally woke up. But despite the healing happening in Kobe's life, there was still one loose end — the court case. Kobe was called to testify in court against Auntie Merera. It was a terrifying thought for a 10-year-old, but with Miss Clara and Auntie Anichi’s help, he prepared bravely. The day he entered the courtroom, he felt his heart thudding heavily in his chest. Auntie Merera sat there, dressed simply, looking nothing like the happy neighbor he had once known. "Kobe," the judge said kindly, "just tell us the truth. You are safe here." With trembling hands but a strong voice, Kobe narrated everything — from the beginning to the end. Every adult in the courtroom listened in stunned silence. Some mothers sobbed quietly. Some men clenched their fists in anger. By the end of the trial, Auntie Merera was found guilty of child sexual assault and sentenced to twenty-five years in prison with no option of parole. It was over. Really over. As Kobe walked out of the courtroom, he felt the heavy burden that had been sitting on his chest lift for the first time. He was free. Months passed. Kobe returned fully to the vibrant boy he had once been — excelling in school, winning medals in soccer, laughing freely with his friends. He still visited Miss Clara occasionally, but it was now for happy talks, not heavy ones. One evening, as he sat outside with his parents, looking at the sunset, he smiled and said, "I'm happy again." Mr. and Mrs. Omari looked at each other with tears in their eyes, and his mother whispered, "Thank you, God, for giving us our son back." To be continued... To Be continued.....
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  • SIGNS THAT HE WILL MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND:

    1. "HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS ADMIRABLE DAD"

    If his dad is a good husband and father and he looks up to his dad, chances are he will be like his dad

    2. "HE SEPARATES HIMSELF FROM BAD EXAMPLES"

    If his father was absent in his life or his father did things he is ashamed of, he grows up forgiving his dad, respecting his dad but also not wanting to be like his dad

    3. "HE MENTORS AND TEACHES MEN YOUNGER THAN HIM"

    A man who mentors others pushes himself to always be a good example

    4. "HE IS NOT SWAYED BY PUBLIC PRESSURE"

    In marriage, many men mess up their families because of following trends, pressure to please friends or wanting to project a certain image to fit in society

    5. "HIS CLOSE MALE FRIENDS ARE OF GOOD REPUTE"

    Look at the company he keeps close; that will indicate the caliber of man he is

    6. "HE TREATS EVERY WOMAN WITH RESPECT"

    Be suspicious of a man who treats his woman well but treats other women like crap; soon, he will treat his woman like crap

    7. "HE IS GOOD WITH CHILDREN EVEN THOSE NOT HIS"

    How he values and is responsible with other people's children prepares himself to value his own

    8. "HE IS PROTECTIVE OF HIS NAME"

    A man who upholds his name will keep a good character, after all, the wife and children will carry his name

    9. "MARRIAGE IS HIS IDEA TOO"

    Many men are forced into marriage, either because the woman got pregnant or the woman pressured him to propose to her after they dated for so long. Is it his idea to marry you lady, or is it only yours? A man who willfully pursues a woman to marry her and is the one excited about marriage will almost certainly make sure he lives up to being a good husband. Where a man takes himself he performs well and gives his all

    10. "HE LIVED AN HONOURABLE LIFE AS A SINGLE MAN"

    A single man who lives in a manner that shows he is keeping and preparing himself for that one special woman will make a good husband. To him, being a husband is a big deal

    11. "HE TREATS THE LADY WELL AS THEY DATE"

    A man who acts like a faithful husband even before he marries the woman will make a good husband. But if he is insulting her, cheating on her, rejecting her and taking her for granted when they are dating; he will most likely insult her, cheat on her, reject her and take her for granted when married

    12. "HE TREATS HIS MOTHER WITH LOVE AND RESPECT”

    A man who appreciates his mother will appreciate his wife

    13. "HE LOVES GOD"

    Marriage is God's idea. A man who wants to engage in this idea led by the Creator of this idea will strive to please God. The more a man loves God, the more he loves his wife

    14. "HE SEES THE WOMAN AS AN EQUAL PARTNER"

    This kind of man will not dictate or lord over the woman, it will not always be his way, he will consult his wife, learn from her and teach her too

    15. "HE IS HER BEST FRIEND"

    Lady, if he is not only your lover but your best friend too, he will be a best friend till the end.; best friends are real with each other, honest, loyal, fun, thoughtful. Take away the romance and things that lovers do, are you and him best friends?

    16. "HE USES HIS PAST TO LEARN"

    Maybe he messed up in his past relationships, or his past relationships taught him alot. If he paid attention to the lessons learned, he will be a wise husband

    17. "HE IS DISCIPLINED"

    A man who has control over himself will make a good husband. He is not given to addictions. How can a man lead a family, if he cannot lead himself?

    May such man be your portion.

    God bless you.
    SIGNS THAT HE WILL MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND: 1. "HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS ADMIRABLE DAD" If his dad is a good husband and father and he looks up to his dad, chances are he will be like his dad 2. "HE SEPARATES HIMSELF FROM BAD EXAMPLES" If his father was absent in his life or his father did things he is ashamed of, he grows up forgiving his dad, respecting his dad but also not wanting to be like his dad 3. "HE MENTORS AND TEACHES MEN YOUNGER THAN HIM" A man who mentors others pushes himself to always be a good example 4. "HE IS NOT SWAYED BY PUBLIC PRESSURE" In marriage, many men mess up their families because of following trends, pressure to please friends or wanting to project a certain image to fit in society 5. "HIS CLOSE MALE FRIENDS ARE OF GOOD REPUTE" Look at the company he keeps close; that will indicate the caliber of man he is 6. "HE TREATS EVERY WOMAN WITH RESPECT" Be suspicious of a man who treats his woman well but treats other women like crap; soon, he will treat his woman like crap 7. "HE IS GOOD WITH CHILDREN EVEN THOSE NOT HIS" How he values and is responsible with other people's children prepares himself to value his own 8. "HE IS PROTECTIVE OF HIS NAME" A man who upholds his name will keep a good character, after all, the wife and children will carry his name 9. "MARRIAGE IS HIS IDEA TOO" Many men are forced into marriage, either because the woman got pregnant or the woman pressured him to propose to her after they dated for so long. Is it his idea to marry you lady, or is it only yours? A man who willfully pursues a woman to marry her and is the one excited about marriage will almost certainly make sure he lives up to being a good husband. Where a man takes himself he performs well and gives his all 10. "HE LIVED AN HONOURABLE LIFE AS A SINGLE MAN" A single man who lives in a manner that shows he is keeping and preparing himself for that one special woman will make a good husband. To him, being a husband is a big deal 11. "HE TREATS THE LADY WELL AS THEY DATE" A man who acts like a faithful husband even before he marries the woman will make a good husband. But if he is insulting her, cheating on her, rejecting her and taking her for granted when they are dating; he will most likely insult her, cheat on her, reject her and take her for granted when married 12. "HE TREATS HIS MOTHER WITH LOVE AND RESPECT” A man who appreciates his mother will appreciate his wife 13. "HE LOVES GOD" Marriage is God's idea. A man who wants to engage in this idea led by the Creator of this idea will strive to please God. The more a man loves God, the more he loves his wife 14. "HE SEES THE WOMAN AS AN EQUAL PARTNER" This kind of man will not dictate or lord over the woman, it will not always be his way, he will consult his wife, learn from her and teach her too 15. "HE IS HER BEST FRIEND" Lady, if he is not only your lover but your best friend too, he will be a best friend till the end.; best friends are real with each other, honest, loyal, fun, thoughtful. Take away the romance and things that lovers do, are you and him best friends? 16. "HE USES HIS PAST TO LEARN" Maybe he messed up in his past relationships, or his past relationships taught him alot. If he paid attention to the lessons learned, he will be a wise husband 17. "HE IS DISCIPLINED" A man who has control over himself will make a good husband. He is not given to addictions. How can a man lead a family, if he cannot lead himself? May such man be your portion. God bless you.
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  • *Wednesday Wisdom*

    *10 Success and Life Lessons from Billionaire Tyler Perry*
    *And Why Achieving Your Dreams Matters Because Other People's Dreams Depend on It*

    *Written by Dr. Laide Okubena*

    *From Grass to Grace: The Tyler Perry Story*

    Tyler Perry’s journey didn’t begin in luxury, influence, or success. It began in pain, poverty, and a broken home. He was born into a household marred by abuse and trauma. As a child, he endured physical and emotional suffering. In fact, he once legally changed his first name from Emmitt to Tyler to distance himself from his abusive father.

    But amid the storms, Tyler found healing in writing. He started penning letters to himself, a practice inspired by an episode of The Oprah Winfrey Show. Those letters would eventually birth scripts—scripts no one wanted to see at first.

    He lived in his car for months. His plays flopped. Critics dismissed him. Audiences ignored him. But he didn’t give up.

    Fast forward years later—Tyler Perry built a $250 million film studio in Atlanta, Georgia, on what used to be a Confederate military base. That land, once a symbol of slavery, now hosts stories told by a Black man for the world to see. He is not just a filmmaker; he is a movement. He is a billionaire today, not because of luck, but because of relentless persistence.

    *Now, let’s dive into 10 Success and Life Lessons You Can Learn From Tyler Perry:*

    *1. Your Past Doesn’t Define Your Future*

    Tyler’s abusive childhood didn’t stop him from rising. No matter your background, you can re-write your story—one choice at a time.

    *2. Start Small, Dream Big*

    His first play, I Know I’ve Been Changed, had just 30 people in the audience—and many were friends he gave free tickets to. Still, he kept going.

    *3. Believe in What You’re Building Even When No One Else Does*

    When others told him to quit, he reinvested his last savings into another show. That decision changed everything. Faith in your dream must be louder than the noise around you.

    *4. Turn Your Pain Into Purpose*

    He used his trauma as the foundation of his characters, especially Madea—a tough, hilarious woman shaped from the matriarchs in his life. Your deepest wound can be your greatest well of creativity.

    *5. Success is Inevitable When You Refuse to Quit*

    Most people quit when it's hard. Tyler Perry kept showing up when it didn’t make sense. That consistency eventually paid off. Winners keep showing up.

    *6. Ownership is Power*

    *He didn’t wait for Hollywood’s validation.*

    He built his own studio. He owns his content. He licenses, not sells. Never beg for a seat at the table—build your own.

    *7. Your Dream is Bigger Than You*

    Perry said, “While you’re running from your calling, someone is waiting for you to show up.” Your success creates a path for others. Your failure may block them.

    *8. Create Jobs, Not Just Wealth*

    His Atlanta studio employs hundreds of creatives, giving opportunities to actors, set designers, and crew members who might never get a shot in mainstream Hollywood. Be a channel of value, not just a container of money.

    *9. You Are the Brand—Protect It*

    Perry is intentional about his image, values, and mission. Your reputation is the most valuable currency in the long game.

    *10. Stay Humble, Stay Hungry*

    Even after billions, he remains grounded. He still speaks about faith, family, and his humble beginnings. Stay close to your source. The higher you rise, the deeper your roots must be.

    *Why Your Success Matters More Than You Think*

    Someone is praying for you to succeed. Maybe it’s your children watching your every move… maybe it’s a community, or even a stranger you don’t know yet. Tyler Perry’s breakthrough didn’t just benefit him—it broke generational curses for thousands of others.

    Your dream is not selfish—it is sacrificial. Because once you succeed, you make room for others to rise too.

    *Practical Tips From Tyler Perry’s Journey*

    1.Write down your vision daily. Keep it in front of you.

    2.Start with what you have. Don’t wait for perfect conditions.

    3.Be consistent. Show up even when it’s hard.

    4.Own your narrative. Don’t let others define you. Not Even Your Parents should define you or a Pastor or an Imam or Even a Mentor you look up to , it is God that determines what you can become, not an Human being like you.

    5.Turn rejection into redirection.

    6.Invest in yourself. Take that course. Learn that skill.

    7.Build your audience. Don’t chase popularity—grow impact.

    8.Pray or meditate. Stay connected to your center.

    9.Save and reinvest. Use profits to expand your dream.

    10.Lift others as you climb. Success that doesn't empower others is short-lived.

    *Question of the Day*

    What dream are you sitting on right now that could transform lives—if only you dared to pursue it?

    *Task of the Day*

    Write down one bold dream that scares you.

    List 3 small actions you can take in the next 24 hours to move closer to it.

    Identify one person whose life could change if you succeed. Keep their name in front of you. Let that drive you.

    *Remember: Someone is waiting for you to win so they can begin.*
    *Wednesday Wisdom* *10 Success and Life Lessons from Billionaire Tyler Perry* *And Why Achieving Your Dreams Matters Because Other People's Dreams Depend on It* *Written by Dr. Laide Okubena* *From Grass to Grace: The Tyler Perry Story* Tyler Perry’s journey didn’t begin in luxury, influence, or success. It began in pain, poverty, and a broken home. He was born into a household marred by abuse and trauma. As a child, he endured physical and emotional suffering. In fact, he once legally changed his first name from Emmitt to Tyler to distance himself from his abusive father. But amid the storms, Tyler found healing in writing. He started penning letters to himself, a practice inspired by an episode of The Oprah Winfrey Show. Those letters would eventually birth scripts—scripts no one wanted to see at first. He lived in his car for months. His plays flopped. Critics dismissed him. Audiences ignored him. But he didn’t give up. Fast forward years later—Tyler Perry built a $250 million film studio in Atlanta, Georgia, on what used to be a Confederate military base. That land, once a symbol of slavery, now hosts stories told by a Black man for the world to see. He is not just a filmmaker; he is a movement. He is a billionaire today, not because of luck, but because of relentless persistence. *Now, let’s dive into 10 Success and Life Lessons You Can Learn From Tyler Perry:* *1. Your Past Doesn’t Define Your Future* Tyler’s abusive childhood didn’t stop him from rising. No matter your background, you can re-write your story—one choice at a time. *2. Start Small, Dream Big* His first play, I Know I’ve Been Changed, had just 30 people in the audience—and many were friends he gave free tickets to. Still, he kept going. *3. Believe in What You’re Building Even When No One Else Does* When others told him to quit, he reinvested his last savings into another show. That decision changed everything. Faith in your dream must be louder than the noise around you. *4. Turn Your Pain Into Purpose* He used his trauma as the foundation of his characters, especially Madea—a tough, hilarious woman shaped from the matriarchs in his life. Your deepest wound can be your greatest well of creativity. *5. Success is Inevitable When You Refuse to Quit* Most people quit when it's hard. Tyler Perry kept showing up when it didn’t make sense. That consistency eventually paid off. Winners keep showing up. *6. Ownership is Power* *He didn’t wait for Hollywood’s validation.* He built his own studio. He owns his content. He licenses, not sells. Never beg for a seat at the table—build your own. *7. Your Dream is Bigger Than You* Perry said, “While you’re running from your calling, someone is waiting for you to show up.” Your success creates a path for others. Your failure may block them. *8. Create Jobs, Not Just Wealth* His Atlanta studio employs hundreds of creatives, giving opportunities to actors, set designers, and crew members who might never get a shot in mainstream Hollywood. Be a channel of value, not just a container of money. *9. You Are the Brand—Protect It* Perry is intentional about his image, values, and mission. Your reputation is the most valuable currency in the long game. *10. Stay Humble, Stay Hungry* Even after billions, he remains grounded. He still speaks about faith, family, and his humble beginnings. Stay close to your source. The higher you rise, the deeper your roots must be. *Why Your Success Matters More Than You Think* Someone is praying for you to succeed. Maybe it’s your children watching your every move… maybe it’s a community, or even a stranger you don’t know yet. Tyler Perry’s breakthrough didn’t just benefit him—it broke generational curses for thousands of others. Your dream is not selfish—it is sacrificial. Because once you succeed, you make room for others to rise too. *Practical Tips From Tyler Perry’s Journey* 1.Write down your vision daily. Keep it in front of you. 2.Start with what you have. Don’t wait for perfect conditions. 3.Be consistent. Show up even when it’s hard. 4.Own your narrative. Don’t let others define you. Not Even Your Parents should define you or a Pastor or an Imam or Even a Mentor you look up to , it is God that determines what you can become, not an Human being like you. 5.Turn rejection into redirection. 6.Invest in yourself. Take that course. Learn that skill. 7.Build your audience. Don’t chase popularity—grow impact. 8.Pray or meditate. Stay connected to your center. 9.Save and reinvest. Use profits to expand your dream. 10.Lift others as you climb. Success that doesn't empower others is short-lived. *Question of the Day* What dream are you sitting on right now that could transform lives—if only you dared to pursue it? *Task of the Day* ✅ Write down one bold dream that scares you. ✅ List 3 small actions you can take in the next 24 hours to move closer to it. ✅ Identify one person whose life could change if you succeed. Keep their name in front of you. Let that drive you. *Remember: Someone is waiting for you to win so they can begin.*
    TODAY WISDOM

    *10 Success and Life Lessons from Billionaire Tyler Perry*
    *And Why Achieving Your Dreams Matters Because Other People's Dreams Depend on It*

    *From Grass to Grace: The Tyler Perry Story*

    Tyler Perry’s journey didn’t begin in luxury, influence, or success. It began in pain, poverty, and a broken home. He was born into a household marred by abuse and trauma. As a child, he endured physical and emotional suffering. In fact, he once legally changed his first name from Emmitt to Tyler to distance himself from his abusive father.

    But amid the storms, Tyler found healing in writing. He started penning letters to himself, a practice inspired by an episode of The Oprah Winfrey Show. Those letters would eventually birth scripts—scripts no one wanted to see at first.

    He lived in his car for months. His plays flopped. Critics dismissed him. Audiences ignored him. But he didn’t give up.

    Fast forward years later—Tyler Perry built a $250 million film studio in Atlanta, Georgia, on what used to be a Confederate military base. That land, once a symbol of slavery, now hosts stories told by a Black man for the world to see. He is not just a filmmaker; he is a movement. He is a billionaire today, not because of luck, but because of relentless persistence.

    *Now, let’s dive into 10 Success and Life Lessons You Can Learn From Tyler Perry:*

    *1. Your Past Doesn’t Define Your Future*

    Tyler’s abusive childhood didn’t stop him from rising. No matter your background, you can re-write your story—one choice at a time.

    *2. Start Small, Dream Big*

    His first play, I Know I’ve Been Changed, had just 30 people in the audience—and many were friends he gave free tickets to. Still, he kept going.

    *3. Believe in What You’re Building Even When No One Else Does*

    When others told him to quit, he reinvested his last savings into another show. That decision changed everything. Faith in your dream must be louder than the noise around you.

    *4. Turn Your Pain Into Purpose*

    He used his trauma as the foundation of his characters, especially Madea—a tough, hilarious woman shaped from the matriarchs in his life. Your deepest wound can be your greatest well of creativity.

    *5. Success is Inevitable When You Refuse to Quit*

    Most people quit when it's hard. Tyler Perry kept showing up when it didn’t make sense. That consistency eventually paid off. Winners keep showing up.

    *6. Ownership is Power*

    *He didn’t wait for Hollywood’s validation.*

    He built his own studio. He owns his content. He licenses, not sells. Never beg for a seat at the table—build your own.

    *7. Your Dream is Bigger Than You*

    Perry said, “While you’re running from your calling, someone is waiting for you to show up.” Your success creates a path for others. Your failure may block them.

    *8. Create Jobs, Not Just Wealth*

    His Atlanta studio employs hundreds of creatives, giving opportunities to actors, set designers, and crew members who might never get a shot in mainstream Hollywood. Be a channel of value, not just a container of money.

    *9. You Are the Brand—Protect It*

    Perry is intentional about his image, values, and mission. Your reputation is the most valuable currency in the long game.

    *10. Stay Humble, Stay Hungry*

    Even after billions, he remains grounded. He still speaks about faith, family, and his humble beginnings. Stay close to your source. The higher you rise, the deeper your roots must be.

    *Why Your Success Matters More Than You Think*

    Someone is praying for you to succeed. Maybe it’s your children watching your every move… maybe it’s a community, or even a stranger you don’t know yet. Tyler Perry’s breakthrough didn’t just benefit him—it broke generational curses for thousands of others.

    Your dream is not selfish—it is sacrificial. Because once you succeed, you make room for others to rise too.

    *Practical Tips From Tyler Perry’s Journey*

    1.Write down your vision daily. Keep it in front of you.

    2.Start with what you have. Don’t wait for perfect conditions.

    3.Be consistent. Show up even when it’s hard.

    4.Own your narrative. Don’t let others define you. Not Even Your Parents should define you or a Pastor or an Imam or Even a Mentor you look up to , it is God that determines what you can become, not an Human being like you.

    5.Turn rejection into redirection.

    6.Invest in yourself. Take that course. Learn that skill.

    7.Build your audience. Don’t chase popularity—grow impact.

    8.Pray or meditate. Stay connected to your center.

    9.Save and reinvest. Use profits to expand your dream.

    10.Lift others as you climb. Success that doesn't empower others is short-lived.

    *Question of the Day*

    What dream are you sitting on right now that could transform lives—if only you dared to pursue it?

    *Task of the Day*

    Write down one bold dream that scares you.

    List 3 small actions you can take in the next 24 hours to move closer to it.

    Identify one person whose life could change if you succeed. Keep their name in front of you. Let that drive you.

    *Remember: Someone is waiting for you to win so they can begin.*


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