People often talk about what women need in a relationship, but men have emotional needs too, even if they don’t always say it out loud.

A man wants to feel needed. When he feels like he has a place in your life, he shows up with more love and effort. But when he feels unneeded, he slowly pulls away.

He also wants to feel respected. Respect, for many men, means more than love. If he feels heard and valued, he’ll give you his best. If not, he starts to shut down.

Appreciation matters too. Even a small “thank you” makes him feel seen. When you notice his efforts, he’s inspired to give even more.

Most of all, he wants to feel trusted and accepted. When he knows you believe in him and admire him, it brings out the best in him.

Love doesn’t always need big words, just small, consistent actions that make him feel safe, wanted, and enough.

—Tanvir Sourov