They say, “Dress like a mother.”
“Cover up.”
“Think of your daughters.”

But let me ask you something —
When did motherhood become a prison?
When did being a “good example” mean erasing who you are?

See, the truth is… I get this all the time.
People look at me and assume that because I show skin or dress bold, I’m somehow failing as a mother.
But I’ve never felt more honest. More alive.
And that’s exactly what I want my daughters to see.

Because being a good example isn’t about hiding.
It’s about showing them what it means to live in your truth —
Even when the world tells you not to.

Do you believe in expression trauma?
That quiet shame that tells women they must be small, silent, and invisible to be “acceptable”?
I do. Because I’ve felt it. And I know millions of women have too.

My mission in this life is simple:
To live so boldly, so truthfully, and so unapologetically…
That it makes you question every cage you were told to live in.

On my life — my daughters will never carry the burden of expression trauma.
By God’s grace, they’ll know freedom.

They’ll wear what they love. Speak how they feel.
And if they’re okay with how they’re seen — then they’re FREE.
And that, to me, is the truest kind of motherhood.

My Wahala Promax people what are your thoughts on korra obidi dressing as a mother?