Dear men who are still broke and married—listen. If you can understand this now, there’s a real chance you and your family can break free from poverty. Stop trying to stifle your wife just so you can keep answering “man of the house.” If you’ve been trying and it’s not working, why not try your wife, invest in your wife? Many men I know who are buying houses and even relocating abroad—it was their wife that brought light into the family. But you won’t hear it, because the woman understands what partnership truly means. You’re busy shouting “Alpha male”, yet you barely contribute to food money, and you’re not doing anything to help your wife grow either. My brother, you’re in for a long ride. Family is sweeter when both husband and wife are working toward a shared goal. There’s a couple here in Enugu—the wife runs an event planning business. The husband noticed the potential and invested in her business. Today, they run it together and it has scaled massively. Even if your own hustle is not moving well, you can still support your wife’s hustle. A good woman won’t start dragging title with you. She’ll still be your wife—and she’ll even respect you more for it. Alpha male without Odogwu energy is just noise. Calm down, bro. It doesn’t matter where the light comes from, as long as it’s for the growth of the house. ➖Invest in your woman. ➖Support her dreams. ➖Join her hustle if you must I did it with mine—and today, I’m enjoying it. Alpha male no dey pay bills again o. Partnership does. Invest in her—she might just be the answer you’re praying for. Kelvin Onovo