If a woman behaves like a child, it's because she's with a real man. She feels safe. If a woman behaves like a mother, it's because she's with a boy. She feels like she has to raise him up. If a woman behaves like a man, she's with a weak man. She's been forced to step in and be the leader. If a woman behaves anxious and in need of constant reassurance, it's because she's with an unfaithful man. She doesn't have trust issues. It's him who has loyalty issues. If a woman behaves unsettled and always feels like quitting the relationship, it's because she's with an unprotective man. He leaves her to fight against the people in his life instead of shielding her and their union. If a woman is always overworking, she's with a lazy man. She feels financially exposed and she's trying to make up for the difference. The point is that a woman's behaviour is often a reflection of the energy she's receiving from her man. Does every woman have their own growing to do with or without a man? Yes, of course. Even so, a relationship can turn a woman into someone she's not. Even when a woman has done her growth and inner work, she could still become very dysfunctional if she's with the wrong man. Because of this, before you diagnose yourself with depression or anxiety or declare yourself unfit for love, check the type of men you've been dealing with. What role have they been casting you into? A good woman is not just submissive. She's also responsive. Always confirm if your stressful behaviour is truly coming from you, or if it's just a response. ()©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)