“A man can give you attention without ever committing to you. The difference? Attention keeps you entertained. Commitment makes you feel safe.” ✔️ Attention is texting you “Good morning, beautiful.” Commitment is making sure you wake up every day knowing exactly where you stand. ✔️ Attention is liking your pictures. Commitment is making sure you never question where you stand. ✔️ Attention is calling you when he’s in the mood. Commitment is calling because he genuinely misses you—not just when he’s lonely. ✔️ Attention is planning a cute date. Commitment is integrating you into his life, not just his weekends. ✔️ Attention is keeping the conversation fun. Commitment is discussing the future and making space for you in it. ✔️ Attention is telling you he doesn’t want to lose you. Commitment is making sure he never gives you a reason to leave. ✔️ Attention is making promises in the moment. Commitment is following through—without excuses. ✔️ Attention is saying, “Let’s see where this goes.” Commitment is saying, “I want you—exclusively.” ✔️ Attention is giving you just enough to stay. Commitment is making sure you never feel the need to question his intentions. Some men will flood you with attention just to keep you hooked, but never offer real commitment. They’ll breadcrumb you with affection, making sure you almost have what you need—but never enough to feel secure in their love. If he only shows up when it’s easy, when he’s lonely, or when he wants something—he’s not committed, he’s just entertained. A man who truly wants you won’t play guessing games. He won’t confuse you. He won’t treat you like an option. He will show up fully, consistently, and without hesitation.