Some of you are not dating to connect — you're dating to collect.
Collect sex. Collect attention. Collect ego points.

You’re not building anything.
You’re just two bored, broke people sexting and stress-testing each other’s boundaries.

You can’t hold a conversation.
You don’t ask real questions.
You don’t know what books they read, what fears they carry, or what they dream about.
But you’ve already been in bed—3 times.
That’s not dating. That’s bad customer service.

Whatever happened to good old connection?

Go out.
Sit down.
Ask them about their childhood, not just their body count.
Be interested. Be curious. Be present.

Because if you’re broke, horny, and spiritually confused…
Don’t drag someone’s daughter into your emotional chaos and call it a relationship.

Sex without depth is just noise.
You’re sleeping with people you don’t even like.
You don’t respect them. You don’t understand them. You just got used to their presence.

Maybe that’s why it feels empty every time.

And ladies — if all he ever wants to do is “chill at your place,”
He’s not courting you.
He’s squatting.