Marry a man who wants to be a husband....
not just a man who wants to have a wife.
There’s a big difference.
A man who wants a wife often loves the idea of marriage, the image, the comfort, the convenience.
He wants the warm meals, the folded laundry, the steady emotional support.
He wants a woman who holds it all together but doesn’t always consider the weight she carries.
But a man who wants to be a husband?
He moves differently.
He doesn't just want commitment, he respects it.
He doesn’t treat loyalty like a favour, it’s who he is, even when no one’s watching.
He wants to build with you. Grow with you. Protect the peace you bring into his life.
He communicates clearly.
He listens with patience.
He shows up, especially when it’s not easy.
He doesn’t just want the title. He wants the work, the responsibility, the devotion.
Because real husbands know that love is a verb.
It’s in the small things, the effort, the apologies, the shared responsibilities.
It’s in how he holds space for your emotions. How he covers you spiritually, mentally, and physically.
How he doesn’t run when things get hard and doesn’t go silent when you need him to speak up.
A man who wants to be a husband doesn’t chase convenience.
He chooses consistency.
So don’t settle for someone who just wants you around because of what you give.
Wait for the man who values you enough to grow into who he needs to be, for himself, for you, and for your future together.
Because when you marry someone who truly wants to be a husband,
He won’t just love you.
He will honor you.
Every single day.
~Tanvir Sourov