My wife and I have been experiencing a drought in our physical relationship since last year. Every night, she goes to bed early, and if I try to touch her while she's asleep, she declines and has no memory of it in the morning. Every time when I attempt to initiate intimacy, she doesn't respond, so I end up finding other ways to satisfy myself because I don't want to compromising our marriage. I love my wife and our family very much. When I bring this up with her, she suggests that it's not acceptable when the children are around and I agree with her on that however, even when we're alone, she still goes to bed early and does not want or appreciate to be disturbed at all. What can I do please assist