Please date a man who is kind... not just to impress you in the beginning, but consistently, even when he’s tired, frustrated, or not getting his way. Date a man who’s emotionally available, someone who can have real conversations without shutting down, dismissing your feelings, or making you feel like you’re too much. Don’t waste your energy chasing someone for crumbs of attention when you deserve a steady, full plate of love and presence.
Date a man who provides, and no... it’s not just about money. It’s about providing emotional safety. Providing effort. Providing peace. It’s about knowing that if life gets heavy, he’ll help carry the weight... not add to it. He shows up, not just when it’s easy, but when it matters. He doesn't disappear during conflict or guilt-trip you for having needs. He makes you feel held, protected, and chosen.
Date a man who speaks to you with patience. One who listens, even when he doesn’t fully understand yet. A man who talks to you, not at you. One who doesn’t use tone, silence, or sarcasm as weapons when things get hard. Someone who remembers that respect doesn’t go out the window just because there’s a disagreement. You deserve a love that doesn’t make you question your worth every time the conversation gets uncomfortable.
Because life will test you. Stress will come. Things won’t always be perfect. But your relationship should be your safe place, not another battlefield. Choose someone who makes you feel calm, seen, supported... someone who feels like peace after a long day, not more chaos to recover from.
Date a man who doesn’t just say “I love you” ...
but makes you feel it.
In how he speaks.
In how he shows up.
In how he never makes you doubt that your heart is safe with him.