I’m currently working at a jail and constantly doing overtime to provide for my family and take care of bills/ debt. Every two weeks I work 120 to 130 hours to pay off debt , pay bills and support my wife and three kids (9,7,3). I always pay bills on time, have a 4 bedroom house, take vacations to time to time, and feel like i support my family well.My wife is Chinese and comes from a an extremely well off background where her parents owned business make a great deal of money and constantly give her large sums of money. My wife who’s stay at home doesn’t like to teach the children, stating it’s the schools job, even though both of the kids cant read or or write, gets upset every time I tell her we have to wait to get something so I just let her put it on credit to avoid argument, and gets upset everytime when we do go out that she has to contribute 20 or 40 on outing for snacks even though constantly getting extra income from family. Everytime I try to talk to her she screams calls me poor, a bad provider , a horrible father ( yet every day I’m off I spend taking the kids to parks or events, calls me slow, retarded ( head injury from military and learning disability’s) , bring up every thing from the past ,and just screams at me till I agree with her. I’m currently at the point where everything ends in argument even small issues, she uses the threat of divorce as a weapon, and I have anxiety attacks. I currently spend a lot of extra time at work doing extra overtime since work is peaceful. I don’t know what to do. I’ve been married for almost ten years and don’t even want to celebrate as I’m so dead inside. Is this relationship salvageable? Please keep in mind I’ve had plenty of talks already. Is