hello, i am posting to gain some male perspective and women perspective if you’ve experienced the same. I want to start by saying my husband and I are both Christian and our faith is very important to us anyways, my husband expressed to me a few days ago that he would like to have sex everyday . i am not an overtly sexual person. don’t get me wrong, our sex is great, I just truly don’t ever feel like i need it everyday. I never have. i’m a stay at home mom to a clingy teething 1 year old, i do 98% of housework and cooking, which is fine with me. he is a great husband father and provider. he doesn’t just “never help” but sometimes i feel like i hardly get a break and truthfully im just tired. I don’t like feeling like sex is a chore, i want to be into it. we used to have sex maybe once a week, but i realized that really wasn’t fair to him, so i would now we have sex every other day to every 2 days, which is a lot for me, but i am trying not to be selfish. Whenever he helps me out around the house, i always can tell it’s because he wants some 😂😂 and then when he does help it’s very lazily . or for example, he will wash the dishes but ask me to put them away( even though i’m sweeping and doing counters). or he’ll fold the clothes and ask me to put them up . mind you he doesn’t help that often and when he does he always wants me to help him so he can get done faster. idk it’s not the worst thing in the world but it does kind of irritate me. why offer to help if you’re going to only do half the work my question for men is how often do you want sex with your wife and how often do you help around the house? i truthfully do not view sex as an exchange , i want to make my partner happy in all ways, i guess sometimes it’s hard when im burnt out and i can tell he only helps so he can get what he wants