MODERN LOVE ISN’T BUILT ON LOVE ANYMORE
Bro,
Let’s be honest.
Dating today isn’t about love.
It’s about leverage.
It’s about “who has more options?”
It’s about “who needs who less?”
It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?”
We’ve entered an era where:
* Vulnerability = weakness.
* Effort = desperation.
* Commitment = stupidity.
Men are not dating with their hearts anymore.
They’re dating with survival in mind.
Because they’ve seen:
The man who loved deeply… got chéãted on.
The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly.
The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten.
So now?
Men are cold.
Women are calculative.
Everyone is scared.
We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties.
We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears.
We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting.
It’s sickening!
Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to —
but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high.
They don’t want to be used.
They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats.
They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else.
So they choose silence over softness.
Detachment over devotion.
Segx over soul.
And it’s killing connection.
Let’s be honest again:
* Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe.
* Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings.
* And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love.
Modern love is no longer love.
It’s marketing.
It’s manípulation.
It’s wär disguised as romance.
We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.”
We have brokën hearts in healed bodies.
We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no dämñ peace.
No one’s fighting for love.
Everyone’s protecting their ego.
And until we heal our fears and re-learn love —
we’ll keep dating with masks…
and crying behind closed doors.
This is the brùtãl truth.
Bro,
Let’s be honest.
Dating today isn’t about love.
It’s about leverage.
It’s about “who has more options?”
It’s about “who needs who less?”
It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?”
We’ve entered an era where:
* Vulnerability = weakness.
* Effort = desperation.
* Commitment = stupidity.
Men are not dating with their hearts anymore.
They’re dating with survival in mind.
Because they’ve seen:
The man who loved deeply… got chéãted on.
The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly.
The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten.
So now?
Men are cold.
Women are calculative.
Everyone is scared.
We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties.
We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears.
We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting.
It’s sickening!
Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to —
but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high.
They don’t want to be used.
They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats.
They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else.
So they choose silence over softness.
Detachment over devotion.
Segx over soul.
And it’s killing connection.
Let’s be honest again:
* Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe.
* Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings.
* And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love.
Modern love is no longer love.
It’s marketing.
It’s manípulation.
It’s wär disguised as romance.
We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.”
We have brokën hearts in healed bodies.
We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no dämñ peace.
No one’s fighting for love.
Everyone’s protecting their ego.
And until we heal our fears and re-learn love —
we’ll keep dating with masks…
and crying behind closed doors.
This is the brùtãl truth.
MODERN LOVE ISN’T BUILT ON LOVE ANYMORE
Bro,
Let’s be honest.
Dating today isn’t about love.
It’s about leverage.
It’s about “who has more options?”
It’s about “who needs who less?”
It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?”
We’ve entered an era where:
* Vulnerability = weakness.
* Effort = desperation.
* Commitment = stupidity.
Men are not dating with their hearts anymore.
They’re dating with survival in mind.
Because they’ve seen:
💔 The man who loved deeply… got chéãted on.
💔 The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly.
💔 The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten.
So now?
Men are cold.
Women are calculative.
Everyone is scared.
We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties.
We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears.
We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting.
It’s sickening!
Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to —
but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high.
They don’t want to be used.
They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats.
They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else.
So they choose silence over softness.
Detachment over devotion.
Segx over soul.
And it’s killing connection.
Let’s be honest again:
* Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe.
* Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings.
* And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love.
Modern love is no longer love.
It’s marketing.
It’s manípulation.
It’s wär disguised as romance.
💔 We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.”
💔 We have brokën hearts in healed bodies.
💔 We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no dämñ peace.
No one’s fighting for love.
Everyone’s protecting their ego.
And until we heal our fears and re-learn love —
we’ll keep dating with masks…
and crying behind closed doors.
This is the brùtãl truth.
📌
