*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

My love for you runs so deep
that sometimes it overwhelms me.
I get jealous, not because I don’t trust you,
but because I care so much.
I worry about losing you,
not because you’ve given me a reason to,
but because the thought of life without you is unbearable.
I get angry,
not out of frustration,
but because my heart feels everything so intensely when it comes to you.
Every emotion I feel is rooted in how much
I love you, how much I need you.
You are my everything,
and I can’t imagine a world where we’re not together.
Losing you is not an option,
because my heart belongs to you,
now and always.
➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
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#youaremylife

*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

HER PAST WILL BECOME YOUR PROBLEM

Listen up, son.

The world loves lying to men like you.
Telling you her past doesn’t matter.
That love will erase the bodies, the heartbreaks, the reckless years.

It won’t.

Her past won’t disappear.
It’ll just move in with you.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ EVERY HEARTBREAK SHE BURIED, YOU’LL INHERIT
The men she let in, the lies she told herself, the pieces of her she lost — all of it comes to your doorstep disguised as “love.”

2️⃣ A WOMAN WITH TEN BODIES CARRIES TEN LESSONS, TEN WOUNDS, TEN HABITS
You won’t see them — but you’ll feel them.
In her walls.
In her coldness.
In her inability to trust you even when you’ve done nothing wrong.

3️⃣ “EXPERIENCE” DOESN’T MEAN WISDOM
If all she’s learned is seduction, rejection, and trauma, you’re not getting a wife — you’re joining a performance.
And guess who’s footing the bill?
You.

4️⃣ NUMBNESS IS NOT STRENGTH
If she laughs about chaos, mocks broken homes, and treats pain like entertainment — she’s not strong.
She’s numb.
And numb people don’t love.
They control.

5️⃣ NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MAN’S CHILD
A child may be innocent, but the decision was hers.
That isn’t your burden.
You build your own legacy.
Your own firsts.
Your own family line.
Without apology.

6️⃣ LOVE DOESN’T ERASE CONSEQUENCES
No matter how soft she sounds.
How beautiful she looks.
How sweet her promises.

If her past is a wildfire — don’t marry into ashes.

FINAL WORD:
Son, choose peace over chaos.
Legacy over lust.
Truth over pity.
You deserve your own firsts.
A wife of your youth.
Children with your name.
A home, not a museum of old heartbreaks.

Stand tall in that.
Own it.

Because real men build futures — they don’t rescue broken stories.

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

If someone really cares about you, they care about how their actions affect you and how they make you feel.

They don’t just think about what they want or what is convenient for them, they consider your feelings, too. they pay attention to your emotions, see things from your perspective, and try to understand why you feel the way you do.

They don’t brush off your concerns or act like your problems don’t matter. they don’t make you feel like a burden for opening up. instead, they create a safe space where you feel comfortable being vulnerable. and even if they don’t always agree with you, they still respect your emotions and make an effort to be considerate.

Because if someone truly cares, you won’t have to constantly wonder how much you matter to them. you’ll feel it in the way they treat you. and they will never make you feel like you’re too much for having emotions. Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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Today, I want you to remember how much you mean to me and how thankful I am that you always choose to stay with me. I am not a perfect person, and I am not trying to be one, but I want you to know that I will try my best to make you happy. I love seeing you happy; did you know that? I love your eyes, your eyebrows, your hands, and most importantly, your smile. I wish you would smile so often when you're with me. But even if you don't, I will still fall for you.

I want you to know that you mean the world to me. I love you, and I know that you have heard it so many times from me. But I still want to tell you that I love you every day, and I love you still even after a thousand years. Most people will never understand us; some of them even think that we're not perfect for each other. But the truth is, they never know about us. They never know what we've been through just to keep each other. And for that, thank you for still loving me. My love, thank you for still holding me in your arms. I want you to know that I'll be here for you too, holding your hands tighter and reminding you that I will always love you.

* The right one will love you unconditionally. Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age. Time and time again, I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard." It's heartbreaking to see people give up on love so easily. You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? It's over" and throw everything away. *

* If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated." There's no such thing as you being "too crazy." There's no such thing as you being "too much." The right person will love you for who you are, quirks and all, and they'll be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option. No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you. *

* No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much they care about you. No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them. A person who truly values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. They'll hold on tight, work through the tough times, and prioritize your love and connection above all else. And when the dust settles, they'll be there, holding your hand, and loving you for all eternity. *

A man isn’t taking care of you if he provides, but cheats on you. Many times people ask women to settle for cheats as long as they get financial provisions. Provision goes beyond paying bills. How a man treats you asides from financial provision, and how he protects the intimacy you guys share is also provision— the provision of trust and security. Money cannot replace trust in a relationship.

*The Marriage Advice ..*


1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

*LESSONS FOR WOMEN IN MARRIAGE! +18*

Most women complain of sexual dissatisfaction but the question you should be asking yourself is: Are you playing your part as a woman? Do you know the things that turn your man on? Do you know that a man needs to be caressed and complimented in order to feel like making love to you?

May You Try This It May Help:

1. Be romantic, playful, and spontaneous. Touch your man play with his body flirt with him on the phone compliment him always tell him you love him send him dirty suggestive messages.


2. Please do not be afraid: Ashamed or irritated to take him into your mouth it's exciting once you get the hang of it.

3. Allow him unlimited access to your body: Allow him to go down on you. Do not hide your sensitive areas: surely why do hide your breasts ears and womanhood then claim he can't turn me on.

4. Show him you like sex too: It kills a man's ego when he struggles to get it by the time he starts doing it he will be tired from wrestling with you and talking to you to convince you to have it please please if you can convince your man that you also like it and enjoy it it's very important.

Your man thrives to bring you the latest album of your favorite musician which will stop him from bringing you a new style of sex if he knows you like it.

5. Respond to his lovemaking: Do not lie there like you are dead run your hands on his back and spread out those legs for him and move up to meet him, moan and groan, hiss like a snake.

6. If he hits the right spot say it and show it: Urge him on and hold him tight there, speak in tongues.

7. Suggest positions: And fully participate in your favorite position do not be afraid to go on top.

8. Satisfy him first he will eventually satisfy you: Make him happy and allow him to enjoy you he will return the compliment.

9. Do everything he likes and enjoy pleasing him: You think most men leave you because they got what they wanted: No they would have discovered that you are not enjoying what they are offering you so enjoy what is offered first!

IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS.


Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices.

These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.”

1. YOUR EMOTIONS

The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him.

If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies.

Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners.

2. UNMET NEEDS

Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup.
Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water.

When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love.

3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE

A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies…

But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope.

So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later.

4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM

Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation….

But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”.

Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future.

5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF)

When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace.

You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline.
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For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice?

Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you?

How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

As a mother, if you know your baby has running nose, dry catarrh stains and patches on her face, scattered hair gummed with sand and water, dirty clothes on a dirty body with an offensive odour oozing from the center of her head, don't hand the baby to anyone in church or in public transit to help you carry.

Even if you're in a haste, take time to tidy your child up before stepping out.
If it's not necessary or if you can't, stay at home.

No matter how dirty you are please don't transfer it to your child because it always reflect on your child.

I'm saying this because of the experience I had today.
It's the baby that came and held me, he was stretching his hands for me to carry him after he had already stained my dress with all the dirt. At that point, I couldn't just help it, I had to carry him like that.

Put them good clothes, dip face towel inside clean water to clean your baby's face atleast before carrying her along, change the pampers when it is wet, bath them before leaving the house.

Don't attribute this to poverty because poverty and dirtiness are two different things. Make cleanliness a habit. Don't transfer your dirty lifestyle to an innocent child please.

I have delivered my message.

THANK YOU🙏🏽

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...

Until you date a generous man, you’ll never understand how much men love to provide for the people they love.

Not rich, but generous. The kind who gives without needing to be asked. Who finds happiness in making you feel safe, steady, and cared for.

He doesn’t give to impress. He gives because it’s how he shows love.

To him, providing is not just about money. It’s about presence, effort, and peace.

Settle with someone with a provider mindset.

*AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.

Listen to me, son

Any woman you can’t correct, you can’t lead. Any woman you can’t lead, you can’t protect. And if you can’t lead or protect her, you have no business providing for her.

Marry a woman who listens, respects your leadership, and submits to your authority.

A humble, teachable woman with no degree is better than a proud, rebellious PhD with masculine energy.

A woman’s strength is her femininity, not her ability to compete with you. A real woman takes praise and correction without pride or drama.

If you’re scared to correct her; don’t marry her. You’re not her man if you walk on eggshells. You’re her prisoner.

A man leads with love, but also with discipline.
A woman who resists correction will one day wreck your peace.

If she won’t submit, follow your lead, stay loyal, or take correction; she doesn’t love you. She just wants a husband. Don’t be that fool.

Marry a woman who adores you; who listens, respects, and honors your voice. With her, your home will be peace but with a stubborn, masculine woman, it’ll be a war zone.

And hear this clearly: you can’t change her. So don’t try. Just walk away. Your home should be your rest, not your battlefield. Let weak men marry stubborn women.

Clear?

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹