At a university, a professor asked his students: "If there are four birds on a tree and three of them decided to fly away, how many are left on the tree?"

Everyone answered, "One."

They were surprised when one student disagreed and said, "Four birds remain." This caught everyone's attention.

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The professor asked him: "How so?"

He replied: "You said they decided to fly, but you didn't say they actually flew. Making a decision doesn't mean taking action."

And indeed, that was the correct answer.

This story reflects the lives of some people — they have many slogans and catchy words, and they shine in gatherings and among friends, but in reality, their lives don’t reflect those words.

Many people talk, but only a few act..!

Making a (decision) is one thing...

Taking (action) is something else entirely.

Great minds think alike

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Good morning everyone

Women with absent fathers often become beggars for love, safety, and security.
It’s heartbreaking how deeply they invest themselves in others, hoping that their love will be returned, hoping to finally feel chosen, protected, and seen.

They carry a silent ache—an invisible wound that whispers....Maybe if I give more, they’ll stay. Maybe if I’m good enough, they’ll love me.

This voice doesn’t come from who they are today, but from the little girl inside them who kept looking out the window, waiting for someone who never came.

Their love becomes a currency—they trade affection, loyalty, and even their own boundaries just to feel held.

They over-give, over-function, and over-apologize, hoping that one day, someone will finally choose to stay without conditions.

The absence of a father doesn’t just leave a physical void—it creates emotional gaps that women often try to fill with partners, friends, or even strangers.

But what’s missing isn’t just a person—it’s the early belief that they are inherently worthy of love without having to earn it.

She often becomes hyper-independent, saying she doesn’t need anyone.

But behind that strength is exhaustion—from carrying her own pain, from pretending she’s okay, from surviving in a world that never taught her how to receive.

When she finally does meet love, she may not know how to trust it.

Her nervous system doesn’t recognize consistency. It feels foreign. Unsafe even. She might push it away before it has a chance to hold her.

This woman is not broken.
She is someone who has been asked to mother herself before she was ever truly mothered. She’s someone who has built a heart out of scars and silence.

Healing for her doesn’t come from finding the perfect partner. It comes from finding herself. From meeting the little girl within and telling her, “You don’t have to beg anymore. You are already enough.”

When a woman with an absent father begins to reclaim her worth, she stops performing for love and starts attracting it from a place of truth.

Her healing isn’t just hers—it becomes a ripple that touches every generation after her.

And maybe for the first time, she finally breathes deeply… not because someone stayed, but because she stopped abandoning herself.

If you belong to this story, know that healing is possible. I’m here to help you on this journey—just reach out to me.

- Abhikesh

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Comfort is an enemy of progress.
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You don't get what you wish for, you get what you work for.
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Everyone can feel anxious sometimes, but people with anxiety disorders often experience fear and worry that is both intense and excessive.

Anxiety disorders interfere with daily activities and can impair a person’s family, social and school or working life.

Anxiety disorders are the world’s most common mental disorders, affecting 301 million people.

Symptoms of anxiety disorders include:

Excessive fear or worry.
Trouble concentrating.
Feeling irritable, tense or restless.
Nausea or abdominal distress.
Heart palpitations.
Sweating, trembling or shaking.
Trouble sleeping.
A sense of impending danger, panic or doom.

👩🏽‍💼 Symptoms often begin during childhood or adolescence and continue into adulthood. Girls and women are more likely to experience an anxiety disorder than boys and men.

To help manage your symptoms of anxiety and promote your overall well-being, you can:

1️⃣ Avoid or cut down on alcohol and don’t use illicit drugs.
2️⃣ Exercise regularly, even if it’s just a short walk.
3️⃣ Stick to regular eating and sleeping habits and eat a healthy diet.
4️⃣ Learn relaxation techniques, such as slow breathing and progressive muscle relaxation.
5️⃣ Develop the habit of mindfulness meditation.

While enjoying your rice remember that will soon finish

As a mother, if you know your baby has running nose, dry catarrh stains and patches on her face, scattered hair gummed with sand and water, dirty clothes on a dirty body with an offensive odour oozing from the center of her head, don't hand the baby to anyone in church or in public transit to help you carry.

Even if you're in a haste, take time to tidy your child up before stepping out.
If it's not necessary or if you can't, stay at home.

No matter how dirty you are please don't transfer it to your child because it always reflect on your child.

I'm saying this because of the experience I had today.
It's the baby that came and held me, he was stretching his hands for me to carry him after he had already stained my dress with all the dirt. At that point, I couldn't just help it, I had to carry him like that.

Put them good clothes, dip face towel inside clean water to clean your baby's face atleast before carrying her along, change the pampers when it is wet, bath them before leaving the house.

Don't attribute this to poverty because poverty and dirtiness are two different things. Make cleanliness a habit. Don't transfer your dirty lifestyle to an innocent child please.

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Trust the Quiet Transformation...
When you feel lost in shadows and the road ahead is hidden from view, be gentle with yourself.
Not every season is meant to be bright. Some are meant for soft unraveling—for letting go of what no longer fits, for becoming someone new in ways you can’t yet see.
Transformation often begins in silence, like a seed pushing through the dark soil, like a river carving a new path beneath still waters. It doesn't rush or roar—it listens, waits, trusts the pull of something greater.
So, if you find yourself unsure, aching, or standing still, know this: You are not broken—you are becoming. Trust the stillness. Trust the questions. In your own quiet way, in your own sacred time, the path will appear, and you will rise to meet it.

If you bought Sol in 2022 @ $140 and you held on to it till now, you are actually running at a loss right now because sol is trading at $130 now.

Do you also remember that the price of sol increased to almost $256 around January to February of this year and many held on to it waiting for it to hit $350, now is down to $130. Lol

Take profit when you can, don't be too greedy or ashamed to take out that $100, $50, or even $20 dollars. The market is highly volatile, the price goes up and down and the business here is being able to buy when the price is low and sell it when it's high.

I hope you understand, if you don't, experience they say is always the best teacher.