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Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.
Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each others love language.
We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.
Don’t force a resolution.
Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes.
Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
It’s normal.
It will fade.
This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
It helps.
It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.
Talk about your financial goals.
Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like

“What do you need to see more of from me?”
“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other.

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

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THE SILENT ECHO PRINCIPLE

Not all power is loud.
Not all love is declared.
And not all impact is visible.

But what we carry inside —
our thoughts, our energy, our pain, our prayers —
it echoes.

This is the Silent Echo Principle:

Even in your quietest moments, you are sending something into the world.

🕊 A gentle word you said last week is still calming someone.

A thought you wrestled with in silence is shaping your next chapter.

A love you gave without being asked is still blooming in someone’s memory.

Like a stone dropped into still water —
what you do, what you feel, what you are… ripples.

You may not see where it goes.
You may never know the full story.

But rest in this:

What you carry matters.
What you release moves.
And what you are becoming is shaping the space around you in ways you may never witness.

Stay kind!
Stay steady!
The echoes are already speaking.

The strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. Men can be analyzed, women merely adored.

Lord, you show us the way. You have given us guidelines to follow. Give us the strength to choose the narrow way and do what is right. Amen.