7 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE (PART 1)
The short story in between should teach you a lesson.
Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship.
It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability.
Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage:
1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS
Let me tell you a short story
Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress.
One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered.
“Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.”
Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money.
When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.”
Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret.
That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?”
And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says
Here’s the truth:
Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy.
When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in.
How do you achieve this?
Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.
If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up.
Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run.
Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22
To be continued……..
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The short story in between should teach you a lesson.
Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship.
It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability.
Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage:
1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS
Let me tell you a short story
Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress.
One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered.
“Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.”
Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money.
When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.”
Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret.
That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?”
And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says
Here’s the truth:
Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy.
When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in.
How do you achieve this?
Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.
If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up.
Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run.
Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22
To be continued……..
Your #relationshipcoach
#marriagecounselor
#lovebankers
7 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE (PART 1)
The short story in between should teach you a lesson.
Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship.
It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability.
Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage:
1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS
Let me tell you a short story🤔
Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress.
One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered.
“Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.”
Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money.
When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.”
Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret.
That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?”
And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says☹️
Here’s the truth:
Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy.
When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in.
How do you achieve this?
✅ Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.
✅ If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up.
✅ Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run.
Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22
To be continued……..🤩
Your #relationshipcoach
#marriagecounselor
#lovebankers
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