LETTER TO MEN Listen up, Men! Love Her If You Want, But Never Forget She’ll Leave When the Value Runs Dry. Let me etch this into your mind like scripture: Women will always leave when there's nothing left to gain. Not always out of evil—but out of nature. They love value. They’re wired for survival. And they’re ruthless with their choices. Meanwhile, you—the average man—you value love. You value connection. Loyalty. Sacrifice. And that’s exactly what sets you up for pain if you don’t WAKE UP. Read this slowly: Lose your job? She’s gone. Go broke trying to impress her? She’ll use your downfall as a warning to others. Lose your ability to provide? She’ll remind you she “deserves better.” Another man shows up with more money, power, or status? She won’t even look back. That’s not love—it’s transaction. To her, love means “What can I get from him?” And once the benefits dry up, you’re just a chapter in her story of “lessons learned.” This is why I tell you—be RUTHLESS. Not cruel. Not abusive. But smart. Relentless. Unapologetically masculine. Protect your purpose like a lion guards his pride. Don’t lose yourself trying to win her heart. Because the moment you make her your priority over your purpose, you’re finished. Don’t give her your bank account. Don’t let her drain your time with endless demands. Don’t build your empire around her emotions. Protect your grind. Guard your mission. Defend your masculinity. Because when the storm hits, it won’t be her holding the umbrella—it’ll be YOU, alone, rebuilding from the ashes while she’s with someone else. Brother, be wise as a serpent. Be cold when necessary. Be focused always. Love her—but never forget: If you lose your value, she’ll forget your name. Stay sharp! ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅ #XploreGoni #MasculineEnergy #LettersToMen #MenProtectYourself

Listen up, Men! A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story. A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant. Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss. Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power. A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you. Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place. If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man. Aklahyel Goni #XploreGoniHQ #AklahyelGoni #XploreGoni #AlphaMindset #NoMoreSimping #MenLeadWomenFollow