The Transition to True Love – Three Stages
Stage 1: Recognition of Ego and Self-Love
I become aware of my innate tendency to prioritize myself over others.

My thoughts naturally seek what is best for me, often at the expense of others.

This self-centeredness, or ego, drives a fundamental separation from others.

I observe that I want to dominate, use, or disregard others for personal benefit.

At this stage, love is impossible—what I perceive as "love" is actually attachment, desire, or dependence.

"I see how I think of myself first and others last. I recognize the ego in action."

Stage 2: Hatred of the Ego and the Desire to Separate from It
I begin to see the ego as the true barrier to connection, unity, and love.

My ego, once a trusted guide, is now revealed as the source of suffering and separation.

I develop a genuine dislike for my ego—not for myself, but for the force that isolates me from others.

I feel inner conflict: I still live with the ego, but I no longer want it to control me.

This is a painful but critical stage. It’s where transformation begins.

"I cannot love until I reject the force that keeps me apart from others—my ego."

Stage 3: Love Above the Ego
I no longer act according to egoism, even if it still whispers within me.

I consciously choose to rise above it, giving to others despite inner resistance.

True love emerges—not from the ego, but above it.

This love is unconditional, selfless, and connective—it seeks the well-being of the other as if they were me.

Paradoxically, only by confronting the darkness of ego do I discover the light of love.

"Now I can love—not by nature, but by choice. I act above my ego, and there, love is born."

Summary Insight
True love cannot exist within egoism. It is born only after we first recognize the ego (Stage 1), then reject its dominion (Stage 2), and finally act contrary to it (Stage 3). Anything that precedes this process is illusion, not love. @followers @topfans #kabbalah

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.
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Or they just wanted to knack so TiwA can feel popsy inside he

See as wizkid just yeye our afrobeats queen here.

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SOMETHING SHOCKING HAPPENED TODAY.

I went to Air-force base in Ikeja today to see a colleague. So when I was going, I enter a bus to oshodi,

When the car moved , I asked the conductor how much "He said 500" I said I paid but I paid 300naira while coming, why the sudden new high price?? And he started abusing and calling me Oloriburuku, ashawo, you don't have money you dey enter motor.

People in the bus were surprised and started wondering if he knows me before or we have personal issues.

At that moment, I was already boiling inside me but I tried as much as I can to control my emotions and remain calm.🤦🏼‍♀️

After everything the driver intervened and calmed situation.

When we got to Oshodi, the conductor jumped out of the bus (the way they use to) and he immediately slumped on the ground .

Knowing that something is wrong, I rushed to apply CPR on him but he wasn't responding, so the driver rushed him to the hospital, which I and of the passengers followed him.

When we got to the hospital, the doctor checked him and said he had a heart attack and his pulse stopped before we came.

We sympathize with the driver and went our separate ways.

As I got home, my head was full of different thoughts, "What if I had threatening him? What if I reacted when he was abusing me.?

One thing we all should learn from this is how to control our emotions no matter the provocation.

No matter the provocation, don't beat or threaten anyone, you can doesn't mean you should, not everybody is alive out there

There are many walking corpse out there looking for who will klll them, learn from this so that you won't become a victim.

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Rivers State on the Brink: No Funds, No Peace, and a Political Showdown

Port Harcourt, Nigeria — The political crisis in Rivers State has taken a dramatic turn, with Governor Siminalayi Fubara facing a major financial and governance deadlock following a Supreme Court ruling that halted federal allocations to the state. As power struggles rage between Fubara and his estranged political benefactor, Minister Nyesom Wike, ordinary citizens are left to bear the brunt of the turmoil.

But wait first—who go really suffer for this wahala? The politicians wey dey fight for power or the everyday people wey just wan survive?

The Power Struggle: How Did We Get Here?

Governor Fubara, once Wike’s political protégé, came into office under his influence. However, their alliance quickly fell apart as Fubara sought to assert his independence—a move Wike and his loyalists in the state legislature fiercely resisted.

Then, just when tensions seemed to be settling, the Supreme Court delivered a thunderous blow: halting federal allocations to the state and nullifying local government elections conducted under Fubara’s administration. The ruling, seen by many as favoring Wike’s camp, has intensified the crisis, with Rivers State now in an economic chokehold.

The big question remains: How will the governor navigate this storm without sinking the state?

Rivers Elders: "We No Go Beg for Our Own Money!"

Amid the escalating political battle, the Rivers State Elders Forum has stepped in, rallying behind Fubara. High Chief Anabs Sara-Igbe made it clear:

"Rivers State will not bow to undue pressure. We no go beg for our own money!"

Their defiance underscores a growing resistance to external interference, but without federal funds, how long can the state sustain itself? Because, make we talk true—e no easy to run government without money.

The People Are Suffering, While Politicians Play Chess

While the power brokers continue their political warfare, the real victims are the everyday people of Rivers State.

🚶🏾‍♂️ Mr. Chinedu Eze, a community leader, expressed frustration:
"People for this state don tire! Na ordinary people dey suffer while dem dey do political game. We no go gree."

Mrs. Adaobi Kalu, a small business owner, lamented:
"Business don spoil. No money, no customers. If government no settle this fight, wetin we go do?"

Experts Weigh In: What's Next for Rivers?

Dr. Ayo Okonjo, Political Analyst:
"This situation exposes a deeper problem in Nigeria’s politics—where governance is often tied to personal loyalty rather than public service."

Prof. Helen Nnaji, Legal Expert:
"Blocking federal funds has major implications. This could lead to more legal battles and even constitutional debates on state autonomy."

Senator Magnus Abe:
"We’ve seen this before—when political godfatherism clashes with governance, the people always suffer."

What Happens Next?

Governor Fubara and his supporters insist they will not back down. But with no federal allocation, the state faces a major financial crisis. Workers may go unpaid, hospitals may run out of supplies, and essential services could grind to a halt.

The question now is: Can Rivers State find alternative revenue sources to survive this crisis? Or will Fubara be forced to make political concessions?

Join the Conversation!

👉🏾 Do you think the Supreme Court ruling is fair?
👉🏾 How should Fubara handle this crisis?
👉🏾 What can Rivers people do to secure their future?

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