LETTER TO EVERY WÖMAN Dear Woman Not every man is a Husband material. Some are friendzone materials. Some are Boyfriend materials. Some are sex mate materials. Some are baby-papa materials. Some are husband materials Some are father materials Marry a Man that is a Brother, Husband and Father. Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Marriage is not for everybody. Some men are not wired to function in matrimony. Don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony. Look around you, most men get married just for the status. Those are the men that marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. I have seen men who married wives and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives. I mean what is that? You shouldn't be theoretically married. Marriage must be practical. Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-take situation. Don't marry a man because you are pregnant for him. Don't marry him because he deflowered you. Don't marry him because you are unemployed. Don't marry him because you've dated him for long. Don't marry him because you invested in him financially. Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids. There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce. I pray for you yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage. And for that feel you've made a mistake, retrace your step, and rededicate your marriage to God. God is faithful and ready to help you and he will help you out in Jesus' name! Note : if you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for men. I know there are un-wifable women but that's a post for another day. Thank you for your understanding. God bless. Nature is Powerful #StayProtected #StayBlessed

For married women this are things to do to make your husband want you the more. BATHING: Always bath often at least twice a day, you can't expect a man to be sexually aroused around you when you wake up in the morning use the toilet, cook, urinate many times then come to bed with sweaty body smelling like a kitchen utensil, and you expect him to do foreplay or make love with you, pls bath often and look fresh to bed. SHAVING: Please always shave your pubic hairs neat, some married folks after few kids they stop taking care of themselves saying they are now married or old, there by allowing their public hairs to be bushy how then will he want you? Because hairs attracts heat and heat causes odour so please respect your self and shave please. DRESSING: please learn to dress well and look neat and sexy, you must not dress like Mary Magdalene just because you are married I don't say dress indecently but at least look smart and sweet not tying wrapper like some old local lady, Some will even tie same wrapper for days without washing making the wrapper smell bad, Pls Wear nice skirts, tops, polo. Shorts, leggings if you wear trousers. PANTS: oh God this is the worst part, do you know some married women spread there stained panties were their husbands see them? Do you know that some married men know how many panties thier wives have? Oh this is too bad. Yes you are married but being married doesn't give you the right to stop taking care of yours self. Panties are cheap, throw away the stain and old ones and wash and spread them privately please. FRAGRANCE: Do you know that many married women don't use perfumes or deodorants anymore ? for years you have never used perfume, body spray or deodorants for armpits, and you expect your self to always smell nice? Don't deceive your self because even the white towel in the bathroom used after bathing to clean our body gets dirty. Please go to the market or shops buy nice perfumes, deodorants that you can afford and smell nice and not be smelling like a local spoilt food. HAIR: please madam always look after your hair, if you don't have the Money to plait or weave often at least for it to be neat then barb your hair, the whole room can change because of hair odour and the worst part is that those with smelly hairs don't notice often, how can you carry hair for months and you expect your husband to be facing you when in bed together please a word is enough for the wise.. Nature is Powerful #StayProtected #StayBlessed