• This pastor take way his wife from the world RIP
    This pastor take way his wife from the world RIP 🙏
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  • How a Young PhD Holder Who Came to Me for Prayers Kept Correcting My English" – Apostle Suleman
    Apostle Johnson Suleman, the founder and senior pastor of Omega Fire Ministries International, recounted a striking encounter during a recent Recovery Conference, involving a highly educated young man who came to him for prayers — but ended up repeatedly correcting his English.

    Sharing the experience, Apostle Suleman said the man, who holds three PhDs, was brought to his office by his mother for spiritual help. However, instead of receiving prayers calmly, the man became fixated on the apostle’s pronunciation and grammar. “While we were talking, I said, ‘The power of God is coming.’ He quickly corrected me, saying, ‘No, it’s not power,’” Suleman recalled.

    The corrections didn't stop. “Everything I said, he would adjust. I was saying ‘God’ and he insisted it should be pronounced differently. He even corrected me when I said ‘debt’ — he thought I meant ‘death.’ I asked him, ‘Who died?’”

    Despite the man’s academic achievements, Suleman noted that he was unable to hold down a job, often due to his habit of correcting superiors and colleagues. “He’d tell his boss, ‘That’s not how to write an email,’ and insisted on meetings about management decisions in another man’s company,” he said.

    Suleman expressed his concern that while the man was intellectually gifted, he lacked the practical fruit of his knowledge. “He had leaves, but no fruit,” the preacher said, referencing the biblical metaphor of a fruitless tree. “You’ve gone through the four walls of education, yet your current reality makes your body cringe. Truth must produce corresponding evidence.”

    He concluded by declaring spiritual liberation over the congregation: “Anything against your fruitfulness shall be roasted.”
    How a Young PhD Holder Who Came to Me for Prayers Kept Correcting My English" – Apostle Suleman Apostle Johnson Suleman, the founder and senior pastor of Omega Fire Ministries International, recounted a striking encounter during a recent Recovery Conference, involving a highly educated young man who came to him for prayers — but ended up repeatedly correcting his English. Sharing the experience, Apostle Suleman said the man, who holds three PhDs, was brought to his office by his mother for spiritual help. However, instead of receiving prayers calmly, the man became fixated on the apostle’s pronunciation and grammar. “While we were talking, I said, ‘The power of God is coming.’ He quickly corrected me, saying, ‘No, it’s not power,’” Suleman recalled. The corrections didn't stop. “Everything I said, he would adjust. I was saying ‘God’ and he insisted it should be pronounced differently. He even corrected me when I said ‘debt’ — he thought I meant ‘death.’ I asked him, ‘Who died?’” Despite the man’s academic achievements, Suleman noted that he was unable to hold down a job, often due to his habit of correcting superiors and colleagues. “He’d tell his boss, ‘That’s not how to write an email,’ and insisted on meetings about management decisions in another man’s company,” he said. Suleman expressed his concern that while the man was intellectually gifted, he lacked the practical fruit of his knowledge. “He had leaves, but no fruit,” the preacher said, referencing the biblical metaphor of a fruitless tree. “You’ve gone through the four walls of education, yet your current reality makes your body cringe. Truth must produce corresponding evidence.” He concluded by declaring spiritual liberation over the congregation: “Anything against your fruitfulness shall be roasted.”
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  • WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
    I hope am talking to mature people here.

    1. PREPARE HER
    Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood

    2. DO NOT FORCE HER
    Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful

    3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
    If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body

    4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
    If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle

    5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
    If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better

    6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
    If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure

    7. CUDDLE HER
    Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you

    8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
    Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods

    9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
    Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side.
    WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU I hope am talking to mature people here. 1. PREPARE HER Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood 2. DO NOT FORCE HER Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful 3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body 4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle 5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better 6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure 7. CUDDLE HER Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you 8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods 9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side.
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  • I want to share something painful from my past, something that affected my life forever. So, I got married in the year 2000, and not long after, I gave birth to my son, Raymond. From the moment he was born, our lives became full of hospital visits, sleepless nights, and endless medical expenses.

    The sickness didn’t just affect my son, it affected my marriage too. My husband and I were always stressed. We argued constantly. We blamed each other for everything. Love slowly disappeared from our home. We went from lovers to strangers who only talked about hospital bills.

    In 2006, the marriage couldn’t survive anymore. We went our separate ways, and I was left to raise Raymond alone. It was hard, so hard that I had to leave my acting career behind. I just couldn’t focus. I was broken. Then came the biggest blow of all, Raymond passed away at the age of 17. That pain is something I carry with me every day.

    Please, know this before you fall in love, know your genotype. Love is truly a beautiful thing, but it is not strong enough to carry the weight of this sickness called sickle cell. Know your genotype before love blinds you. I lost everything because I didn’t.

    - Eucharia Anunobi
    I want to share something painful from my past, something that affected my life forever. So, I got married in the year 2000, and not long after, I gave birth to my son, Raymond. From the moment he was born, our lives became full of hospital visits, sleepless nights, and endless medical expenses. The sickness didn’t just affect my son, it affected my marriage too. My husband and I were always stressed. We argued constantly. We blamed each other for everything. Love slowly disappeared from our home. We went from lovers to strangers who only talked about hospital bills. In 2006, the marriage couldn’t survive anymore. We went our separate ways, and I was left to raise Raymond alone. It was hard, so hard that I had to leave my acting career behind. I just couldn’t focus. I was broken. Then came the biggest blow of all, Raymond passed away at the age of 17. That pain is something I carry with me every day. Please, know this before you fall in love, know your genotype. Love is truly a beautiful thing, but it is not strong enough to carry the weight of this sickness called sickle cell. Know your genotype before love blinds you. I lost everything because I didn’t. - Eucharia Anunobi
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  • Having caught her husband with a young beauty, the wife didn’t start a brawl; instead, five days later she presented him with an unexpected surprise.
    Marina could never have imagined that she would find herself in such a situation. “Beluga” – the restaurant where Viktor once proposed to her three decades ago – had now become the venue for his secret rendezvous. She stood by the panoramic window, watching as her husband tenderly intertwined his fingers with a young blonde barely twenty-five years old.
    “You are special,” the words reached Marina, and the once familiar voice suddenly seemed alien.
    The girl smiled playfully, revealing flawless teeth and charming dimples. Her well-groomed fingers with perfect manicure caressed Viktor’s wrist tenderly.
    “What about the wife?” squeaked the brunette, puffing out her lips.
    “Marina?” Viktor waved his hand nonchalantly. “She’s busy with flowers and TV series. You know, at our age…” he trailed off, laden with meaning.
    Marina was overwhelmed by a feeling of suffocation, and her hands betrayed her with trembling. Thirty years of life together, three grown-up children, countless evenings shared – all of it was nullified by one dismissive gesture.
    Her first impulse was to burst in, create a scandal, and pour wine on the couple. But something restrained her – perhaps years of cultivated composure or natural reason.
    Upon returning home, Marina mechanically brewed tea and sank into her favorite armchair. Her gaze fell upon a folder of documents in the cabinet – papers she had signed at her husband’s request over the past five years.
    “Darling, it’s just a formality,” his words echoed in her mind. “It’s necessary for tax optimization.”
    Now, as she reviewed the documents with trembling hands, she began to realize the true state of affairs. The house, the country residence, three car dealerships, a chain of restaurants – everything officially belonged to her.
    Fearing inspections, Viktor had been gradually transferring assets to his wife, believing her to be loyal and spineless.
    Marina smiled bitterly. How wrong he was. Over the years of their marriage, she had not only learned to cultivate orchids and bake cakes – she had been carefully monitoring the development of the family business, even though she had remained in the background.
    By midnight, her tears had dried up. In place of despair came cold determination. Marina took out her diary and began to plan. Five days – that was all that was needed.
    Day One:
    The day began with an early call to a lawyer. Elena Sergeyevna, an authoritative family law specialist, carefully examined the documents as Marina nervously tapped her fingers.
    “Congratulations,” the lawyer pronounced while adjusting her glasses. “Legally, you are the sole owner of the entire business.”
    “What about the power of attorney I gave him?”
    “It can be annulled immediately.”
    Marina looked at the swirling autumn leaves outside the office window. For thirty years, she had been an exemplary wife – supportive, inspiring, forgiving. Now it was time to think about herself.
    “Let’s start acting,” she declared firmly.
    Day One Continued:
    That same evening, Viktor returned late, exuding the scent of expensive perfume. Marina, as usual, served dinner.
    “Today you seem different,” noted her husband, dabbing his lips with a napkin.
    “Just tired,” she smiled. “By the way, don’t cook dinner tomorrow. I have a meeting with friends.”
    Viktor nodded absentmindedly, absorbed in his phone. Marina saw him hide a smile as he read messages.
    Day Two:
    The next day, she visited all the banks with their joint accounts. The process took several hours – Viktor was busy shifting their finances across various institutions. By the evening, a significant portion of the funds had been transferred to new accounts opened exclusively in her name.
    “Ms. Sokolova, maybe leave a small reserve?” cautiously suggested the manager of the last bank.
    “No,” Marina shook her head. “Transfer everything.”
    At home, she found a bouquet of roses – Viktor sometimes gave them, especially when he felt guilty. In the past, they would have moved her, but now the flowers elicited only a bitter smile.
    Day Three:
    A meeting took place with Mikhail Petrovich, a long-time partner in their family business.
    “To part with the car dealerships?” Mikhail Petrovich exclaimed in astonishment. “But they consistently generate income!”
    “That’s precisely why now is the perfect time,” Marina replied calmly. “The market is on the rise.”
    By the evening, preliminary agreements had been sealed with signatures. Now she had reliable financial protection.
    Day Four:
    The fourth day was the most emotionally intense. Her hand trembled betraying her as she signed documents.
    “Are you sure about your decision?” inquired the notary sympathetically, a woman around her age.
    “Absolutely,” Marina replied, straightening her shoulders.
    Next, she met with a real estate agency. The family mansion, built fifteen years ago, was now entirely in her possession.
    “I want to prepare the eviction documents,” she declared, looking straight into the eyes of the young lawyer.
    “But that’s your husband…” the lawyer began uncertainly.
    “Ex-husband,” corrected Marina. “And he has exactly seven days to vacate the house.”
    Day Five:
    The fifth day began with a visit... Read the continuation in the comments
    Having caught her husband with a young beauty, the wife didn’t start a brawl; instead, five days later she presented him with an unexpected surprise. Marina could never have imagined that she would find herself in such a situation. “Beluga” – the restaurant where Viktor once proposed to her three decades ago – had now become the venue for his secret rendezvous. She stood by the panoramic window, watching as her husband tenderly intertwined his fingers with a young blonde barely twenty-five years old. “You are special,” the words reached Marina, and the once familiar voice suddenly seemed alien. The girl smiled playfully, revealing flawless teeth and charming dimples. Her well-groomed fingers with perfect manicure caressed Viktor’s wrist tenderly. “What about the wife?” squeaked the brunette, puffing out her lips. “Marina?” Viktor waved his hand nonchalantly. “She’s busy with flowers and TV series. You know, at our age…” he trailed off, laden with meaning. Marina was overwhelmed by a feeling of suffocation, and her hands betrayed her with trembling. Thirty years of life together, three grown-up children, countless evenings shared – all of it was nullified by one dismissive gesture. Her first impulse was to burst in, create a scandal, and pour wine on the couple. But something restrained her – perhaps years of cultivated composure or natural reason. Upon returning home, Marina mechanically brewed tea and sank into her favorite armchair. Her gaze fell upon a folder of documents in the cabinet – papers she had signed at her husband’s request over the past five years. “Darling, it’s just a formality,” his words echoed in her mind. “It’s necessary for tax optimization.” Now, as she reviewed the documents with trembling hands, she began to realize the true state of affairs. The house, the country residence, three car dealerships, a chain of restaurants – everything officially belonged to her. Fearing inspections, Viktor had been gradually transferring assets to his wife, believing her to be loyal and spineless. Marina smiled bitterly. How wrong he was. Over the years of their marriage, she had not only learned to cultivate orchids and bake cakes – she had been carefully monitoring the development of the family business, even though she had remained in the background. By midnight, her tears had dried up. In place of despair came cold determination. Marina took out her diary and began to plan. Five days – that was all that was needed. Day One: The day began with an early call to a lawyer. Elena Sergeyevna, an authoritative family law specialist, carefully examined the documents as Marina nervously tapped her fingers. “Congratulations,” the lawyer pronounced while adjusting her glasses. “Legally, you are the sole owner of the entire business.” “What about the power of attorney I gave him?” “It can be annulled immediately.” Marina looked at the swirling autumn leaves outside the office window. For thirty years, she had been an exemplary wife – supportive, inspiring, forgiving. Now it was time to think about herself. “Let’s start acting,” she declared firmly. Day One Continued: That same evening, Viktor returned late, exuding the scent of expensive perfume. Marina, as usual, served dinner. “Today you seem different,” noted her husband, dabbing his lips with a napkin. “Just tired,” she smiled. “By the way, don’t cook dinner tomorrow. I have a meeting with friends.” Viktor nodded absentmindedly, absorbed in his phone. Marina saw him hide a smile as he read messages. Day Two: The next day, she visited all the banks with their joint accounts. The process took several hours – Viktor was busy shifting their finances across various institutions. By the evening, a significant portion of the funds had been transferred to new accounts opened exclusively in her name. “Ms. Sokolova, maybe leave a small reserve?” cautiously suggested the manager of the last bank. “No,” Marina shook her head. “Transfer everything.” At home, she found a bouquet of roses – Viktor sometimes gave them, especially when he felt guilty. In the past, they would have moved her, but now the flowers elicited only a bitter smile. Day Three: A meeting took place with Mikhail Petrovich, a long-time partner in their family business. “To part with the car dealerships?” Mikhail Petrovich exclaimed in astonishment. “But they consistently generate income!” “That’s precisely why now is the perfect time,” Marina replied calmly. “The market is on the rise.” By the evening, preliminary agreements had been sealed with signatures. Now she had reliable financial protection. Day Four: The fourth day was the most emotionally intense. Her hand trembled betraying her as she signed documents. “Are you sure about your decision?” inquired the notary sympathetically, a woman around her age. “Absolutely,” Marina replied, straightening her shoulders. Next, she met with a real estate agency. The family mansion, built fifteen years ago, was now entirely in her possession. “I want to prepare the eviction documents,” she declared, looking straight into the eyes of the young lawyer. “But that’s your husband…” the lawyer began uncertainly. “Ex-husband,” corrected Marina. “And he has exactly seven days to vacate the house.” Day Five: The fifth day began with a visit... 📖 Read the continuation in the comments ⬇️
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  • “As it stands now, you can’t even book Flavour for this Christmas. He has already been booked for the rest of the year till Christmas. Show promoters have learnt that it’s only in January & early February that you can book Flavour for the year. Anything past February, forget about it. He’ll tell you, Oga I’m sorry, that day has been taken.

    “That boy is a continent by himself. He has no competition. He’s music himself. Did you know he plays about 20 instruments?” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika reveals in a recent podcast
    “As it stands now, you can’t even book Flavour for this Christmas. He has already been booked for the rest of the year till Christmas. Show promoters have learnt that it’s only in January & early February that you can book Flavour for the year. Anything past February, forget about it. He’ll tell you, Oga I’m sorry, that day has been taken. “That boy is a continent by himself. He has no competition. He’s music himself. Did you know he plays about 20 instruments?” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika reveals in a recent podcast
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  • I want to share something painful from my past, something that affected my life forever. So, I got married in the year 2000, and not long after, I gave birth to my son, Raymond. From the moment he was born, our lives became full of hospital visits, sleepless nights, and endless medical expenses.

    The sickness didn’t just affect my son, it affected my marriage too. My husband and I were always stressed. We argued constantly. We blamed each other for everything. Love slowly disappeared from our home. We went from lovers to strangers who only talked about hospital bills.

    In 2006, the marriage couldn’t survive anymore. We went our separate ways, and I was left to raise Raymond alone. It was hard, so hard that I had to leave my acting career behind. I just couldn’t focus. I was broken. Then came the biggest blow of all, Raymond passed away at the age of 17. That pain is something I carry with me every day.

    Please, know this before you fall in love, know your genotype. Love is truly a beautiful thing, but it is not strong enough to carry the weight of this sickness called sickle cell. Know your genotype before love blinds you. I lost everything because I didn’t.

    - Eucharia Anunobi
    I want to share something painful from my past, something that affected my life forever. So, I got married in the year 2000, and not long after, I gave birth to my son, Raymond. From the moment he was born, our lives became full of hospital visits, sleepless nights, and endless medical expenses. The sickness didn’t just affect my son, it affected my marriage too. My husband and I were always stressed. We argued constantly. We blamed each other for everything. Love slowly disappeared from our home. We went from lovers to strangers who only talked about hospital bills. In 2006, the marriage couldn’t survive anymore. We went our separate ways, and I was left to raise Raymond alone. It was hard, so hard that I had to leave my acting career behind. I just couldn’t focus. I was broken. Then came the biggest blow of all, Raymond passed away at the age of 17. That pain is something I carry with me every day. Please, know this before you fall in love, know your genotype. Love is truly a beautiful thing, but it is not strong enough to carry the weight of this sickness called sickle cell. Know your genotype before love blinds you. I lost everything because I didn’t. - Eucharia Anunobi
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  • 17 DISADVANTAGES OF DATING OR MARRYING A NON-VIRGIN

    A Brutally Honest Thread for Men Who Want to Know the Hidden Costs.

    Let’s talk truth. Not everyone will like this, but if you’re a man who values loyalty, purity, peace of mind, and long-term stability—you need to read this without emotions.

    Because behind every past body count is a history that could cost you more than you bargained for.

    Let’s go:

    1. Comparison Never Ends
    She has tasted other men. She may smile at you, but mentally, she’s comparing.

    2. Emotional Baggage
    She's bringing unresolved trauma, heartbreaks, and soul ties into your home.

    3. Reduced Loyalty
    Experience has taught her how to detach emotionally. She knows how to leave.

    4. High Expectations
    She’s been treated, pampered, and spoiled before. Now you're competing with ghosts.

    5. Body Count Insecurity
    You’ll never know the real number. And even if you do, it will haunt you.

    6. She Might Cheat With Her Ex
    That man she cried over for 6 months? He still has a soft spot in her heart.

    7. Lowered Bonding Ability
    Sex forms deep bonds. The more partners she’s had, the harder it is for her to fully bond with one.

    8. Entitlement Culture
    She may feel she's doing you a favor by settling, not knowing she's giving less than you deserve.

    9. Loss of Purity Respect
    You won't feel like you "won" anything rare. You’ll just be another guy on the list.

    10. Risk of STI History
    The more partners, the more chances of infections—past, present, and future.

    11. Emotional Imbalance
    Multiple sexual partners change how a woman sees sex—it becomes transactional.

    12. Disrespect to Masculinity
    She has nothing sacred to offer that’s uniquely yours. She’s already given it away.

    13. Lowered Submission
    A woman with multiple exes finds it harder to submit. She's been the boss before.

    14. You Become Her Rebound or "Safe Option"
    You might just be the guy she settled for, not the one she truly wanted.

    15. Family & Cultural Rejection
    Many traditional cultures still value virginity. Your family may never fully accept her.

    16. Future Regrets
    When problems come, she might wonder: "Did I choose the wrong guy?"—because she has many exes to compare you to.

    17. Lack of Sacredness in Sex
    With no spiritual connection to it, sex becomes a chore, not a sacred act of union.

    BOTTOM LINE:
    This isn't about shaming. It’s about being aware of what you’re walking into.

    A woman’s past does matter—not because she can’t change, but because patterns don’t lie.

    If you’re a man who wants peace, loyalty, depth, and spiritual connection—choose wisely.

    Because marriage is not rehabilitation. And dating is not charity.

    #RealTalk #NoSimpZone #ModernDating #ChooseWisely #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan #TruthOverFeelings
    17 DISADVANTAGES OF DATING OR MARRYING A NON-VIRGIN A Brutally Honest Thread for Men Who Want to Know the Hidden Costs. Let’s talk truth. Not everyone will like this, but if you’re a man who values loyalty, purity, peace of mind, and long-term stability—you need to read this without emotions. Because behind every past body count is a history that could cost you more than you bargained for. Let’s go: 1. Comparison Never Ends She has tasted other men. She may smile at you, but mentally, she’s comparing. 2. Emotional Baggage She's bringing unresolved trauma, heartbreaks, and soul ties into your home. 3. Reduced Loyalty Experience has taught her how to detach emotionally. She knows how to leave. 4. High Expectations She’s been treated, pampered, and spoiled before. Now you're competing with ghosts. 5. Body Count Insecurity You’ll never know the real number. And even if you do, it will haunt you. 6. She Might Cheat With Her Ex That man she cried over for 6 months? He still has a soft spot in her heart. 7. Lowered Bonding Ability Sex forms deep bonds. The more partners she’s had, the harder it is for her to fully bond with one. 8. Entitlement Culture She may feel she's doing you a favor by settling, not knowing she's giving less than you deserve. 9. Loss of Purity Respect You won't feel like you "won" anything rare. You’ll just be another guy on the list. 10. Risk of STI History The more partners, the more chances of infections—past, present, and future. 11. Emotional Imbalance Multiple sexual partners change how a woman sees sex—it becomes transactional. 12. Disrespect to Masculinity She has nothing sacred to offer that’s uniquely yours. She’s already given it away. 13. Lowered Submission A woman with multiple exes finds it harder to submit. She's been the boss before. 14. You Become Her Rebound or "Safe Option" You might just be the guy she settled for, not the one she truly wanted. 15. Family & Cultural Rejection Many traditional cultures still value virginity. Your family may never fully accept her. 16. Future Regrets When problems come, she might wonder: "Did I choose the wrong guy?"—because she has many exes to compare you to. 17. Lack of Sacredness in Sex With no spiritual connection to it, sex becomes a chore, not a sacred act of union. BOTTOM LINE: This isn't about shaming. It’s about being aware of what you’re walking into. A woman’s past does matter—not because she can’t change, but because patterns don’t lie. If you’re a man who wants peace, loyalty, depth, and spiritual connection—choose wisely. Because marriage is not rehabilitation. And dating is not charity. #RealTalk #NoSimpZone #ModernDating #ChooseWisely #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan #TruthOverFeelings
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  • Ashmusy Asks VeryDarkMan for Help After Losing 33 Million Naira to a Scam 🙌🏾

    Popular influencer Ashmusy recently reached out to activist VeryDarkMan for help after reportedly losing 33 million naira to a scammer. The news has sparked a lot of reactions online, with many curious about VeryDarkMan’s response.

    According to posts on X, Ashmusy privately messaged VeryDarkMan, asking him to assist her in recovering the money. This comes after a past disagreement where Ashmusy allegedly called him names during a previous encounter. Despite their history, VeryDarkMan reacted with a mix of surprise and humor, pointing out the irony of her asking for his help now. He later agreed to assist her, which has left fans talking.

    This isn’t the first time these two have made headlines. Last year, VeryDarkMan called out Ashmusy for not delivering on a 1 million naira advertising deal, which she refunded after his public outcry. Now, with this new 33 million naira scam, their story continues to grab attention.

    What do you think about Ashmusy’s plea and VeryDarkMan’s reaction?

    #Bloom
    Ashmusy Asks VeryDarkMan for Help After Losing 33 Million Naira to a Scam 👀🙌🏾 Popular influencer Ashmusy recently reached out to activist VeryDarkMan for help after reportedly losing 33 million naira to a scammer. The news has sparked a lot of reactions online, with many curious about VeryDarkMan’s response. According to posts on X, Ashmusy privately messaged VeryDarkMan, asking him to assist her in recovering the money. This comes after a past disagreement where Ashmusy allegedly called him names during a previous encounter. Despite their history, VeryDarkMan reacted with a mix of surprise and humor, pointing out the irony of her asking for his help now. He later agreed to assist her, which has left fans talking. This isn’t the first time these two have made headlines. Last year, VeryDarkMan called out Ashmusy for not delivering on a 1 million naira advertising deal, which she refunded after his public outcry. Now, with this new 33 million naira scam, their story continues to grab attention. What do you think about Ashmusy’s plea and VeryDarkMan’s reaction?😲 #Bloom
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  • Common Mistakes People Make When Choosing a Life Partner

    DESPERATION– Some people rush into marriage without learning enough about it.

    They think, “I’ll figure it out along the way,” but this mindset leads to regret.

    The right knowledge helps you prepare, notice warning signs early, and make better choices.

    TRYING TO PROVE A POINT– Some get married just to show others they can. They don’t want people saying, “With all your beauty and money, you’re still single?”

    But in the end, when problems come, they realize no one really cared that much and they have to face the consequences of their choices and decisions all alone

    PEER PRESSURE – Seeing friends get married makes some feel left out.

    So, they rush to pick anyone just to fit in, without thinking long-term.

    FEAR OF TIME PASSING – Some believe they are getting too old and must marry quickly, even if the person doesn’t match their values and purpose in life.

    They forget that everyone’s journey(time) is different, and rushing can lead to regret.

    MARRYING FOR MONEY OR STATUS– Some choose a partner just for wealth or social position, ignoring their bad character.

    Later, they realize that money is useless when there is no peace and they have no say in the marriage.

    BLINDLY FOLLOWING RECOMMENDATIONS– Some marry people recommended by parents, pastors, or others without checking if they are truly compatible.

    But what others see as “good” may not be right for you. Good intentions doesn’t equate compatibility.

    Marriage is a lifelong journey. Don't rush into it for the wrong reasons.

    Take your time, learn, and choose wisely.
    Common Mistakes People Make When Choosing a Life Partner ‼️DESPERATION– Some people rush into marriage without learning enough about it. They think, “I’ll figure it out along the way,” but this mindset leads to regret. The right knowledge helps you prepare, notice warning signs early, and make better choices. ‼️TRYING TO PROVE A POINT– Some get married just to show others they can. They don’t want people saying, “With all your beauty and money, you’re still single?” But in the end, when problems come, they realize no one really cared that much and they have to face the consequences of their choices and decisions all alone ‼️PEER PRESSURE – Seeing friends get married makes some feel left out. So, they rush to pick anyone just to fit in, without thinking long-term. ‼️FEAR OF TIME PASSING – Some believe they are getting too old and must marry quickly, even if the person doesn’t match their values and purpose in life. They forget that everyone’s journey(time) is different, and rushing can lead to regret. ‼️MARRYING FOR MONEY OR STATUS– Some choose a partner just for wealth or social position, ignoring their bad character. Later, they realize that money is useless when there is no peace and they have no say in the marriage. ‼️BLINDLY FOLLOWING RECOMMENDATIONS– Some marry people recommended by parents, pastors, or others without checking if they are truly compatible. But what others see as “good” may not be right for you. Good intentions doesn’t equate compatibility. Marriage is a lifelong journey. Don't rush into it for the wrong reasons. Take your time, learn, and choose wisely.
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  • AFTER LEAVING HIS WIFE PENNILESS, HE MET HER YEARS LATER—AND COULDN’T BELIEVE HIS EYES

    Arthur had always prided himself on being the master of his own destiny. Even during his college years, he commanded attention with his sharp business instincts. While his classmates buried themselves in books, Arthur was already immersed in entrepreneurial ventures—flipping cars one week, assembling custom computers the next.

    It was during this phase of his life that he met Michelle. Unlike Arthur’s flashy and superficial girlfriends, Michelle was a quiet, hardworking student majoring in foreign languages. Her modesty set her apart, and to Arthur, she was intriguing in a way he hadn’t expected.

    He pursued her with charm and persistence. Michelle, dazzled by the attention of the campus’s most popular guy, quickly fell for him.

    “You’re so beautiful,” Arthur would say, dismissing her studies with a wave of his hand. “Why waste your time in school? Marry me, and I’ll take care of everything.”

    Michelle hesitated. “I want to work as a translator,” she said shyly. “I want to connect with people from all over the world.”

    Arthur laughed. “You can practice your languages with my business partners.”

    Eventually, she gave in. They married, and life seemed full of promise. Money was never a problem, and soon their first child, Dimka, was born. Michelle embraced motherhood wholeheartedly. When their daughter, Lenochka, arrived a few years later, her days became consumed with caring for two young children.

    Michelle once considered hiring a nanny to balance work and parenting, but Arthur shut the idea down. “Kids need their mother,” he insisted.

    While Michelle poured herself into raising their family, Arthur threw himself into his business—or so he claimed. He always seemed to have funds for luxury items like a new car or a state-of-the-art TV. Yet when Michelle asked for something as small as a new hairdryer, he’d scoff and say, “The old one works just fine.”

    Years passed, and the children grew older. Michelle began to feel an aching loneliness. Arthur’s time at home dwindled, and when he was there, his phone never left his hand. Any suggestion of a date night or family outing was met with a firm “I’m too busy.” Somehow, though, he always found time for his friends.

    Then, one day, Arthur dropped a bombshell.

    “We need to split up,” he said bluntly. “I’m tired of this family routine. I have my own life to live, and I need my freedom.”

    Michelle was stunned. “Split up? What do you mean? What about the kids? What about us?”

    “You’re a mother. You’ll figure it out,” Arthur said with a shrug. That same evening, he packed his belongings and left without looking back.

    At least he left her the house—but not a single penny to her name.

    Michelle’s once-comfortable life fell apart in an instant. Desperate to provide for her children, she scoured the city for work, often leaving Dimma and Lessie with a kind neighbor. Eventually, she landed a job as a cleaner at a shopping mall, but it wasn’t enough. She started working night shifts to make ends meet, and the exhaustion quickly took its toll.

    Just when it seemed things couldn’t get any worse, tragedy struck. Michelle received a devastating call from her mother about her beloved grandfather. Overwhelmed by grief, she summoned every ounce of strength to carry on.

    When she visited the notary’s office to settle her grandfather’s affairs, she received the surprise of her life. It turned out her grandfather had been quietly investing in company shares for years. He left his entire fortune to Michelle.

    Determined to rebuild her life, Michelle used the inheritance wisely. She took professional development courses to re-enter her field and invested part of the money in a small neighborhood café. The café thrived and quickly became a local favorite.

    One busy afternoon, Michelle was behind the counter when the chime of the doorbell signaled new guests. She looked up to greet them—and froze.

    Standing in the doorway was Arthur, arm in arm with a striking young blonde.

    “Good afternoon. What can I get for you?” Michelle asked, her voice calm and professional.

    Arthur glanced up from the menu, doing a double take when he recognized her. “Michelle? Are you working here as a waitress?” he asked with thinly veiled smugness.

    “Yes, I work here,” she replied evenly. “What would you like to order?”

    Arthur smirked. “Two cappuccinos and some croissants. Well, well—how the tables have turned. I assumed you were still scrubbing floors. Guess this is an upgrade, huh?”

    The blonde laughed, clearly enjoying the joke.

    “Your order will be ready shortly,” Michelle said, turning toward the counter.

    When she returned with their drinks and pastries, Arthur couldn’t resist another jab. “You seem to be doing okay. Maybe serving coffee really is your true calling.”

    CONTINUE THE STORY IN THE COMMENTS BELOW!
    AFTER LEAVING HIS WIFE PENNILESS, HE MET HER YEARS LATER—AND COULDN’T BELIEVE HIS EYES Arthur had always prided himself on being the master of his own destiny. Even during his college years, he commanded attention with his sharp business instincts. While his classmates buried themselves in books, Arthur was already immersed in entrepreneurial ventures—flipping cars one week, assembling custom computers the next. It was during this phase of his life that he met Michelle. Unlike Arthur’s flashy and superficial girlfriends, Michelle was a quiet, hardworking student majoring in foreign languages. Her modesty set her apart, and to Arthur, she was intriguing in a way he hadn’t expected. He pursued her with charm and persistence. Michelle, dazzled by the attention of the campus’s most popular guy, quickly fell for him. “You’re so beautiful,” Arthur would say, dismissing her studies with a wave of his hand. “Why waste your time in school? Marry me, and I’ll take care of everything.” Michelle hesitated. “I want to work as a translator,” she said shyly. “I want to connect with people from all over the world.” Arthur laughed. “You can practice your languages with my business partners.” Eventually, she gave in. They married, and life seemed full of promise. Money was never a problem, and soon their first child, Dimka, was born. Michelle embraced motherhood wholeheartedly. When their daughter, Lenochka, arrived a few years later, her days became consumed with caring for two young children. Michelle once considered hiring a nanny to balance work and parenting, but Arthur shut the idea down. “Kids need their mother,” he insisted. While Michelle poured herself into raising their family, Arthur threw himself into his business—or so he claimed. He always seemed to have funds for luxury items like a new car or a state-of-the-art TV. Yet when Michelle asked for something as small as a new hairdryer, he’d scoff and say, “The old one works just fine.” Years passed, and the children grew older. Michelle began to feel an aching loneliness. Arthur’s time at home dwindled, and when he was there, his phone never left his hand. Any suggestion of a date night or family outing was met with a firm “I’m too busy.” Somehow, though, he always found time for his friends. Then, one day, Arthur dropped a bombshell. “We need to split up,” he said bluntly. “I’m tired of this family routine. I have my own life to live, and I need my freedom.” Michelle was stunned. “Split up? What do you mean? What about the kids? What about us?” “You’re a mother. You’ll figure it out,” Arthur said with a shrug. That same evening, he packed his belongings and left without looking back. At least he left her the house—but not a single penny to her name. Michelle’s once-comfortable life fell apart in an instant. Desperate to provide for her children, she scoured the city for work, often leaving Dimma and Lessie with a kind neighbor. Eventually, she landed a job as a cleaner at a shopping mall, but it wasn’t enough. She started working night shifts to make ends meet, and the exhaustion quickly took its toll. Just when it seemed things couldn’t get any worse, tragedy struck. Michelle received a devastating call from her mother about her beloved grandfather. Overwhelmed by grief, she summoned every ounce of strength to carry on. When she visited the notary’s office to settle her grandfather’s affairs, she received the surprise of her life. It turned out her grandfather had been quietly investing in company shares for years. He left his entire fortune to Michelle. Determined to rebuild her life, Michelle used the inheritance wisely. She took professional development courses to re-enter her field and invested part of the money in a small neighborhood café. The café thrived and quickly became a local favorite. One busy afternoon, Michelle was behind the counter when the chime of the doorbell signaled new guests. She looked up to greet them—and froze. Standing in the doorway was Arthur, arm in arm with a striking young blonde. “Good afternoon. What can I get for you?” Michelle asked, her voice calm and professional. Arthur glanced up from the menu, doing a double take when he recognized her. “Michelle? Are you working here as a waitress?” he asked with thinly veiled smugness. “Yes, I work here,” she replied evenly. “What would you like to order?” Arthur smirked. “Two cappuccinos and some croissants. Well, well—how the tables have turned. I assumed you were still scrubbing floors. Guess this is an upgrade, huh?” The blonde laughed, clearly enjoying the joke. “Your order will be ready shortly,” Michelle said, turning toward the counter. When she returned with their drinks and pastries, Arthur couldn’t resist another jab. “You seem to be doing okay. Maybe serving coffee really is your true calling.” CONTINUE THE STORY IN THE COMMENTS BELOW! ⬇️⬇️⬇️
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  • SHE HAD S£X WITH HER DOG EVERYDAY UNTIL IT...

    4

    whispering things to him she wouldn't dare say to anyone else. Max was more than just a pet; he was her companion, her protector, and in some strange way, he filled a part of her that no one else could.

    Rachel knew it wasn't normal. She knew she shouldn't feel this way, but she couldn't help it. Max had been with her through everything—through her loneliness, through the heartbreaks, and even through her struggle to open up to Daniel.

    Daniel came back from work tired and frustrated from a long day. As soon as he stepped into the house, Max started barking loudly, just like he always did. Read the final episode on— bcdblog. ng — It was non-stop, and Daniel had reached his limit. He clenched his fists, trying to stay calm, but the noise was too much.

    "Enough!" Daniel shouted. "I can't take this anymore!"

    Rachel rushed to calm Max down, but it was too late. Daniel turned to her, his face red with anger.

    "You need to leave, Rachel. I'm done with you and that dog of yours."

    Rachel's heart sank. "Daniel, please," she begged. "Max didn't mean anything by it. He's just protective."

    "Protective?" Daniel scoffed. "He's out of control. And you—I don't even know what's going on behind closed doors between you two. It's like you care more about that dog than anything else."

    "That's not true," Rachel cried. "I love you, Daniel. Please don't make me leave. I'll figure something out, I promise."

    But Daniel shook his head. "No, Rachel. I'm done. I can't live like this anymore with you and your ******, overprotective dog. It's too much."

    Rachel's eyes filled with tears as she realized Daniel wasn't going to change his mind. She tried one last time to beg him, but he pointed to the door. "Go away. I don't want you here anymore."

    With her heart breaking, Rachel gathered her things, and with Max by her side, she walked out of Daniel's house.

    A few months later, Rachel met a new man named Robert. She loved him deeply and felt ready to change her life. Read the final episode on— bcdblog.ng — She was tired of the way things had been, especially the strange relationship she had with Max. Determined to make things work this time, she focused on her new relationship.

    After a few months of dating, Robert proposed to her, and Rachel, filled with excitement, immediately shared the news with her best friend Angela. She couldn't wait to tell her, but along with the good news, Rachel felt the need to confess something she had been hiding for a long time.

    During their conversation, Rachel told Angela about her past life with Max, explaining how she had become too close to the dog in a way that wasn't normal. Bcdblog Family Page. Angela was shocked and surprised by what she heard but listened carefully as Rachel begged her not to tell anyone.

    Rachel knew her relationship with Max had been wrong, and she wanted to move on, to start fresh with Robert. Angela, still processing the information, promised she wouldn't tell anyone. She encouraged Rachel to deal with the situation fully, but Rachel asked for time.

    She wanted to leave that part of her life behind and focus on building a new future with Robert, hoping things would be different this time around.

    As they were walking down the street, Angela casually said, "Let me see this man you've been talking so much about."

    Rachel smiled, excited to show her friend the man she was going to marry. She pulled out her phone and opened a picture of Robert, handing it to Angela. The moment Angela saw the picture, her heart skipped a beat. Bcdblog Family Page. She tried to hide her reaction, but inside she was shocked. Bcdblog Stories. Robert wasn't just any man—he was her crush, someone she had admired from afar for months. She had never mentioned him to Rachel because she hadn't expected their paths to cross like this, but now, seeing Robert as Rachel's fiancé, Angela felt a mix of jealousy and disappointment. She kept her face calm, though, and handed the phone back to Rachel, pretending everything was fine.

    "He looks nice," Angela said, forcing a smile, but deep down she was struggling with the news.

    From that day on, Angela started planting seeds of doubt in Rachel's mind.

    To be continued» READ THE FINAL EPISODE ON bcdblog.ng
    SHE HAD S£X WITH HER DOG EVERYDAY UNTIL IT... 4 whispering things to him she wouldn't dare say to anyone else. Max was more than just a pet; he was her companion, her protector, and in some strange way, he filled a part of her that no one else could. Rachel knew it wasn't normal. She knew she shouldn't feel this way, but she couldn't help it. Max had been with her through everything—through her loneliness, through the heartbreaks, and even through her struggle to open up to Daniel. Daniel came back from work tired and frustrated from a long day. As soon as he stepped into the house, Max started barking loudly, just like he always did. Read the final episode on— bcdblog. ng — It was non-stop, and Daniel had reached his limit. He clenched his fists, trying to stay calm, but the noise was too much. "Enough!" Daniel shouted. "I can't take this anymore!" Rachel rushed to calm Max down, but it was too late. Daniel turned to her, his face red with anger. "You need to leave, Rachel. I'm done with you and that dog of yours." Rachel's heart sank. "Daniel, please," she begged. "Max didn't mean anything by it. He's just protective." "Protective?" Daniel scoffed. "He's out of control. And you—I don't even know what's going on behind closed doors between you two. It's like you care more about that dog than anything else." "That's not true," Rachel cried. "I love you, Daniel. Please don't make me leave. I'll figure something out, I promise." But Daniel shook his head. "No, Rachel. I'm done. I can't live like this anymore with you and your stupid, overprotective dog. It's too much." Rachel's eyes filled with tears as she realized Daniel wasn't going to change his mind. She tried one last time to beg him, but he pointed to the door. "Go away. I don't want you here anymore." With her heart breaking, Rachel gathered her things, and with Max by her side, she walked out of Daniel's house. A few months later, Rachel met a new man named Robert. She loved him deeply and felt ready to change her life. Read the final episode on— bcdblog.ng — She was tired of the way things had been, especially the strange relationship she had with Max. Determined to make things work this time, she focused on her new relationship. After a few months of dating, Robert proposed to her, and Rachel, filled with excitement, immediately shared the news with her best friend Angela. She couldn't wait to tell her, but along with the good news, Rachel felt the need to confess something she had been hiding for a long time. During their conversation, Rachel told Angela about her past life with Max, explaining how she had become too close to the dog in a way that wasn't normal. Bcdblog Family Page. Angela was shocked and surprised by what she heard but listened carefully as Rachel begged her not to tell anyone. Rachel knew her relationship with Max had been wrong, and she wanted to move on, to start fresh with Robert. Angela, still processing the information, promised she wouldn't tell anyone. She encouraged Rachel to deal with the situation fully, but Rachel asked for time. She wanted to leave that part of her life behind and focus on building a new future with Robert, hoping things would be different this time around. As they were walking down the street, Angela casually said, "Let me see this man you've been talking so much about." Rachel smiled, excited to show her friend the man she was going to marry. She pulled out her phone and opened a picture of Robert, handing it to Angela. The moment Angela saw the picture, her heart skipped a beat. Bcdblog Family Page. She tried to hide her reaction, but inside she was shocked. Bcdblog Stories. Robert wasn't just any man—he was her crush, someone she had admired from afar for months. She had never mentioned him to Rachel because she hadn't expected their paths to cross like this, but now, seeing Robert as Rachel's fiancé, Angela felt a mix of jealousy and disappointment. She kept her face calm, though, and handed the phone back to Rachel, pretending everything was fine. "He looks nice," Angela said, forcing a smile, but deep down she was struggling with the news. From that day on, Angela started planting seeds of doubt in Rachel's mind. To be continued» READ THE FINAL EPISODE ON 👉 bcdblog.ng
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