• The past may shape you, but it doesn't define you. Your future is waiting, and it's full of possibilities. Take the first step today."

    Life is a journey of ups and downs, but every step forward is a step closer to your dreams. Keep moving, even when it's hard."

    You can't turn back the clock, but you can wind it up again. Every new day is a chance to start anew and move forward."

    The only way to guarantee failure is to stop trying. Keep pushing forward, and you'll be amazed at what you can achieve."

    Your future is created by what you do today. Make it a masterpiece by moving forward with purpose and passion."
    The past may shape you, but it doesn't define you. Your future is waiting, and it's full of possibilities. Take the first step today." Life is a journey of ups and downs, but every step forward is a step closer to your dreams. Keep moving, even when it's hard." You can't turn back the clock, but you can wind it up again. Every new day is a chance to start anew and move forward." The only way to guarantee failure is to stop trying. Keep pushing forward, and you'll be amazed at what you can achieve." Your future is created by what you do today. Make it a masterpiece by moving forward with purpose and passion."
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  • “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.”
    -Bishop David Oyedepo

    Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”

    “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.” -Bishop David Oyedepo Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”
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  • Ace Nigerian rapper Jude Abaga, popularly known as M.I, has admitted he regrets supporting the All Progressives Congress (APC) during the 2015 elections.

    The award-winning rapper said his support for the APC was based on his belief at the time that the then-ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) was deeply corrupt.

    However, he acknowledged that the APC has failed to meet his expectations.

    Speaking on a recent episode of the Menism podcast, M.I reflected on the backlash he received for commenting on recent herdsmen attacks in Benue State, with many Nigerians on social media reminding him of his past political stance.
    Ace Nigerian rapper Jude Abaga, popularly known as M.I, has admitted he regrets supporting the All Progressives Congress (APC) during the 2015 elections. The award-winning rapper said his support for the APC was based on his belief at the time that the then-ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) was deeply corrupt. However, he acknowledged that the APC has failed to meet his expectations. Speaking on a recent episode of the Menism podcast, M.I reflected on the backlash he received for commenting on recent herdsmen attacks in Benue State, with many Nigerians on social media reminding him of his past political stance.
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  • *From House Help To Hospital Hero*

    1998. Victoria Island, Lagos.

    My name is Chinaza, and I grew up in a mansion. Marble floors. Private drivers. Nannies. My father was a respected surgeon.
    My mother ran a fashion boutique in Lekki.

    We had everything….Except empathy.

    Right outside our back kitchen was a tiny servant’s quarters — where our gate man, Papa Sunday, lived with his wife and son.

    His son’s name?

    Ebuka.

    He was quiet.
    Always barefoot.
    Always polite.

    He’d sweep the compound, wash my father’s car, then disappear behind the small zinc wall that divided our world from his.

    My mother hated him.

    > “Tell him not to sit on our veranda. He smells like hardship.”

    I never understood it.

    Because every time I saw him, he was helping someone.
    Carrying groceries.
    Fetching water.
    Smiling with gratitude.

    But I never really noticed Ebuka — not until that Saturday.

    2002.

    I was 17.
    He was 19.

    I was sitting outside reading a novel when I suddenly started gasping. My throat tightened. I couldn’t breathe.

    I was having an asthma attack — my worst ever.

    I fell to the floor.

    Everyone was screaming.

    And then… Ebuka ran in.

    Carried me on his back.
    Rushed me into the car.
    Drove me — with no license — to the nearest hospital.

    I survived.

    That night, my father yelled at him:

    > “How dare you take my car? Are you mad?”

    Ebuka bowed his head and said:

    > “I’m sorry sir. But she would’ve died.”

    My mother slapped him.

    I watched silently.

    The next week, his father was fired.

    They packed in the night.

    No goodbyes.

    No forwarding address.

    Just silence.

    20 years passed.

    I became a banker. Moved to Port Harcourt.
    Married. Had one child.

    But life happened.

    My marriage collapsed. I lost my job. Developed fibroids. Struggled with depression.

    I returned to Lagos — not to a mansion — but to my mother’s old house. She had passed. The place was dusty and hollow.

    I decided to do surgery for the fibroids.

    Everyone recommended one place:

    > “Hopewell Specialist Clinic.”

    They said the CEO was a mystery. Young. Brilliant. Private.

    I booked the procedure.

    The nurse asked:

    > “Would you like to meet the consultant before your surgery?”

    I said yes.

    The door opened…

    And Ebuka walked in.

    But not in rags. Not in slippers. In a fitted suit. Clean shoes. A golden lapel pin with the initials: E.A.O. — Ebuka Anozie Okafor.

    He stopped. Stared at me.

    > “Chinaza?”

    I covered my mouth.

    > “Ebuka?”

    We both froze. Years of silence collapsed in seconds.

    He sat down.

    Tears filled my eyes.

    > “I thought you disappeared.”

    He smiled.

    > “I didn’t disappear. I just… built.”

    He told me his story.

    After they were fired, they moved to a church compound in Mushin.

    He continued washing cars. Then started teaching neighbourhood kids math.

    A pastor’s wife noticed him. Paid his WAEC fees. He passed.

    Won a scholarship to UNN. Studied Medicine. Graduated top of his class.

    Won another scholarship — to study in South Africa.

    Then returned.

    Opened his clinic in Ajah with ₦50,000 and one mattress.

    Now?

    He owns four clinics. Employs over 120 medical staff.

    I wept.

    > “You saved me again.”

    He smiled.

    > “This time, I have a license.”

    After the surgery, he refused to charge me.

    I insisted.

    He said:

    > “You once gave me books when everyone else gave me insults.”

    I didn’t remember.

    But he did.

    He said:

    > “You gave me your old copy of ‘Purple Hibiscus’ and said, ‘Your brain is too big to waste sweeping.’ That sentence stayed with me forever.”

    Today, we are friends. Real friends.

    He sponsors my NGO for underprivileged women.

    And last month, at a business conference, someone asked him:

    > “Who inspired you the most?”

    He pointed at me.

    > “The girl who gave me a book instead of a broom.”

    From gate boy…
    To gate opener.

    From house help…
    To hospital hero.

    From insulted…
    To influential.

    Sometimes, the people the world throws away… Are the ones God raises to save those who once looked down on them.

    *by Rosyworld CRN*
    *From House Help To Hospital Hero* 1998. Victoria Island, Lagos. My name is Chinaza, and I grew up in a mansion. Marble floors. Private drivers. Nannies. My father was a respected surgeon. My mother ran a fashion boutique in Lekki. We had everything….Except empathy. Right outside our back kitchen was a tiny servant’s quarters — where our gate man, Papa Sunday, lived with his wife and son. His son’s name? Ebuka. He was quiet. Always barefoot. Always polite. He’d sweep the compound, wash my father’s car, then disappear behind the small zinc wall that divided our world from his. My mother hated him. > “Tell him not to sit on our veranda. He smells like hardship.” I never understood it. Because every time I saw him, he was helping someone. Carrying groceries. Fetching water. Smiling with gratitude. But I never really noticed Ebuka — not until that Saturday. 2002. I was 17. He was 19. I was sitting outside reading a novel when I suddenly started gasping. My throat tightened. I couldn’t breathe. I was having an asthma attack — my worst ever. I fell to the floor. Everyone was screaming. And then… Ebuka ran in. Carried me on his back. Rushed me into the car. Drove me — with no license — to the nearest hospital. I survived. That night, my father yelled at him: > “How dare you take my car? Are you mad?” Ebuka bowed his head and said: > “I’m sorry sir. But she would’ve died.” My mother slapped him. I watched silently. The next week, his father was fired. They packed in the night. No goodbyes. No forwarding address. Just silence. 20 years passed. I became a banker. Moved to Port Harcourt. Married. Had one child. But life happened. My marriage collapsed. I lost my job. Developed fibroids. Struggled with depression. I returned to Lagos — not to a mansion — but to my mother’s old house. She had passed. The place was dusty and hollow. I decided to do surgery for the fibroids. Everyone recommended one place: > “Hopewell Specialist Clinic.” They said the CEO was a mystery. Young. Brilliant. Private. I booked the procedure. The nurse asked: > “Would you like to meet the consultant before your surgery?” I said yes. The door opened… And Ebuka walked in. But not in rags. Not in slippers. In a fitted suit. Clean shoes. A golden lapel pin with the initials: E.A.O. — Ebuka Anozie Okafor. He stopped. Stared at me. > “Chinaza?” I covered my mouth. > “Ebuka?” We both froze. Years of silence collapsed in seconds. He sat down. Tears filled my eyes. > “I thought you disappeared.” He smiled. > “I didn’t disappear. I just… built.” He told me his story. After they were fired, they moved to a church compound in Mushin. He continued washing cars. Then started teaching neighbourhood kids math. A pastor’s wife noticed him. Paid his WAEC fees. He passed. Won a scholarship to UNN. Studied Medicine. Graduated top of his class. Won another scholarship — to study in South Africa. Then returned. Opened his clinic in Ajah with ₦50,000 and one mattress. Now? He owns four clinics. Employs over 120 medical staff. I wept. > “You saved me again.” He smiled. > “This time, I have a license.” After the surgery, he refused to charge me. I insisted. He said: > “You once gave me books when everyone else gave me insults.” I didn’t remember. But he did. He said: > “You gave me your old copy of ‘Purple Hibiscus’ and said, ‘Your brain is too big to waste sweeping.’ That sentence stayed with me forever.” Today, we are friends. Real friends. He sponsors my NGO for underprivileged women. And last month, at a business conference, someone asked him: > “Who inspired you the most?” He pointed at me. > “The girl who gave me a book instead of a broom.” From gate boy… To gate opener. From house help… To hospital hero. From insulted… To influential. Sometimes, the people the world throws away… Are the ones God raises to save those who once looked down on them. *by Rosyworld CRN*
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  • Traditionalist clash with pastor for preaching against African culture in a Lagos bus ... #Aidee #News #Religious
    Traditionalist clash with pastor for preaching against African culture in a Lagos bus ... #Aidee #News #Religious
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  • “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.”
    -Bishop David Oyedepo

    Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”

    “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.” -Bishop David Oyedepo Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”
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  • “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.”
    -Bishop David Oyedepo

    Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”

    “The money they gave you to vote for them in the last election, I hope it’s still there? Because I don’t think any members in this church will still be f0øled again. Today they have a Muslim-Muslim ticket, next one might be Fulani-Fulani ticket.” -Bishop David Oyedepo Pastor Oyedepo spoke truth to GEJ. He spoke truth to Buhari, & now Tinubu. RCCG is still drinking tea with god. He’s still praying for the Naira & the Economy. Pastor Adeboye is when a GO decides to take a Regional Position in the House of God. “By their fruits, we shall…..?”
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
    Read less.

    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • How to Prepare Ofe Nsala (White Soup)

    Ingredients
    - 1 medium catfish (or chicken/goat meat)
    - 6–8 slices of yam (for thickening)
    - 1 tsp uziza seeds (ground)
    - 1 cup sliced uziza or utazi leaves
    - 2 tbsp ground crayfish
    - 2 tbsp ogiri (fermented locust beans)
    - 2 seasoning cubes
    - Salt and pepper to taste

    Instructions
    - Boil the yam until soft, then pound or blend into a smooth paste. Set aside.
    - Clean the catfish with hot water to remove slime. Rinse thoroughly.
    - In a pot, boil the fish with seasoning cubes, salt, and a bit of onion until nearly cooked.
    - Add crayfish, pepper, ogiri, and ground uziza seeds. Stir well.
    - Drop in the yam paste bit by bit. Let it dissolve and thicken the soup.
    - Add the sliced leaves and simmer for a few more minutes.
    - Adjust seasoning and serve hot with pounded yam, fufu, or semovita.
    How to Prepare Ofe Nsala (White Soup) Ingredients - 1 medium catfish (or chicken/goat meat) - 6–8 slices of yam (for thickening) - 1 tsp uziza seeds (ground) - 1 cup sliced uziza or utazi leaves - 2 tbsp ground crayfish - 2 tbsp ogiri (fermented locust beans) - 2 seasoning cubes - Salt and pepper to taste Instructions - Boil the yam until soft, then pound or blend into a smooth paste. Set aside. - Clean the catfish with hot water to remove slime. Rinse thoroughly. - In a pot, boil the fish with seasoning cubes, salt, and a bit of onion until nearly cooked. - Add crayfish, pepper, ogiri, and ground uziza seeds. Stir well. - Drop in the yam paste bit by bit. Let it dissolve and thicken the soup. - Add the sliced leaves and simmer for a few more minutes. - Adjust seasoning and serve hot with pounded yam, fufu, or semovita.
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  • THE LAST PROMISE
    PART 2
    The house had never felt so empty.
    Mary sat on the edge of the bed, her fingers tracing the wrinkles on the sheets where Kelvin had lain just hours before. The room still smelled like him—like medicine and the faintest hint of the cologne he used to wear when he was still strong enough to care. Now, the scent was fading, just like he had.
    She couldn’t breathe.
    The doctor had left. The neighbors had come and gone, whispering words that meant nothing. "I’m so sorry." "He’s in a better place." "Stay strong." As if any of those words could fill the hole in her chest.
    But now, she was alone.
    Really, truly alone.
    Her hands shook as she picked up his pillow, pressing it to her face. She inhaled deeply, desperate to hold onto any piece of him she could. But it wasn’t enough. Nothing would ever be enough again.
    A sound escaped her—something between a gasp and a sob—and then the tears came. Not the quiet, gentle tears she had shed while he was still alive, when she tried to be brave for him. No, these were raw, ugly sobs that ripped through her body like a storm. She clutched the pillow tighter, her whole body trembling, as if she could somehow press herself into the past, back to when he was still here.
    "Mary," he had whispered that morning, his voice so weak it barely reached her. "Come here."
    She had rushed to his side, taking his hand, already knowing.
    "Don’t leave me," she had begged, her voice breaking.
    He had smiled—just a little—and lifted his shaking hand to her face. "I love you," he said. And then, softer, "Keep your promise."
    His fingers had gone slack.
    His breath had stilled.
    And just like that, the love of her life was gone.
    Now, the silence was unbearable.
    Mary curled into herself on the bed, her body wracked with sobs. She screamed into the pillow—screamed at God, at the world, at the unfairness of it all. She screamed until her throat burned, until she had no voice left.
    Outside, the world kept moving. Birds chirped. The sun shone. People laughed somewhere down the street.
    But inside that house, time had stopped.
    She didn’t know how long she lay there, drowning in grief. But when she finally lifted her head, the room was dark. The candle had burned out.
    Kelvin was still gone.
    And she was still here.
    Alone.
    Her fingers brushed against something on the nightstand—a small, folded piece of paper with her name written in Kelvin’s shaky handwriting.
    With trembling hands, she opened it.
    And as she read his final words to her, she broke all over again.
    TO BE CONTINUED...
    THE LAST PROMISE PART 2 The house had never felt so empty. Mary sat on the edge of the bed, her fingers tracing the wrinkles on the sheets where Kelvin had lain just hours before. The room still smelled like him—like medicine and the faintest hint of the cologne he used to wear when he was still strong enough to care. Now, the scent was fading, just like he had. She couldn’t breathe. The doctor had left. The neighbors had come and gone, whispering words that meant nothing. "I’m so sorry." "He’s in a better place." "Stay strong." As if any of those words could fill the hole in her chest. But now, she was alone. Really, truly alone. Her hands shook as she picked up his pillow, pressing it to her face. She inhaled deeply, desperate to hold onto any piece of him she could. But it wasn’t enough. Nothing would ever be enough again. A sound escaped her—something between a gasp and a sob—and then the tears came. Not the quiet, gentle tears she had shed while he was still alive, when she tried to be brave for him. No, these were raw, ugly sobs that ripped through her body like a storm. She clutched the pillow tighter, her whole body trembling, as if she could somehow press herself into the past, back to when he was still here. "Mary," he had whispered that morning, his voice so weak it barely reached her. "Come here." She had rushed to his side, taking his hand, already knowing. "Don’t leave me," she had begged, her voice breaking. He had smiled—just a little—and lifted his shaking hand to her face. "I love you," he said. And then, softer, "Keep your promise." His fingers had gone slack. His breath had stilled. And just like that, the love of her life was gone. Now, the silence was unbearable. Mary curled into herself on the bed, her body wracked with sobs. She screamed into the pillow—screamed at God, at the world, at the unfairness of it all. She screamed until her throat burned, until she had no voice left. Outside, the world kept moving. Birds chirped. The sun shone. People laughed somewhere down the street. But inside that house, time had stopped. She didn’t know how long she lay there, drowning in grief. But when she finally lifted her head, the room was dark. The candle had burned out. Kelvin was still gone. And she was still here. Alone. Her fingers brushed against something on the nightstand—a small, folded piece of paper with her name written in Kelvin’s shaky handwriting. With trembling hands, she opened it. And as she read his final words to her, she broke all over again. TO BE CONTINUED...
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
    Read less.

    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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