12 NEGATIVE THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO OR SAY DURING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌 Disagreements in marriage are normal. Offense must come, no matter how holy and anointed you are. But we must learn to handle disputes with God's wisdom so that they won’t lead to MARITAL CRISIS AND DIVORCE. HERE ARE 12 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE. 1. 📌Never say a word you may later regret. Never let your emotions control you. No matter how angry you are, never speak a word you will regret later. Avoid negative arguments. If you must argue, do it with love. Control your anger. Don’t abuse your tongue. Some couples are divorced today because they cannot control their tongues. Words spoken in anger can destroy a blissful marriage overnight. 2. 📌Never Be Too Proud To I Am Sorry. One thing that helped me and my wife and is still helping us is the ability to say I am sorry. This five-letter word (Sorry) is powerful. Learn to say I am sorry if you desire a peaceful and long-lasting marriage- There are two times you should say I am sorry. When you are right and when you are wrong. Why? So that peace can reign in your marriage. It’s better to be wrong and have a peaceful home than to be right and have a broken home. Don't be too arrogant to say “I am sorry” or “Please forgive me”. These are some of the most powerful words you will need to learn to use in your marriage. 3. 📌Never thr€aten your spouse with Divorce. There is no dignity in divorce. No thr€at of divorce or separation. Avoid mentioning divorce. Don’t even think of it because Love never fails. Decide to build a long-lasting marriage. God hates divorce. Every marriage has its challenges. True love is known in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there. So fight for your marriage. 4. 📌Never refer to the past offenses of your spouse. Forgive and move on. Don’t say, last year you did this and that. Old issues should pass away. 5. 📌Never forget the goodness of your spouse when there is an issue. Don't turn your spouse into an enemy because of one single argument. Never turn your spouse into a devil because of one single argument. That’s why it is not good to make a decision when there is an argument. You may make a decision you may later regret. 6. 📌NEVER Raise your voice whenever there is an argument. DON’T SHOUT AT YOUR SPOUSE NO MATTER THE OFFENCE. Never shout at your spouse no matter what happen. The only time you are permitted to shout in marriage is when the house is on fire. God forbid. You should Talk as lovers and friends in marriage 7. 📌Never place a curse on your spouse no matter the offence. I read a story about a woman who told her husband never to come back home, and he never returned. He had an accident and d!ed on the spot. The tongue has the power of life and d€ath. 8. 📌Avoid trying to win every argument in your marriage. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are wrong, acknowledge it. Don't try to "win" the argument. So many fights or marital crises can be ended once you admit you are wrong instead of trying to defend yourself. You must Choose happiness over being right. Also, you don't have to argue over every little disagreement. Sometimes you have to move on from the petty differences you have with your spouse and focus on more important things 9. 📌NEVER raise your hand on your spouse. Never start destr0ying your property because you are angry. Domestic vi0lence is unacceptable. No matter how angry you are, never beat your spouse. 10. 📌Never Stop Caring When You Are Having Issues With Your Spouse. Don't stop cooking and serving your spouse, never stop calling to know how your spouse's day is going, never stop praying for your spouse, and never stop dropping money at home because there is a misunderstanding. Don't stop eating at home. Never suspend all the good things you have always done for your spouse because there is an issue 11. 📌Never Compare Your Spouse With Anybody No perfect marriage. Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength. Focus on what your spouse is doing right in marriage. Focus on his/her strengths, not his/her weaknesses. Stop focusing on the mistakes or weaknesses of your spouse. Be patient with your spouse. Try to understand and accept your differences and celebrate them. Never compare your husband to old boyfriends, your brother, father, pastor, or anyone else. Never compare your wife to your ex, mother, sisters, or pastor’s wife Stop comparing your marriage with someone else’s. Invest in your marriage, 12. 📌NEVER STOP TO PRAYING TOGETHER Don't let conflict, anger, or offense destroy your prayer life. Many Married couples slowly stop praying together the moment they have an issue in marriage. You see, the best time to pray with your spouse is when there is an issue. Once you stop praying because of any offense, you have allowed the devil to take a place in your home. Fight for your marriage by praying without ceasing. Your spouse is not your enemy. The devil is your enemy. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

DECLARATION RECEIVEA FRESH GRACES ANDDISCIPLINE TO SAY NO TO WRONGAND YES TORIIGHT I JESUS NAME

God is angry with with wicked who regrets Jesus Christ,but ready to accept them if they truly repent and accept Him as their Lord and personal saviour ,make hest while the sun shines

God is angry with with wicked who regrets Jesus Christ,but ready to accept them if they truly repent and accept Him as their Lord and personal saviour ,make hest while the sun shines

Jesus is my saviour, is our savior, he saved the whole world, we that Jesus am nothing.🙏🙏🙏

May God grant all your requests in Jesus name

May God grant all your requests in Jesus name

Dearest Lord, who commands the morning and sets the boundaries of the seas, let Your perfect love envelop us, that we might be lifted above the tides of fear. In the sanctuary of Your love, may we find the strength to offer ourselves to others, to serve, to love, and to live fully in the reflection of Your grace. When the path is obscured by the mists of uncertainty and we stand at the crossroads of fear and obedience, anchor us in Your truth. Gird our hearts with holy resolve, that we may walk unwaveringly on the path of faith. For it is in Your embrace, under the shelter of Your wings, that we find the courage to fulfill the works You have prepared for us. Through the matchless name of Jesus Christ, we offer this prayer. Amen.

The Bible says we are to pray/ask God for what we want in the Name of Jesus - 𝐉𝐨𝐡𝐧 𝟏𝟒:𝟏𝟑. It also says that whatever we say or do should be in the name of Jesus - 𝐂𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝟑:𝟏𝟕 This means what we ask, say & do should: 𝟏. Glorify & honour God. 𝟐. Be consistent with His character. 𝟑. Be approved or authorised by Him. We experience this promise of Jesus when: 𝟏. Our lives in faith & obedience glorify His name & reflect his nature. 𝟐. Our desires are aligned with the desires of the Holy Spirit. 𝟑. We seek His will & desire it above all else. 𝟒. We are empowered by the Holy Spirit. https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb630LFCMY0Bs7Rd0i3m

*CATHOLIC MEDITATION: 12 June, 2025.* ⛪📖🖊️ *THURSDAY* 🟩10TH WEEK - ORDINARY TIME, YEAR C 🟩 *1st R* : 2 Cor. 3:15 - 4:1, 3-6. *Resp. Psalm* : Ps. 85. *R/ - The Lord's glory will dwell in our land.* *Gosp.* : Mtt. 5:20-26. *Message:* *DO NOT KILL OTHERS PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY OR PSYCHOLOGICALLY.* _Sin is not and should not be limited only to grievous things as killing, stealing or adultery/fornication, such that not to do the above makes one think one is holy and exonerated. Jesus says to insult others is sinful as well, and we shall be judged, and insulting others can take us to hell. Besides, insults kill others emotionally and psychologically. Killing is not only physical with weapons. We have killed many persons emotionally and psychologically with our gossip and insults and with our bad actions towards them. What is more! We have killed others too with our angry looks that pierce deeper than swords or bullets._ YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/SpG4GRYAk_Y *Fr. Blessed Ambang Njume*

Good morning my beloved brethren. I trust you are doing great 👍, Praise God! TODAY'S WORD OF GOD: "But of that day and hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only. Matthew 24:36" God Almighty is a good Father. He is truly the Father of all creation. Absolutely nothing happens without His knowledge. He has a keen eye on all the events that happen in heaven, on earth, and under the earth. When Jesus Christ walked this earth, the disciples knew He would depart to heaven, but they wanted to know the time of His return or second coming. He made them understand that He didn't have the answer for them. Dear beloved, this should inform you that certain information is only available with the Father, and that makes Him God; He knows what to share and what to keep so that we can depend on Him. If He had given the time, people would live a corrupt or sinful life, waiting to repent when they saw the time approaching. Now that we know not the time of the second coming, we should take salvation seriously and prepare ahead of time, awaiting His coming or the hour of our departure. May the Lord Jesus Christ give us grace to take advantage of the gift of salvation before the end of our lives on Earth, in Jesus Christ name. Hallelujah! Be an overcomer! SHALOM!

These signs shall follow them that believe in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏