i need advice on how to break up with my boyfriend.
long story short we have been together for about 5 years. he moved into my apartment in october of 2024. he has a babymom and it was a lot of drama in the beginning but everything is fine now. downside is i have not once met his 2 kids. it’s excuse after excuse on the babymoms side. i’m sick of it. i can’t be with someone the rest of my life without knowing their children. i want to meet them. i do not want them to call me mom. i don’t want to replace their mom at all. another thing while he’s been living with me i’ve been paying most of the bills and i am struggling. he knows i am too. he doesn’t even give me half the rent. i know it’s MY apartment but i am not paying for him to live here also. i feel like im raising a “man”. it’s draining me so much i’m not happy anymore in the relationship. i’m realizing i’m better off alone but idk why i feel this way after 5 years. i love him so much but i’m so unhappy and idk what to do. i guess i’m looking for advice on how to “kick him out” and end it. another thing to add is he always threatens to k*** himself when we break up or have a “break”. he also quiets his job and blames that on me. i’m lost and don’t know what to do or where to start. i’m clueless.
long story short we have been together for about 5 years. he moved into my apartment in october of 2024. he has a babymom and it was a lot of drama in the beginning but everything is fine now. downside is i have not once met his 2 kids. it’s excuse after excuse on the babymoms side. i’m sick of it. i can’t be with someone the rest of my life without knowing their children. i want to meet them. i do not want them to call me mom. i don’t want to replace their mom at all. another thing while he’s been living with me i’ve been paying most of the bills and i am struggling. he knows i am too. he doesn’t even give me half the rent. i know it’s MY apartment but i am not paying for him to live here also. i feel like im raising a “man”. it’s draining me so much i’m not happy anymore in the relationship. i’m realizing i’m better off alone but idk why i feel this way after 5 years. i love him so much but i’m so unhappy and idk what to do. i guess i’m looking for advice on how to “kick him out” and end it. another thing to add is he always threatens to k*** himself when we break up or have a “break”. he also quiets his job and blames that on me. i’m lost and don’t know what to do or where to start. i’m clueless.
i need advice on how to break up with my boyfriend.
long story short we have been together for about 5 years. he moved into my apartment in october of 2024. he has a babymom and it was a lot of drama in the beginning but everything is fine now. downside is i have not once met his 2 kids. it’s excuse after excuse on the babymoms side. i’m sick of it. i can’t be with someone the rest of my life without knowing their children. i want to meet them. i do not want them to call me mom. i don’t want to replace their mom at all. another thing while he’s been living with me i’ve been paying most of the bills and i am struggling. he knows i am too. he doesn’t even give me half the rent. i know it’s MY apartment but i am not paying for him to live here also. i feel like im raising a “man”. it’s draining me so much i’m not happy anymore in the relationship. i’m realizing i’m better off alone but idk why i feel this way after 5 years. i love him so much but i’m so unhappy and idk what to do. i guess i’m looking for advice on how to “kick him out” and end it. another thing to add is he always threatens to k*** himself when we break up or have a “break”. he also quiets his job and blames that on me. i’m lost and don’t know what to do or where to start. i’m clueless.
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