• i need advice on how to break up with my boyfriend.

    long story short we have been together for about 5 years. he moved into my apartment in october of 2024. he has a babymom and it was a lot of drama in the beginning but everything is fine now. downside is i have not once met his 2 kids. it’s excuse after excuse on the babymoms side. i’m sick of it. i can’t be with someone the rest of my life without knowing their children. i want to meet them. i do not want them to call me mom. i don’t want to replace their mom at all. another thing while he’s been living with me i’ve been paying most of the bills and i am struggling. he knows i am too. he doesn’t even give me half the rent. i know it’s MY apartment but i am not paying for him to live here also. i feel like im raising a “man”. it’s draining me so much i’m not happy anymore in the relationship. i’m realizing i’m better off alone but idk why i feel this way after 5 years. i love him so much but i’m so unhappy and idk what to do. i guess i’m looking for advice on how to “kick him out” and end it. another thing to add is he always threatens to k*** himself when we break up or have a “break”. he also quiets his job and blames that on me. i’m lost and don’t know what to do or where to start. i’m clueless.
    i need advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. long story short we have been together for about 5 years. he moved into my apartment in october of 2024. he has a babymom and it was a lot of drama in the beginning but everything is fine now. downside is i have not once met his 2 kids. it’s excuse after excuse on the babymoms side. i’m sick of it. i can’t be with someone the rest of my life without knowing their children. i want to meet them. i do not want them to call me mom. i don’t want to replace their mom at all. another thing while he’s been living with me i’ve been paying most of the bills and i am struggling. he knows i am too. he doesn’t even give me half the rent. i know it’s MY apartment but i am not paying for him to live here also. i feel like im raising a “man”. it’s draining me so much i’m not happy anymore in the relationship. i’m realizing i’m better off alone but idk why i feel this way after 5 years. i love him so much but i’m so unhappy and idk what to do. i guess i’m looking for advice on how to “kick him out” and end it. another thing to add is he always threatens to k*** himself when we break up or have a “break”. he also quiets his job and blames that on me. i’m lost and don’t know what to do or where to start. i’m clueless.
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  • SEEDS OF DESTINY
    DUNAMIS CHURCH DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE
    BY DR PASTOR PAUL ENENCHE

    DATE: THURSDAY, 10TH JULY 2025

    TOPIC: THE PRESERVATION POWER OF VISION.

    SCRIPTURE: Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. PROVERBS 29:18.

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: Visionary people are durable people.

    It has been made clear from scripture that vision is a secret of durability and sustainability of life. Visionary people are durable people. People of vision are not easily cut short before their time.

    Joseph was a typical scriptural example of someone who was preserved by the power of vision. And so, we cannot talk about vision and durability of life without talking about Joseph.

    Genesis 37: 5-10 reveals how visionary Joseph was. He dreamt a dream and told his brothers, and they hated him yet more. Joseph was a man of dreams and visions. His brothers could not stop him despite their hatred for him. The vision came to pass as he became prime minister in Egypt. And in accurate fulfilment of the visions he saw, his brothers came and bowed down for him.

    One important thing to note is that the same vision was responsible for the preservation and durability of Joseph’s life. In Genesis 50:25-26, we see the durability or longevity of Joseph’s life: And Joseph took an oath of the children of Israel, saying, God will surely visit you, and ye shall carry up my bones from hence. So Joseph died, being an hundred and ten years old: and they embalmed him, and he was put in a coffin in Egypt.

    Now, this was the same boy concerning whom they said, behold the dreamer cometh. Come now therefore, and let us slay him, and cast him into some pit, and we will say, Some evil beast hath devoured him: and we shall see what will become of his dreams (Genesis 37:19-20). But they could not kill him or stop his dreams and visions from coming to pass. They put him in a pit, but the pit could not swallow him. They Sold him into slavery in Egypt, but even in slavery he flourished instead of perishing. Potiphar's wife came against him, and he was thrown into prison, but the prison could not end his life. The prison became his ladder to the palace.

    Joseph passed through all manner of things that could have cut him short, but he was not killable because there was a vision in him that must come to pass.

    This confirmed that a person of vision is not easily wasteable.

    Beloved, no matter what the devil and his agents may throw at you, you shall fulfill your days if you hold onto your God-ordained vision. If they cannot take your vision, they cannot take your future.

    Remember this: Visionary people are durable people.

    ASSIGNMENT(S):

    1. Consistently review your visions for living, and work towards fulfilling them. And if you have no vision yet, trust God in prayer and study of the Word, to open your eyes to the revelation of your vision and purpose for living.

    2. Picture the manifestation of those visions.

    3. Pray against vision inhibitors and killers.

    PRAYER: Lord, thank You for the visions You have put in my heart. I shall live to see them come to pass, Lord, in Jesus’ Name.

    FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: THE PRESERVATION POWER OF VISION.

    DAILY BIBLE READING: Ecclesiastes 6-8

    QUOTE: To see the ultimate is to survive the immediate. To see tomorrow is go beyond today. Culled from, 22 Laws of Life Vol. 1 by Dr Paul Enenche.

    AMAZING FACT: Your skin can repair itself when injured, making it one of the few self-healing organs.

    PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: The Lord plant in your heart visions that will cause you to overcome adversities in Jesus Name.
    🍒🌽SEEDS OF DESTINY DUNAMIS CHURCH DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE BY DR PASTOR PAUL ENENCHE DATE: THURSDAY, 10TH JULY 2025 TOPIC: THE PRESERVATION POWER OF VISION. SCRIPTURE: Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. PROVERBS 29:18. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: Visionary people are durable people. It has been made clear from scripture that vision is a secret of durability and sustainability of life. Visionary people are durable people. People of vision are not easily cut short before their time. Joseph was a typical scriptural example of someone who was preserved by the power of vision. And so, we cannot talk about vision and durability of life without talking about Joseph. Genesis 37: 5-10 reveals how visionary Joseph was. He dreamt a dream and told his brothers, and they hated him yet more. Joseph was a man of dreams and visions. His brothers could not stop him despite their hatred for him. The vision came to pass as he became prime minister in Egypt. And in accurate fulfilment of the visions he saw, his brothers came and bowed down for him. One important thing to note is that the same vision was responsible for the preservation and durability of Joseph’s life. In Genesis 50:25-26, we see the durability or longevity of Joseph’s life: And Joseph took an oath of the children of Israel, saying, God will surely visit you, and ye shall carry up my bones from hence. So Joseph died, being an hundred and ten years old: and they embalmed him, and he was put in a coffin in Egypt. Now, this was the same boy concerning whom they said, behold the dreamer cometh. Come now therefore, and let us slay him, and cast him into some pit, and we will say, Some evil beast hath devoured him: and we shall see what will become of his dreams (Genesis 37:19-20). But they could not kill him or stop his dreams and visions from coming to pass. They put him in a pit, but the pit could not swallow him. They Sold him into slavery in Egypt, but even in slavery he flourished instead of perishing. Potiphar's wife came against him, and he was thrown into prison, but the prison could not end his life. The prison became his ladder to the palace. Joseph passed through all manner of things that could have cut him short, but he was not killable because there was a vision in him that must come to pass. This confirmed that a person of vision is not easily wasteable. Beloved, no matter what the devil and his agents may throw at you, you shall fulfill your days if you hold onto your God-ordained vision. If they cannot take your vision, they cannot take your future. Remember this: Visionary people are durable people. ASSIGNMENT(S): 1. Consistently review your visions for living, and work towards fulfilling them. And if you have no vision yet, trust God in prayer and study of the Word, to open your eyes to the revelation of your vision and purpose for living. 2. Picture the manifestation of those visions. 3. Pray against vision inhibitors and killers. PRAYER: Lord, thank You for the visions You have put in my heart. I shall live to see them come to pass, Lord, in Jesus’ Name. FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: THE PRESERVATION POWER OF VISION. DAILY BIBLE READING: Ecclesiastes 6-8 QUOTE: To see the ultimate is to survive the immediate. To see tomorrow is go beyond today. Culled from, 22 Laws of Life Vol. 1 by Dr Paul Enenche. AMAZING FACT: Your skin can repair itself when injured, making it one of the few self-healing organs. PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: The Lord plant in your heart visions that will cause you to overcome adversities in Jesus Name.
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  • *Hebrews 13:5*
    Don’t be controlled by love for money. Be happy with what you have. God has said, “I will never leave you. I will never desert you.”

    *Mark 12: 30*
    Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.

    *I Peter 5:6 *
    “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time,”
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    *📖Hebrews 13:5✝️💟* Don’t be controlled by love for money. Be happy with what you have. God has said, “I will never leave you. I will never desert you.” *📖Mark 12: 30💟✝️* Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 *📖I Peter 5:6 ✝️* “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time,” ✝️ 🙌🏻 💟 🙏🏻 🛐
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