LAW AND ORDER

Boundaries are created by law and order they are synonymous with each other and what the whole earth is founded on from the laws of gravity the oceans and the dry grounds separated from each other the physical expanse of the atmosphere and water environments that contain lifeforms that need specific temperatures to thrive such as the polar bear and even fruits and vegetables will only grow in soil in the right temperature they are even only matured in the season set for them which is guided by time. A baby cannot be produced unless two material mater of egg and sperm meet a foal takes three years to form from inception.

Without fixed laws guarding the success of all these facets of life within time and space it would not produce the desired result needed for each environment. We can not climb 60 thousand feet on foot and survive as that is the natural law that oxygen is not as accessible this far from the earth. If we ate something that is not fit for human consumption but was designed for another purpose such as a solvent that removes paint we would surely die if we did not have oxygen to be viable on this planet the body could not survive but after that the sprit goes back to where it started from to god which is another environment that even has a new set of laws that we have access to the throne room of grace by the blood of Jesus which is a primary law of salvation of acceptance of him and all he has done by making him lord and savior of our life while we are still in the flesh we become born again.

Its activating faith which is completely separate from doubt it has boundaries. Even love is defined by what it is not it is not self seeking its binary opposite is selflessness it does not behave rudely that means love is polite it does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth its like defining black from white. The road rules that create law and order make it functional that keeps pedestrians and drivers of vehicles safe by the law of give way that is written into the consciousness of every citizen by ensuring they have qualified by passing the test that gave them legal permission to drive on the roads. The laws of marriage that one husband shall be faithful to one wife is foundational to trust and make marriages successful. Oil cannot mix with water because the substance will not permit it to make purple you must have red and blue pigment. Even property laws that determine the boundaries of ownership and what is expected of you is written in legal terms those laws are ideas that have created boundaries.

The amount of tax you pay is relevant to what you earn and redistribution of taxes is set by the politics of the lands that determine the allocation of resources which is dependent on who is governing that has that legal authority even the kingdom of heaven had to obey certain laws for legal requirements to win back the right to have access on the earth and human life . Yet all the law and the prophets is fulfilled by love yet love itself has boundaries by defining what love is and what love is not if the formular is exact love never fails. We have so many problems on this earth and if we got down to the root of every violation of boundaries we will find that it is always going against the law of love. This is why we should always spend time meditating on the meaning of all the dimensions of love and to inculcate them into our patterns. It is a way of thinking and living but love has boundaries by its definitions think of how god fashioned the earth he focused on different parts of its creation by separating he made something new that is a principle for life by the laws we apply to every facet of life determines how we shape life.

Just as the ocean does not go onto dry land is like the boundaries we set love does not give access to everything it is defined by the law of difference God gave Adam and eve instruction he said till the land and keep it rebellion to that instruction would create disorder because principles of truth bring order he said do not eat of the fruit they ate in their heart before they ate physically because they were dominated by an outside thing. Our no and our yes must be firm to keep the land of our life that is what creates law and order is boundaries. If the stop sign is determined for the ocean so is our no stopping what must not have access and our yes gives permission by the agreements we make. We are sovereign when we walk in freedom according to boundaries truth has boundaries you do not open the door to a lion because you know it is dangerous this is why truth is foundational for life . Truth is multifaceted by defining what truth is we define what it is not truth and love are synonyms just as law and order are the same as boundaries.

That is why we can point to the stars and differentiate them from the night sky or the day because we can see physically what it is and what it is not. But just as a diamond glistens multiple colors when it catches different lights yet it is one though we see colors of different appearances as it is turned is like the truth it is not just black and white except all the colour of the light are absent of black. Your eyes do not get oxygen from your body but from the atmosphere because the eyes are the part of the body that does not have blood vessels otherwise we couldn’t see it would interfere with the retina that is another biological law that create functionality of an eye . If those laws were not set in place we would not have vision . The deeper we go with everything we research we will find that its functionality comes by law and order so truth has boundaries the law of love is the greatest of all. Love never fails.

Written by Rochelle White

TRIALS OF LIFE

Everyone from the Zambian River to East Cape New Zealand passes through lessons. No one who comes into this world is blanketed from trial or wrapped in cotton wool. From Margaret Thatcher to Thomas Edison and Mother Teresa, they had to go through their own personalized lessons to bring out certain qualities that may never have surfaced and been useful to their calling. We do not know what each of those people had to go through. We only see in part as looking into a mirror similar, but one day we will know as we are known. There is someone who knows us entirely, even much more than we know ourselves.

As he looks into the content in the heart, he understands everything we do. He knows the psychology behind our thought processes. He knows us intimately as he knitted us together in our mothers’ womb. If you think for one minute, you are a mistake you are wrong as even the time and place of your birth, and the family you were born into is no accident. Even before the foundations of the world God knew us because we were part of him. We are not our bodies, we are not our thoughts, we are not the colour of our eyes or skin. We are a spirit in a dirt body that came from the earth, but the spirit of man came from God. Written into the DNA of every cell in your body is God's purpose for creation. If there is a purpose for creation, there is also a process to make that purpose come into full fruition.

For this reason, you may need some life lessons to teach you in the school of life. depending on where we are in the chapters of our life you may not even understand why you are going through personal hardship or trials of exceedingly great challenges you may have given some of these situations the wrong context it is not until you get further on in the chapters of life you understand why you had to pass through all that you did and it was for a far greater purpose than you could ever have comprehended. Nothing happens to you without God's permissible will. Even the worst of sorrows that any man could bear is sent for a reason. There is so much liquid gold that comes from trials, and the exact depth of the trial is the exact opposite in blessing.

Some people get caught in the trap woe is me and dream of living someone else’s life and thinking well, they didn’t have the same hardship as me. That’s why they are successful. Ever bodies definition of success may also change. Some may think living in a mansion with a golden spoon is life. Well, from my perspective, I say that is not true. But of course, I am only qualified to say that if that is where I have come from. We can only speak with boldness and authority when we have passed through something. those who think the grass is greener on the other side are living in a fantasy. While I do not subscribe to human suffering that could be resolved such as hugger and server poverty financially but there is far greater poverty than financial remuneration that is ignorance absolute blindness and naive about the truth. For me, that is the greatest poverty, not clothing, not housing, not food, not money, but in the mind. The truth is the costliest jewel one could possess.

The thing is one needs to desire it with all their heart, with all of their mind, and with all of their soul. Then you are truly a threat to the kingdoms of this world when you are armored with light. What is light? Light in the original Greek language is knowledge. We do not just want to possess any type of knowledge. There is accounting knowledge, scientific knowledge skill, skill-based knowledge, and political knowledge. While much of this knowledge is good to enhance one’s calling depending on the sphere of life god has created you for, the most powerful life-changing, God-fearing knowledge comes through the knowledge of God and the knowledge of the truth.

Sometimes purchasing the truth can cost you everything if this is God's plan and purpose for your life. If you won’t learn the easy way, he must take you through the school of hard knocks. Our hearts are stubbornly deceitful and wicked not by my description but by the one who knows us through and through. Not even one is righteous no matter how good we appear to our own assessment, for we always like to think we are good, kind, and thoughtful. Even if we do possess those qualities, it doesn't compensate for the sinful nature that we inherited from Adam. Except that when we become born again, God wipes clean the handwriting written against you as blameless not because of what you have done.

You do not qualify by your own merit. You qualify by the one who became sin for you and paid the debt in full. That is why you have the authority to go boldly into the throne room of grace and make your request known to a god, who will hear you. To go from A to Z in the salvation story of your soul may be a hard road because the battle belongs to the lord. He will ensure your redemption and the redemption of all he has called into the fold. But that is not where it ends. In fact, church tradition is one of Satan's strategies for containing the light lest others be saved and whole nations are brought out of captivity into the glorious light where they are translated from one kingdom to another.

This is the purpose of trials god has a plan and he only has the hands and feet that are material in a material world that is why the whole reason for our salvation is now for his plan purpose and will we do not live for ourselves we live to extend the borders of the kingdom into all the territories of the world through our gifts and talents is the medium that god will use. He put those gifts and talents in you even before he thought of making you visible on earth. It is so that you can be an ambassador in your own field of calling that was assigned to you before you were born. Whatever lessons hardship trials are forming you to think in particular ways or engage the world your temperament your natural tendency everything you have ever seen or heard has all formed the content of your nature which may not even be developed the way you are today without those fundamental lessons you could not do God’s will with the same passion and intensity had you not walked through those things.

It builds a philosophy which is the type of engine engineered by the one who designed you with such clarity of why he had to send you in this dispensation for a special mission that ensures his will comes to fruition through your life he is not going to waste his resources. Therefore, if you think what you are going through today is unbearable, it has an opposite and equal blessing. You may not even realize that until many years later, God's plan and purpose will be worked out from that trial. Rejoice, I say again, rejoice in all things.

Written by Rochelle White

It's easy said than done
Talk cheap... Oh God give me grace to conquer my fears in Jesus name

This is Alhaji Bamanga Tukur, a man who once sat at the peak of power, wealth, and influence in Nigeria. He served as the Governor of the defunct Gongola State (now Adamawa and Taraba States) in 1983, and years later, rose to become the National Chairman of the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) between 2012 and 2014.

Beyond politics, he was a towering figure in Nigeria’s business landscape — the former CEO of the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA), a seasoned international businessman, and the Chairman of the African Business Roundtable. He dined with kings, presidents, and captains of industries across Africa and beyond.

But today, this is his reality — frail, aged, and facing the inevitable struggles of old age and health.

This is the message life is showing us:
Everything fades.
Power fades.
Position fades.
Wealth fades.
Beauty fades.
Strength fades.
All that remains are your deeds, your character, and the way you treated others.

No human being can escape the cycle of life. It is humbling. It is scary. It is a reminder.

So while you still have breath and strength:

Live humbly.

Love sincerely.

Do good without expecting anything.

Fear God.

Remember that no one leaves this world with anything.

May God grant us a graceful old age, sound health, and a peaceful end. Amen.

The Role of a Music Director: A Sacred Responsibility

The work of a Music Director is not a task to be taken lightly or commonized. It goes far beyond what many see on the surface.

From waiting on God for the right song choice—amidst the sea of available songs or even spirit-inspired compositions—to scoring, rearranging, balancing sound, and guiding the team through the intricacies of musical expression, it truly is a labor of love and diligence.

Often, what the congregation experiences as a 5-minute ministration or praise session is the product of hours, and sometimes days, of intense preparation and rehearsal. Behind every powerful moment of worship lies a story of sacrifice, intentionality, and spiritual alignment.

Above all, Christ must remain the center—the focus of every note, every harmony, every beat.

And once the ministration ends, the process begins again—afresh, with fresh grace.

To all Music Directors out there, I salute you deeply. Your role is both spiritual and technical, and your labor is not in vain.

Please, I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences too.

Shalom.

_*Every Marriage Has Issues*

Every marriage faces storms—no union is perfect. Behind every smile is a struggle. Behind every kiss, a choice. Love is not about avoiding conflict, but growing through it—together, not apart.*

*Disagreements don’t mean you married the wrong person—they mean you’re both human. Two different people learning to become one will clash. All you need is grace, and keep showing up.*

Don’t compare your reality to someone else’s highlight reel. What looks perfect online may be breaking offline. Every lasting marriage has faced battles and chosen forgiveness.*

*Marriage needs maintenance. Prayer, quality time, and open hearts keep it moving. Silence kills love, but honest conversations heal wounds. Don’t ignore the issue—work through it with love.*

If you’re struggling, you're not alone. Even the strongest marriages have cracks—but cracks let the light in. Remember: every marriage has issues, but every issue can be overcomed with love.*
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Be happily married!

9 STEPS TO TAKE BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR MARRIAGE



God wants you to be happy in your marriage. He wants you to have a marriage without sorrow. God wants you to have a strong, consistent, stable and beautiful marriage. No matter where you are presently in your marital journey, I want you to know that there is a brighter marital future ahead of you by God’s grace.

WHAT TO DO:

1. EXAMINE YOURSELF

Examine your characters first and make the necessary corrections. You can't have the marriage of your dreams if you are part of the problems. You may need to replace some negative statements and give up some undesirable attitudes. Develop emotional intelligence by recognizing, understanding, and managing your emotions. Show empathy towards your spouse, and try to see things from their point of view.

Make amends where necessary. Do not be a difficult partner, be a peace maker and not a trouble maker. Make up your mind to improve, even if your spouse fails to improve.

2. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR SPOUSE

Marital harmony cannot occur without communication, and in situations where peaceful union is not possible, frustration takes over. Practice open, honest, and respectful communication. Listen actively, express yourself clearly, and make an effort to understand each other's perspectives.

Ask your spouse if there is any character he wants you to change to bring peace in the home. Create time to talk. To resolve the issue, get together and sit down. Instead of focusing on the personality, jointly address the underlying cause. Don’t apportion blame to anybody but apologize to one another in love. Use positive words to settle your disputes and disagreements with heart-to-heart discussions.

3. GIVE TOTAL COMMITMENT TO YOUR MARRIAGE

Your commitment to your spouse determines the beauty of your relationship. A happy marriage does not just happen by chance or luck; it is deliberately created. Marriage requires personal commitment to ensure its success. The more you invest in your marriage, the more valuable it becomes. When you are committed to your marriage, you put in all your efforts to bring out the best in it. Getting your spouse to fall in love with you over and over again is easy once you have the right information and you apply it.

4. WORK AT YOUR MARRIAGE

UNTIL YOU INTENTIONALLY WORK AT YOUR MARRIAGE, IT WON'T WORK! IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY!

Married Couples that experience peace, joy, fulfilment, harmony, happiness and everybody bursting with the joy of the Holy Ghost, didn’t arrive there by accident. They worked at it and are still working at it!

The truth is that there are no trouble-free marriages. EVERY marriage has issues. Accept this and resolve to find a resolution.

God doesn’t favour one marriage more than another. He is ready to give you joy, peace and happiness in your home as long as you fulfil your own part of the marriage covenant.

5. DON'T GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE

PLAY YOUR OWN PART! FIGHT FOR YOUR HUSBAND, FIGHT FOR YOUR WIFE, FIGHT FOR YOUR CHILDREN, FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, FIGHT FOR YOUR PEACE, FIGHT FOR YOUR JOY AND FIGHT FOR YOUR HAPPINESS! KICK STRANGE MEN/ WOMEN OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE FOREVER!

DIVORCE IS NOT GOD'S DESIGN!!

Don't quit on your spouse.

6 . INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE

BUY MARRIAGE BOOKS! ATTEND MARRIAGE SEMINARS. REGISTER FOR OUR MARRIAGE SCHOOL. Invest in your marriage to become the marriage of your dream. The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes. Your marriage can be a model for other homes.

7. FORGIVE: it is impossible to have a peaceful and long lasting marriage without forgiveness. Forgive and reconcile quickly anytime you have issues.

Develop healthy conflict resolution skills, addressing issues in a constructive and respectful manner. Practice forgiveness and work towards moving forward together.

Don't allow the devil to take advantage of your marital challenges

8. PRAY

Pray to God about it. He is all-knowing. Everything is within his power. Ask God to change you as well, so that your spouse will be inspired to change as well. Ask for the grace to continue in spite of all obstacles, as well as the perseverance and wisdom to manage the situation. Destroy any evil forces threatening your marriage and ask God to help you bring stability to your home.

God is going to bring order back to that house. He will turn your struggle around and revitalize your marriage.

9. Go For Counsel

“For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war; and in multitude of counselors there is safety” (Prov. 24:6).

Never wait till when your marriage is in a coma before looking for help. Both of you should Seek help from experts and be prepared to follow their advice.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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6 MAIN REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS DON’T LAST THESE DAYS...

1. TECHNOLOGY HAS MADE IT EASY TO CHEAT. One reason why relationships fail to last these days is that technology has made it easier to cheat.

By just swiping on Tinder, you get connected to thousands of new people around your city you could have a relationship with instantly.

2. WE DON’T WANT TO COMPROMISE
Nowadays, everyone wants to be seen as a tough man or woman, and no one wants to compromise.

The modern man and woman prefer to take the easy way out by quitting instead of compromising. The modern man and woman see compromise as being weak. This attitude is making so many relationships fail.

3. WE ARE TOO BUSY FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP
The modern-day man and woman want the good things of life. They devote all their time and energy chasing the dream and forget to love.

These days people don’t have the patience to deal with all that comes with being in a relationship. They are just too busy to have time for love.

4. WE WANT THE PERFECT PARTNER EVEN WHEN WE AREN’T PERFECT OURSELVES
The modern man and woman want a partner without flaws. We are always in a hurry to leave a relationship if we find someone we think is better and the cycle keeps going on.

No one is patient anymore with their partner. No one is patient enough to bring out the best in their partner. We all want a perfect partner even when we aren’t perfect ourselves.

5. SEX IS SO EASY TO FIND
These days, sex is so easy to find and this is affecting relationships. Sex with a new guy or girl is always a phone call away. It’s easy to have sex without even being in a relationship with that person.

This generation now considers good sex as a quality a partner should have, so they go around having random sex as they seek a partner who can satisfy them better.

6. NO ONE IS READY TO BE A FOOL FOR LOVE
Relationships don’t last these days because this generation doesn’t understand what it means to love someone madly. We are just too realistic for our own good and we don’t love madly anymore.

No one is ready to be vulnerable by letting go of themselves. We have become too smart for ourselves & this is affecting our Relationships today. We no longer want to be fools for love.

Remember: No one is happy if they are from a broken family. So, let us pray and build a strong foundation of marriage with the grace and blessings of our Almighty God and may our God bless us all.

Your grace is sufficient for me