• If a boxer died during a match, is the opponent charged with murder?

    Nigerian boxer Segun 'Success' Olanrewaju, a former National and West African light-heavyweight champion, died after collapsing during a match against Ghanaian boxer John Mbanugu at the Bukom Boxing Arena in Ghana. Olanrewaju suffered a fatal seizure during the bout, leading to his untimely death despite medical intervention.

    This tragic event has initiated discussions on the necessity for enhanced medical emergency protocols in boxing to prevent such incidents in the future.
    If a boxer died during a match, is the opponent charged with murder? Nigerian boxer Segun 'Success' Olanrewaju, a former National and West African light-heavyweight champion, died after collapsing during a match against Ghanaian boxer John Mbanugu at the Bukom Boxing Arena in Ghana. Olanrewaju suffered a fatal seizure during the bout, leading to his untimely death despite medical intervention. This tragic event has initiated discussions on the necessity for enhanced medical emergency protocols in boxing to prevent such incidents in the future.
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  • Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

    Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

    Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

    Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

    1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
    A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

    2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
    If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

    3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
    As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

    4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
    Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

    5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
    A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

    6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
    No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

    7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
    In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

    8. Survival Demands It
    There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

    Final Warning

    Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

    A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship
    Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing. Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value. Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income: 1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money. 2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible. 3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset. 4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny. 5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage. 6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done. 7. You Have No Voice Without Resources In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke. 8. Survival Demands It There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it. Final Warning Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire. A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship
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  • 7 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU BROKE FASTER THAN VILLAGE PEOPLE

    Forget jazz, forget enemies from the village—some of you are going broke at lightning speed, and it’s not because of witchcraft. Your own lifestyle is the real problem!

    If you're always wondering "Who is eating my money?"—relax, Oga. The answer is you.

    BRUTAL THREAD:

    1. CHASING EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE

    You think you're James Bond, moving from one fine girl to another, sponsoring their hair, nails, and data? Brother, you are your own Yahoo boy.

    One babe says “I need urgent 2K”—you send.

    Another one says “My rent is due”—you pay.

    Next thing, your account balance is calling for GoFundMe.

    Meanwhile, the same girls are in group chats laughing at you: “This guy dey try sha.”

    Solution: Stop being an ATM with no PIN code. Focus on one woman or yourself first.

    2. LIVING LIKE A BIG BOY WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE IS SHOUTING HELP

    Your salary is 50K, but you're in clubs ordering Hennessy like Davido. You don’t even have a car, but you're buying drinks for strangers—WHO SENT YOU?

    Rich men are saving, you are spraying money.

    Dangote is investing, you are doing “Odogwu” at the bar.

    Elon Musk is buying companies, you are buying bottles for slay queens who don’t know your surname.

    When the landlord comes for rent, you’ll start saying “Boss, abeg, things hard.”

    Solution: Cut down on fake luxury. Even Jeff Bezos wears simple T-shirts. Be wise.

    3. SENDING MONEY TO FAMILY LIKE CBN

    Your uncle calls: “We need money for burial.”
    Your aunt calls: “No food in the house.”
    Your younger brother: “School fees.”

    Now your account is empty, but when you need help? Nobody picks your call.

    Oga, you are not the Minister of Finance. Even government doesn’t share free money like you do!

    Solution: Learn to say NO sometimes! Help when you can, but don’t let family turn you into their personal budget.

    4. ALWAYS BUYING THE LATEST PHONE TO IMPRESS WHO?

    Last month, you were using iPhone 12.
    This month, you saw iPhone 15 Pro Max and sold your kidney to buy it.
    Next month, iPhone 16 Ultra Mega Max will drop—what will you sell next? Your destiny?

    Meanwhile, the person you’re trying to impress is using Tecno Pop 5 and doesn’t care.

    Solution: If your current phone is working, rest. Your future is more important than “Dynamic Island.”

    5. FALLING FOR EVERY FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEME

    They told you "Invest 50K, get 500K in 2 days."

    You ran like Bolt, deposited your money.

    Now, they’ve blocked you, and you’re writing epistles on Facebook: “Dear Nigerians, beware of fraudsters!”

    Oga, they didn’t scam you, you scammed yourself!

    Any investment that sounds like magic money is a Ponzi scheme in disguise.

    Solution: If you don’t understand the business, don’t put your money there. Learn to invest wisely!

    6. GOING BROKE JUST TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA

    Your house rent is due, but you're buying designer shoes to take pictures for Instagram. Who told you “likes and comments” can pay rent?

    You posted “Soft life only.”

    But in real life, you’re trekking and borrowing money for food.

    If your phone falls, you’ll cry because you can’t afford to fix it.

    Solution: Stop forming fake rich life. Invest first, flex later.

    7. BEING TOO LAZY TO MAKE MORE MONEY

    You sit at home, scrolling Facebook from morning till night, complaining: “No job, Nigeria is hard.”

    Meanwhile, opportunities are passing you by! Are you expecting an angel to drop money from the sky?

    People are making money online—you are watching TikTok videos all day.

    People are learning skills—you are arguing about football.

    People are opening businesses—you are waiting for your rich uncle to die so you can inherit land.

    Solution: Get up and hustle! Even the Bible says “A lazy man shall not eat.”

    BOTTOM LINE:

    If you're always broke, stop blaming village people. Your habits are the real witchcraft!

    Live within your means.

    Invest before you flex.

    Stop impressing people who don’t care.

    Make smart financial decisions.

    If this post hit you hard, don’t cry. Just change your ways!

    Follow Abasiodu Ekpenyong for more brutal truths that will save your life!
    7 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU BROKE FASTER THAN VILLAGE PEOPLE 😂😂 Forget jazz, forget enemies from the village—some of you are going broke at lightning speed, and it’s not because of witchcraft. Your own lifestyle is the real problem! If you're always wondering "Who is eating my money?"—relax, Oga. The answer is you. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. CHASING EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE You think you're James Bond, moving from one fine girl to another, sponsoring their hair, nails, and data? Brother, you are your own Yahoo boy. 🤣 One babe says “I need urgent 2K”—you send. Another one says “My rent is due”—you pay. Next thing, your account balance is calling for GoFundMe. Meanwhile, the same girls are in group chats laughing at you: “This guy dey try sha.” Solution: Stop being an ATM with no PIN code. Focus on one woman or yourself first. 2. LIVING LIKE A BIG BOY WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE IS SHOUTING HELP Your salary is 50K, but you're in clubs ordering Hennessy like Davido. You don’t even have a car, but you're buying drinks for strangers—WHO SENT YOU? 😭 Rich men are saving, you are spraying money. Dangote is investing, you are doing “Odogwu” at the bar. Elon Musk is buying companies, you are buying bottles for slay queens who don’t know your surname. When the landlord comes for rent, you’ll start saying “Boss, abeg, things hard.” Solution: Cut down on fake luxury. Even Jeff Bezos wears simple T-shirts. Be wise. 3. SENDING MONEY TO FAMILY LIKE CBN Your uncle calls: “We need money for burial.” Your aunt calls: “No food in the house.” Your younger brother: “School fees.” Now your account is empty, but when you need help? Nobody picks your call. Oga, you are not the Minister of Finance. Even government doesn’t share free money like you do! Solution: Learn to say NO sometimes! Help when you can, but don’t let family turn you into their personal budget. 4. ALWAYS BUYING THE LATEST PHONE TO IMPRESS WHO? Last month, you were using iPhone 12. This month, you saw iPhone 15 Pro Max and sold your kidney to buy it. Next month, iPhone 16 Ultra Mega Max will drop—what will you sell next? Your destiny? 😭 Meanwhile, the person you’re trying to impress is using Tecno Pop 5 and doesn’t care. Solution: If your current phone is working, rest. Your future is more important than “Dynamic Island.” 5. FALLING FOR EVERY FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEME They told you "Invest 50K, get 500K in 2 days." You ran like Bolt, deposited your money. Now, they’ve blocked you, and you’re writing epistles on Facebook: “Dear Nigerians, beware of fraudsters!” 🤣 Oga, they didn’t scam you, you scammed yourself! Any investment that sounds like magic money is a Ponzi scheme in disguise. Solution: If you don’t understand the business, don’t put your money there. Learn to invest wisely! 6. GOING BROKE JUST TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA Your house rent is due, but you're buying designer shoes to take pictures for Instagram. Who told you “likes and comments” can pay rent? You posted “Soft life only.” But in real life, you’re trekking and borrowing money for food. If your phone falls, you’ll cry because you can’t afford to fix it. 😭 Solution: Stop forming fake rich life. Invest first, flex later. 7. BEING TOO LAZY TO MAKE MORE MONEY You sit at home, scrolling Facebook from morning till night, complaining: “No job, Nigeria is hard.” Meanwhile, opportunities are passing you by! Are you expecting an angel to drop money from the sky? People are making money online—you are watching TikTok videos all day. People are learning skills—you are arguing about football. People are opening businesses—you are waiting for your rich uncle to die so you can inherit land. 🤣 Solution: Get up and hustle! Even the Bible says “A lazy man shall not eat.” BOTTOM LINE: If you're always broke, stop blaming village people. Your habits are the real witchcraft! Live within your means. Invest before you flex. Stop impressing people who don’t care. Make smart financial decisions. If this post hit you hard, don’t cry. Just change your ways! 😂😂😂 Follow Abasiodu Ekpenyong for more brutal truths that will save your life!
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  • We need to teach our daughters that, there are five (5) main dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime.
    These are:
    1. School uniform
    2. Matriculation gown
    3. Graduation gown
    4. Wedding gown
    5. Maternity dress
    Let our daughters know this too;
    That if any girl skips the second dress, she will not get to wear the third one.
    Our daughters must not rush to wear the fifth dress just because a man has promised them the fourth...
    ...More so, the fourth one fits better and more prestigious if worn before the fifth dress.
    If you choose to circulate this message, it will change the future of our young ladies.
    We need to teach our daughters that, there are five (5) main dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime. These are: 1. School uniform 2. Matriculation gown 3. Graduation gown 4. Wedding gown 5. Maternity dress Let our daughters know this too; That if any girl skips the second dress, she will not get to wear the third one. Our daughters must not rush to wear the fifth dress just because a man has promised them the fourth... ...More so, the fourth one fits better and more prestigious if worn before the fifth dress. If you choose to circulate this message, it will change the future of our young ladies.
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  • "Your habits today determine your future tomorrow."
    "Your habits today determine your future tomorrow."
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    "Your habits today determine your future tomorrow."
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  • WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT,
    READ THIS AND LEARN.

    "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father.

    "What for son?", his father asked.

    "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost".

    Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé.

    "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked.

    "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered.

    His father held him by the shoulder and said
    "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room".
    "Yes dad", Kola obliged.
    Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room.
    "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's
    father asked.
    "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance.
    "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father.
    They sat down.
    "Thank you dad"
    "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father.
    "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé.
    "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola.
    "Why do you want to have a big wedding?",
    father asked.

    "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied.
    "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé.
    "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé.
    "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father.
    "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola.

    "How many true friends do you really have?",
    I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father.
    Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other.
    "Countable", the fiancé answered.
    "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father.
    Silence.
    "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father.

    "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola.
    "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a
    committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage"
    Silence.

    The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence.

    "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father.
    "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé.
    "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for?

    People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt?
    Marriage is what is more important than a
    wedding", continued the father.
    "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's
    okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is
    just you and me, not people".

    The father spoke, "My son, in all the years
    you have been a man, you have never come
    to me asking for money, but now you are
    asking for money to put up a show? I look
    further, I look at your marriage. I admire
    how people come together in a wedding
    committee to raise money and I wonder,
    what if couples and people use that same
    energy to put up a business that will uplift
    families. Those members who will be part of
    your wedding committee, imagine if they
    become your investors, imagine if you build
    a company where you can make profit and
    feed your homes. Something sustainable."
    Kola and his fiancé nodded.
    "My son, I have longed for the day you
    would come and ask me to invest in your
    business idea. But today I will make the first
    move", the father said taking his cheque
    book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé.

    "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million
    naira, not for your wedding but as start up
    capital for a business of your choice. I am
    giving the cheque to your wife because as
    the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk
    with you in building an empire for your
    family. Focus on your family, give your family
    the best; forget about the public and
    opinions of people who don't matter. Build
    a future for your family. Build your family on
    a foundation of surplus not debt".
    "Thank you so much" said the fiancé.
    Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His
    father stood up too. The father and son hugged.

    "Thank you dad for being a great figure and
    your counsel. I don't know what to say. You
    have challenged me not to merely get
    married but to have a vision, a vision for my
    family. I don't know what to say" he spoke.
    The father held his shoulder, "You will make
    a great husband and father. I wish I had the
    same counsel when I was getting married,
    all those people I fed on my wedding day
    didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I
    was to organize an event and feed
    multitudes, I would do so for the less
    fortunate and those in need.

    Marriage is not for show.
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    WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I was to organize an event and feed multitudes, I would do so for the less fortunate and those in need. Marriage is not for show. Pls follow Eunice home of fashion &hair Don’t forget to share to enlighten more people #highlightseveryone #fbreels23 #fypシ゚viralシ #fbyシvideo #highlightseveryonefollowers #highlightsシ゚ #fbyシviral #fbreelsvideo #reelsfypシ
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  • In The News:

    Rivers Sole Administrator Appoints SSG As Head Of Service Resigns

    The Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ibas (rtd), has appointed Prof. Ibibia Worika, a legal expert and administrator, as the new Secretary to the State Government.

    In a statement, the Sole Administrator said the appointment, which takes immediate effect, followed a rigorous selection process in which Worika’s extensive experience, academic credentials, and policy expertise stood out.

    In a related development, the ex-naval chief appointed Iyingi Brown as the Permanent Secretary for Welfare in the Office of the Head of Service to act as the Head of Service pending a substantive appointment.

    The appointment followed the resignation of the substantive Head of Service, George Nwaeke.

    In a statement, the government expressed gratitude for Nwaeke’s contributions during his tenure and wished him success in his future endeavors.

    While congratulating Brown on her new role, the administrator reaffirmed his commitment to maintaining peace and stability in Rivers State.

    The statement further said Worika’s distinguished career spanned academia, international legal practice, and high-level policy advisory roles, making him well-suited to support the administrator in achieving the mandate set by President Bola Tinubu for the state.

    “Professor Worika’s wealth of experience in legal scholarship, public policy, and governance will be instrumental in driving the administration’s agenda. His appointment underscores our dedication to excellence in public service,” the statement read.

    The Sole Administrator emphasized his commitment to utiliing the rich human capital of Rivers State to foster peace, stability, and security.

    Hailing from Okrika in Rivers State, Professor Worika is a globally recognized scholar, legal expert, and administrator with a strong background in environmental and petroleum law.

    He holds a Ph.D. in International Environmental and Comparative Petroleum Law & Policy
    In The News: Rivers Sole Administrator Appoints SSG As Head Of Service Resigns The Sole Administrator of Rivers State, Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ibas (rtd), has appointed Prof. Ibibia Worika, a legal expert and administrator, as the new Secretary to the State Government. In a statement, the Sole Administrator said the appointment, which takes immediate effect, followed a rigorous selection process in which Worika’s extensive experience, academic credentials, and policy expertise stood out. In a related development, the ex-naval chief appointed Iyingi Brown as the Permanent Secretary for Welfare in the Office of the Head of Service to act as the Head of Service pending a substantive appointment. The appointment followed the resignation of the substantive Head of Service, George Nwaeke. In a statement, the government expressed gratitude for Nwaeke’s contributions during his tenure and wished him success in his future endeavors. While congratulating Brown on her new role, the administrator reaffirmed his commitment to maintaining peace and stability in Rivers State. The statement further said Worika’s distinguished career spanned academia, international legal practice, and high-level policy advisory roles, making him well-suited to support the administrator in achieving the mandate set by President Bola Tinubu for the state. “Professor Worika’s wealth of experience in legal scholarship, public policy, and governance will be instrumental in driving the administration’s agenda. His appointment underscores our dedication to excellence in public service,” the statement read. The Sole Administrator emphasized his commitment to utiliing the rich human capital of Rivers State to foster peace, stability, and security. Hailing from Okrika in Rivers State, Professor Worika is a globally recognized scholar, legal expert, and administrator with a strong background in environmental and petroleum law. He holds a Ph.D. in International Environmental and Comparative Petroleum Law & Policy
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  • Silence isn’t weakness it’s peace. Since my divorce from Innocent Idibia, I chose to step back, reflect, and heal away from the noise. The truth is, not everything needs to be explained, and not every battle is meant to be fought in public.
    Love, pain, lessons, and growth all come with life’s journey. I have embraced mine with grace, focusing on myself, my children, and the future ahead.
    Sometimes, silence speaks louder than words.

    - Annie Macaulay Idibia
    Silence isn’t weakness it’s peace. Since my divorce from Innocent Idibia, I chose to step back, reflect, and heal away from the noise. The truth is, not everything needs to be explained, and not every battle is meant to be fought in public. Love, pain, lessons, and growth all come with life’s journey. I have embraced mine with grace, focusing on myself, my children, and the future ahead. Sometimes, silence speaks louder than words. - Annie Macaulay Idibia
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  • 1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
    2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
    3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
    4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

    5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
    6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
    7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
    8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
    9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

    10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
    11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
    12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
    13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
    14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

    15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
    16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
    17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
    18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
    Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
    Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

    Greetings to all submissive Women

    A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

    Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.
    1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31 Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.
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    Exciting times are ahead! Pi Cards will soon be available, bringing you closer to a seamless and innovative way to use your Pi Coins. The future of decentralized finance is unfolding, and you're a part of it! Stay tuned for updates as we take another step toward making Pi more accessible and usable in everyday
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    The Pi Network Team
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    Dear Pioneer, Exciting times are ahead! Pi Cards will soon be available, bringing you closer to a seamless and innovative way to use your Pi Coins. The future of decentralized finance is unfolding, and you're a part of it! Stay tuned for updates as we take another step toward making Pi more accessible and usable in everyday transactions The Pi Network Team #hilights#Picards#PiNetwork #cryptocurrencyPi Treasure
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