• Listen up, Men! A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her

    You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story.

    A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant.

    Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss.

    Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power.

    A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you.

    Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place.

    If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man.

    Aklahyel Goni

    #XploreGoniHQ #AklahyelGoni #XploreGoni #AlphaMindset #NoMoreSimping #MenLeadWomenFollow
    Listen up, Men! A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story. A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant. Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss. Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power. A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you. Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place. If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man. Aklahyel Goni #XploreGoniHQ #AklahyelGoni #XploreGoni #AlphaMindset #NoMoreSimping #MenLeadWomenFollow
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  • TAKE AWAY THE SEX, WHAT NEXT?

    Listen up, Men!

    Remove Sex, and You’ll See 99% of W00men Have Nothing To Offer But Pr0bléms

    Let’s be real and very Nigerian about this. Remove sex, and suddenly that babe you’ve been chasing is just empty—98% of them have nothing more to offer than “I’m hungry,” “send me transport,” and recycled TikTok dances.

    Take away the sex and what’s left?
    A girl who can’t cook indomie without burning it.
    A girl who thinks financial planning means borrowing data from Glo.
    A girl who can argue for hours but can’t contribute anything meaningful to your life.

    She’s been trained by Instagram, raised by Twitter, mentored by slay queens, and now you expect peace, loyalty, and submission from her? Oga, fear God!

    She can’t build—but she wants to chop.

    She can’t contribute—but she can consume.

    She can’t bring peace—but she brings drama like DSTV African Magic.

    She can’t stand hardship—but she wants soft life on your bill.

    Look around—how many of these girls know how to multiply a man’s resources?
    How many of them will stand by you when business is slow or when life hits hard?
    How many of them even know how to pray for you, advise you, or push you towards success?

    You know the answer—few, very few.

    But you, simp general, you’ll still empty your pocket because of hips and TikTok filters. Na you go tire.

    The Code Is Simple:

    If sex is the only value she brings, you are buying pepper soup with your destiny.
    A real woman brings peace, loyalty, wisdom, and multiplies what you give her—not just spreads legs and makes demands.

    Chase power, not nyash. Chase legacy, not lipstick.

    Be wise, my brother.

    Stay sharp.

    #AklahyelGoni
    Timothy Obafemi
    TAKE AWAY THE SEX, WHAT NEXT? Listen up, Men! Remove Sex, and You’ll See 99% of W00men Have Nothing To Offer But Pr0bléms Let’s be real and very Nigerian about this. Remove sex, and suddenly that babe you’ve been chasing is just empty—98% of them have nothing more to offer than “I’m hungry,” “send me transport,” and recycled TikTok dances. Take away the sex and what’s left? A girl who can’t cook indomie without burning it. A girl who thinks financial planning means borrowing data from Glo. A girl who can argue for hours but can’t contribute anything meaningful to your life. She’s been trained by Instagram, raised by Twitter, mentored by slay queens, and now you expect peace, loyalty, and submission from her? Oga, fear God! She can’t build—but she wants to chop. She can’t contribute—but she can consume. She can’t bring peace—but she brings drama like DSTV African Magic. She can’t stand hardship—but she wants soft life on your bill. Look around—how many of these girls know how to multiply a man’s resources? How many of them will stand by you when business is slow or when life hits hard? How many of them even know how to pray for you, advise you, or push you towards success? You know the answer—few, very few. But you, simp general, you’ll still empty your pocket because of hips and TikTok filters. Na you go tire. The Code Is Simple: If sex is the only value she brings, you are buying pepper soup with your destiny. A real woman brings peace, loyalty, wisdom, and multiplies what you give her—not just spreads legs and makes demands. Chase power, not nyash. Chase legacy, not lipstick. Be wise, my brother. Stay sharp. #AklahyelGoni Timothy Obafemi
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