*27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..

Jay-Jay Okocha, former Paris Saint-Germain player, after predicting PSG's victory in the final: 🗣️🗣️ "I told many people that PSG was going to beat Inter and lift the trophy, but nobody believed me. PSG has been in great form, and I truly believed they would win. It’s been so many years without this trophy, and I’m absolutely thrilled to see PSG finally lifting it. Jay-Jay Okocha made 95 appearances for PSG. So good they named him twice.“They made it look so easy Jay-Jay Okocha after his former team, PSG won the Champions League:Arrived in Munich for the UCL final and bumped into the legendary footballer Jay Jay Okocha - so good they named him twice A courteous and amiable individual. A genius with the round leather at his feet. One of the greatest talent to come out of Africa.He was signed by PSG for $18 million, after he had 30 goals, 16 assists in 62 league games for Fenerbahce from 1996-98. He wore jersey no. 10 in a PSG squad which had Ronaldinho, Anelka, Arteta, Heinze, Pochettino.

Here's a motivational note to inspire you: "Believe in yourself and your abilities. Every great achievement starts with a single step. Don't be afraid to take that step, and don't let fear hold you back. You are capable of amazing things. Remember, success is not final, and failure is not fatal. It's the courage to keep going that matters. Keep pushing forward, even when the road ahead seems uncertain. You are stronger than you think, braver than you feel, and smarter than you know. Trust yourself, stay focused, and keep moving forward. Your dreams are worth it. Keep shining, keep striving, and never give up on your passions. You got this!" Feel free to save this note and revisit it whenever you need a boost of motivation!

Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham

Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham

Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham

Believe you can and you’re halfway there.”

📰 REVEALED: Ojukwu Escaped Through Uga, Not Uli — “We Were Fighting Almost the Entire Arab World” – Kanayo Esinulo New revelations are shaking the table of Nigerian history once again! In a recent interview on YouTube with journalist Edmund Obilo, Nigerian author and Biafran war researcher, Kanayo Esinulo, made bold claims about the final days of the Biafran War and the foreign powers involved. According to Esinulo, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, the leader of Biafra, did not escape through the famous Uli Airport in 1970, as widely believed. Instead, he claims that Ojukwu used Uga Airport, because Uli was already under heavy bombardment from Russian fighter jets. 💥 “We weren’t just fighting Nigeria,” Esinulo said. “We were fighting almost the entire Arab world! People don’t know this. Emeka used to call it Pan-Arabism. Why would he escape through Uli when it was on fire?” He explained that many Arab countries were aligned with Nigeria during the war, supplying arms and support, while Biafra struggled to survive under global pressure and isolation. 📌 For those still debating history: ❌ Uli Airport escape? Nope, under attack. ✅ Uga Airport? That's the route, according to Esinulo. 🌍 And the enemy? Not just Nigeria, but a long list of international players — including many from the Arab world. As usual, Nigerian history is never short of drama, hidden files, and shocking updates! #BiafraHistory #OjukwuEscapeRoute #UgaNotUli #ArabWorldVsBiafra #EdmundObiloInterviews #HistoryWeyShock #KanayoEsinuloFiles

SECURITY ALERT: SUSPICIOUS MOVEMENT REPORTED NEAR BENUE BORDER Residents have raised concerns over suspicious movements observed during the Eid El-Kabir celebrations in Nasarawa State. According to eyewitness reports, a group of individuals, believed to be Fulani herders, were seen gathering at Buan and later heading toward the Benue border on Bajaj motorcycles. The suspected movement is believed to pose a potential threat to nearby communities, specifically Yelewata, Ngban, Ukohol, and Gungu-Aze, which are reportedly being targeted for attacks. The Benue State Government is urgently called upon to mobilize security agencies to investigate and forestall any potential attack. Residents are advised to remain vigilant, inform their relatives, and report any suspicious activity to the nearest security authorities without delay. Stay safe. Stay informed. Please share this News!!

In every storm,He is there.No matter what you are facing believe that God grace is sufficient to carry you through every challenge. Do not lose faith for God will reach out His hand when you need Him the most.He Love you and will lead you out of the darkness into a new dawn of hope. God will carry you through every storm in your life and give you strength.Worship the Lord your God and his blessings will be on your food and water.I will take away sickness from among you, says the Lord of Host. (Exodus 23:25) Have a beautiful weekend filled with God's unfailing Love.

No matter what you are going through, just trust and believe God to help you through it. If you believe say a big AMEN!

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