The number one dating mistake men make and how to avoid it

Here’s a story for you: Many moons ago, guy friend of mine got his first girlfriend. Even though he was just law student, barely getting by, he proceeded to spend a lot of money on the girl in just one short, whirlwind of a month, blowing through expensive wines at restaurants and other unnecessary gifts.

Though he did get to sleep with her several times in that short time span, she left him for another guy. My friend was heartbroken for months afterward, not to mention that he had to get a part-time job to replenish his bank account.

Sound familiar? Are you frustrated when you don’t get a girl to like you, after all the money you’ve spent? Well, here’s the thing: you’re operating on a false assumption. Money spent doesn’t necessarily equal adoration or sex.