One of the purest things is someone trying to fix themselves so that they can love you exactly the way you deserve to be loved. It’s a beautiful and honest act when a person looks at their own flaws, fears and habits and decides to work on them, not because someone forced them to but because they truly want to love someone better. They recognize that you deserve a love that’s gentle strong and safe and they’re willing to go through the hard process of change to offer you that kind of love. This means they take the time to understand where they’ve gone wrong in the past. Maybe they’ve been hurt before or maybe they didn’t know how to communicate or show love the right way. But now, they’re learning. They’re reading, thinking, listening and reflecting. They’re facing their own pain, their own silence, their own bad habits, not to become perfect but to become more aware, more kind and more loving for you. They start to pay attention to what makes you happy and what makes you feel seen. They try to support your dreams and comfort you when you're low. They don’t just tell you they love you, they show it in small ways, every day. Even when it’s hard, even when they feel tired or unsure, they keep trying because your heart matters to them more than their own comfort or pride. This kind of love isn’t about changing for someone else but it’s about growing because love itself inspires you to be better. It is choosing to face your own darkness so you don’t pass it on to the person you care about. It’s the quiet promise that says, “You deserve the best of me” and the daily effort to make that promise real. 💕 ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅ >