Listen up, Men “12 Brutal Reasons You’re Failing With Women — Even Though You’re ‘Nice’ and ‘Good’”

You keep wondering why women overlook you, reject you, or use you — even when you’re respectful, caring, supportive, and good to them.
You think being nice should make you her first choice.
But it doesn’t. It makes you invisible. It makes you weak in her eyes.
Because what women crave isn’t niceness — it’s strength, direction, power, and control.

Here are 12 cold reasons why you're failing with women despite being a so-called “good guy”:

1. You're too available
You reply too fast. You’re always there. No mystery, no chase.
She gets bored because you’re easy.

2. You seek her validation
Every compliment, every favor, every gesture is a desperate cry to be liked.
She can smell the weakness. She’ll use it — then dump you.

3. You hide your true intentions
You pretend to be a friend, a helper, a confidant — but you want her.
She knows.
And that lie makes her lose respect instantly.

4. You don’t set boundaries
She raises her voice, flakes on you, disrespects you — and you still smile.
That’s not kindness. That’s spinelessness.

5. You don’t lead
You keep asking, “What do you want to do?”
You don’t make decisions.
She sees you as a follower — not a man.

6. You reward bad behavior
She ghosts you, embarrasses you, flirts with other men — and you still text “Good morning, babe.”
That’s breath dust behavior. You are her entertainment, not her king.

7. You talk too much
You overshare, over-explain, overdo.
Masculine men are brief, bold, and direct.

8. You don’t have purpose
No mission. No ambition. Just vibes.
She won’t follow a man who has no direction.

9. You're too emotional
You cry too soon. Get hurt too easily. Share too deeply.
She’s looking for protection, not a therapist.




10. You're soft on the outside and the inside
No physical edge. No mental grit.
She wants a man who makes her feel safe — not someone she can push around.

11. You pedestalize her
You treat her like a goddess just because she’s pretty.
She didn't earn your devotion — she’s now disgusted by your worship.

12. You're trying to earn her love
You act like love is a reward for hard work.
But women don’t love men for effort — they love men for power.

Being nice is NOT the problem.
Being weak, passive, approval-seeking, and boundary-less is.
Women don’t want your kindness if it comes with insecurity.
They don’t want your attention if it comes with neediness.

They want strength, presence, leadership, and control.
Stop being a SIMPle Man.
Be a man she can follow — not one she can walk over.