THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING IN THE NAME OF “LOVE”
(If you don’t stop now, you’ll cry later.)
Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage.
They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect.
Here are things you must STOP doing — immediately:
1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU.
You’re sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table.
You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor.
2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE.
If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you —
They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain.
3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER.
Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure?
That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left.
4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT “UNDERSTANDING.”
They insult you. Cheat. Use you.
And you say “nobody’s perfect.”
Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial.
5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED.
You’re now pretending to be what they like —
New voice, new habits, fake vibes.
What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not?
6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE.
Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to “make it work.”
When you’re broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didn’t make that mistake.
7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
They say “If you love me, no condom…”
Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage.
Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk.
8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH.
Sex is not trust.
Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall.
9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS.
You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing.
They’re doing the bare minimum.
That’s not love — that’s performance.
.
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(If you don’t stop now, you’ll cry later.)
Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage.
They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect.
Here are things you must STOP doing — immediately:
1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU.
You’re sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table.
You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor.
2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE.
If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you —
They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain.
3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER.
Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure?
That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left.
4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT “UNDERSTANDING.”
They insult you. Cheat. Use you.
And you say “nobody’s perfect.”
Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial.
5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED.
You’re now pretending to be what they like —
New voice, new habits, fake vibes.
What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not?
6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE.
Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to “make it work.”
When you’re broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didn’t make that mistake.
7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
They say “If you love me, no condom…”
Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage.
Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk.
8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH.
Sex is not trust.
Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall.
9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS.
You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing.
They’re doing the bare minimum.
That’s not love — that’s performance.
.
Read more in the comments section ....
THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING IN THE NAME OF “LOVE”
(If you don’t stop now, you’ll cry later.)
Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage.
They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect.
Here are things you must STOP doing — immediately:
1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU.
You’re sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table.
You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor.
2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE.
If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you —
They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain.
3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER.
Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure?
That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left.
4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT “UNDERSTANDING.”
They insult you. Cheat. Use you.
And you say “nobody’s perfect.”
Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial.
5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED.
You’re now pretending to be what they like —
New voice, new habits, fake vibes.
What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not?
6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE.
Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to “make it work.”
When you’re broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didn’t make that mistake.
7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
They say “If you love me, no condom…”
Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage.
Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk.
8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH.
Sex is not trust.
Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall.
9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS.
You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing.
They’re doing the bare minimum.
That’s not love — that’s performance.
.
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