When I got married, I was so emotional about everything. I consistently look at other people's marriage and I want that replicated in my own. Little did I know that all those things are just for the public to see, but what goes on within is more than terrible.

Dear young couples, don’t compare your marriage to others. Seriously, it’s so easy to look at someone else’s relationship on social media or even in your circle and think, “Wow, they have it all together.” But the truth is, you’re only seeing the highlight reel. Every marriage has its behind-the-scenes moments, real, raw, and sometimes messy.

Your journey is unique. Nurture your own connection. Focus on your growth, your love, your rhythm. Comparison will rob you of joy, but gratitude, that’s what strengthens the bond.

- Mercy Johnson