W0men usually say “I stood by him when he had nothing” “I dated him when he was broke” but never we started dating when we both had nothing. Acting like the broke guy wasn’t her best option at that point in time, like she had a choice? Like she was doing better? It cracks me up a lot.

That statement is actually manipulative if you ask me. You’d think they were giving these men cash or they were doing better financially at that point. The same broke guy was sorting bills for her from time to time out of the struggle and not the other way round. The same broke guy is expected to make it big to pull her up and get her a better life. But you was there when he had nothing? Nah you both had nothing, and he did you a favor.

In conclusion, a w0man dating you when you were broke doesn’t automatically make her a good w0man, til she proves she is based on the values she brings to the table.

Don’t let any w0man manipulate her way through your heart, or guilt trip you into keeping her even when she doesn’t deserve to be kept. Stay guided.