How can u make urself irresistible to everyone?
You can't. You can be irresistible to some, but never to all. A pull too strong to ignore is necessarily and intensely individual because it works by promising self-actualization and self-propagation through another.

While large groups can be addressed and activated in this way, you will never captivate the entire mass of humanity in this manner. As such, you must choose between the masses who may or may not actualize you while you promise to actualize them, or focusing on those who are irresistible to you, a set which allows for mutual glorification upon conquest.