I was lying next to my wife, peacefully sleeping, when I received a Facebook notification. Curious, I got up to check and saw a friend request from a woman. Intrigued, I looked through her profile and realized she was an old schoolmate.

I accepted her request and sent a simple "Hello" message, to which she replied, "Hi, I heard you are married with kids." I confirmed this, and she expressed her feelings for me, saying she would do anything to be a part of my life.

However, at that moment, I glanced back at my wife, soundly asleep after a long day of work and chores. Seeing her trust in me and the comfort she found in our home, I was struck by a realization. I couldn't betray this woman who had left everything for me, including her family and their support, to be with me in our modest home.

As I pondered the situation, I couldn't fathom hurting this innocent woman who had placed so much trust in me. With a firm resolve, I swiftly blocked the other woman on my phone.

I returned to my wife, cuddled up beside her, and she adjusted to make room for me. I knew then that I couldn't bear to lose her trust or see her in tears. I made a conscious decision to be a "Real" man - one who doesn't cheat, make his wife cry, or cause her to regret marrying him. A real man values and cherishes his wife above all others.

To all the men out there, be the "Man," the "Real Man." Love and cherish your wife as she deserves.