Last weekend, We burîed my husband father and we had a lot of guests, that day I was busy serving guests, and was in charge of the drinks and the rest. Later at night we had our bãth and all I could think of was s|eep, but my husband was thinking dîfferently. He wanted segz but I was just too tîred for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait unti| morning.

My husband ãngrily |eft the bedroom and I drifted off to s|eep because I was too tired, but I was wôken up with a slãp in my face. I thôught I was drêaming but I wasn’t. I was start|ed when I saw that it was my husband who actua||y |anded me a slãp! As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slãp and said I had no right to deny him segz. I was fõrced to slãp him back, but that made him more angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I strûgg|ed with him, but he overpowered me. He tõre my dress and R∆..PED me to his sãtisfaction.

I sti|| don't seem to be|ieve this happened.
I was too tîred- was I wróng to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slãpped me?
Was he right to have r∆..ped me? It’s been days after the incîdent, he’s sti|| feeling like he was right. Married for a year and 2 months. P|ease ãdvise me.

Blessing Chika Chiamaka

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