I’ve had men who wanted me. But not all of them wanted to truly know me. Some loved the actress. Not the woman behind the lights and camera. I choose peace over pressure. I choose to live with purpose, not for public approval. I don’t see marriage as a prize.

People always say, “Luchy, you’re beautiful and doing well… why are you still single at 33.” Some even look at me like something is wrong. But the truth is, I’m not waiting for the perfect man. I’m waiting for peace. I’ve seen what it looks like when someone settles just to wear a ring. I’ve seen women lose themselves in the name of love, smiling in public but crying in private. I made a promise to myself—I won’t live like that.

A peaceful home, that’s the real gift. And when the right man sees me, respects me, and grows with me, I’ll say yes. But until then, I’m complete as I am.

~~Luchy Donalds