People always laugh at me because I married for love. They say I married her out of pity. Some even say, "With all your looks, your talent, your smartness, and boldness, you still married someone older, and not even beautiful." When I hear things like that, I just smile. They don’t know what I know.

I chose my wife with clear eyes. She is older than me, yes—but that doesn't stop her from being sweet, peaceful, respectful, loving, and very talented. She cooks very well, and she brings peace to my life. That is what really matters in a marriage.

I always tell my friends—marriage is more than looks or age. It is not easy, but when you find a good woman, hold her. If you’re a man and you’re happy with an older woman, marry her. Forget what people say. In time, they will learn to respect your choice.

— Stan Nze