I'm a single mother and it's just me and my daughter. Her father and I separated when she was only 4 years old. I've done my best to raise her alone, and it's not been easy. Now she's 18, and for a while, I've noticed her moving with different young boys and living carelessly.
I have warned her several times to stop and be a decent girl. I’ve talked to her calmly, I’ve begged her, and I’ve even used harsh words out of frustration. Nothing seemed to work. I even told her clearly that if she ever got pregnant out of wedlock, I would disown her, not because I hate her, but because I wanted to protect her and prevent disgrace.
Unfortunately, what I feared has happened — she’s now pregnant. And the most painful part is that she doesn’t even know who the father is. I’m broken. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this situation. I feel like she has thrown everything I worked so hard to build away.
Please, I need advice. How should I deal with this? I don’t want to act out of anger. I love my daughter, but I also feel deeply hurt and disappointed. What should I do?
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I have warned her several times to stop and be a decent girl. I’ve talked to her calmly, I’ve begged her, and I’ve even used harsh words out of frustration. Nothing seemed to work. I even told her clearly that if she ever got pregnant out of wedlock, I would disown her, not because I hate her, but because I wanted to protect her and prevent disgrace.
Unfortunately, what I feared has happened — she’s now pregnant. And the most painful part is that she doesn’t even know who the father is. I’m broken. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this situation. I feel like she has thrown everything I worked so hard to build away.
Please, I need advice. How should I deal with this? I don’t want to act out of anger. I love my daughter, but I also feel deeply hurt and disappointed. What should I do?
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I'm a single mother and it's just me and my daughter. Her father and I separated when she was only 4 years old. I've done my best to raise her alone, and it's not been easy. Now she's 18, and for a while, I've noticed her moving with different young boys and living carelessly.
I have warned her several times to stop and be a decent girl. I’ve talked to her calmly, I’ve begged her, and I’ve even used harsh words out of frustration. Nothing seemed to work. I even told her clearly that if she ever got pregnant out of wedlock, I would disown her, not because I hate her, but because I wanted to protect her and prevent disgrace.
Unfortunately, what I feared has happened — she’s now pregnant. And the most painful part is that she doesn’t even know who the father is. I’m broken. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this situation. I feel like she has thrown everything I worked so hard to build away.
Please, I need advice. How should I deal with this? I don’t want to act out of anger. I love my daughter, but I also feel deeply hurt and disappointed. What should I do?
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