Listen up ladies, MEN are not as bad as you ladies think they are... men's Actions reflect the pains they have been through, and how hurt they have been.. men are the most loving and caring beings on earth and women can't compromise that .. 99% of men can love a lady that has nothing and make her something by building and investing in her growth and stability.. But just 10% of women can do that... every lady wants an already made man for a relationship,, nowadays ladies aren't ready to start a relationship with a nobody, they want a guy that has what their fathers didn't give them . but it wasn't so in the beginning.. our grandmothers were loving and obedient to Their Husbands and the women were the ones that were practically taking care of their homes.. but this generation only depends on men for everything Some even prefer offering their bodies for money and material things... And when they get of age for marriage and no man is coming forth, they start going to the preachers, witches and wizards with someone's son picture... Aunty shame on you you had the opportunity and left the true man for you but since he couldn't sponsor your needs you left some women will be like he has to buy me clothes he has to buy me bags he has to buy me a phone he has to send me money he has to make my hair .. aunty why don't you buy for yourself, men are not financial aiders, love is about reciprocation stop seeing them as your saviors, some even struggle more than you and give out what they have and remain hurting inside yet you don't care about their feelings...... They need love and attention Also.... they're humans like you.. please stop the one sided thing and stop expecting too much from your man.. *Encourage them* *Advice them* *Support them* *Build with them..* thereby making the best of your relationship or Marriage... If you can't play a major role in their life then please leave them alone. Stop hurting them .. ❤️❤️💨 Thank you for reading but never forget this !!!