*Choosing Your Life Partner Wisely...*



Listen

As you pursue your life partner, please think beyond the package. Always remember that sometimes, great products may not be stored in the most attractive packages you ever wish for or desire.

Do not let go of a very good product this year because of it's packaging. Just because the package is not the most attractive in your eyes doesn't imply that the product is not great.

Sometimes, a wife/husband material for you may not be presented in the most attractive package as per your preferences; skin color, body height/size/shape, career, family background, muscle, dimples, etc...

The earlier you get this, the more mature you become and save yourself from depression. That's also where compromise comes in.

I repeat,...
Do not let go of a potential partner with a very good character because of the packaging not meeting your expectations.

It's sad to learn that the majority keep searching for good products (a partner of good character) with certain expectations about it's packaging (physical appearance), and when they bump into this extremely great product with a packaging different from expectations, they let go of it.

Sadly, they end up picking a very bad product stored in their preferred package, thereby forgoing a very good product.

End result...
"Heart-break, divorce and depression."

The issue of packaging versus product quality has cost many people.

Wisdom says; "Sometimes good products may not be stored in the most attractive packages you want."

Maturity says; "don't only examine the package, but also the quality of the product."

Don't go for the package, but settle for the content. The package is something you can work on and improve. I am sure you have seen people change in physical appearance. That's where value addition comes in.

Bottom line;
Don't be blinded by the packaging. Examine the quality of the product too. If it's bad, please save your future and peace .

Good evening family!

*The Joy of Bathing Together Every Night*

Taking a bath with your spouse every night can truly transform your evenings and your relationship. It offers a unique opportunity to unwind and de-stress after a long day, letting the warm water melt away any tension you might be holding. This shared ritual creates a peaceful haven where you can talk openly and connect deeply without the usual distractions of daily life. Imagine discussing your day, sharing your thoughts, and simply being present with each other, fostering a profound sense of intimacy and closeness. It's more than just a wash; it's a dedicated moment for nurturing your bond, reinforcing that you're a team.
Beyond emotional connection, the physical act of bathing together can be incredibly therapeutic, helping both of you to relax muscles and soothe your minds. This leads to better sleep quality, as you'll both drift off feeling refreshed and content. Establishing this nightly routine adds a special, cherished element to your evenings, something you both look forward to. It's a subtle yet powerful way to inject consistent romance and tender moments into your busy lives, creating a routine that's uniquely yours. This shared experience fosters a sense of unity and shared well-being, making you feel more connected and understood. It’s about building a stronger, more loving partnership, one warm, shared bath at a time. So, why not embrace this simple yet profound way to enhance your connection and enjoy each other's company more fully? It’s a small change that can lead to big improvements in your relationship. Don't go without reacting

*HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN* !!!

A woman loves to be touched by her man, sensations of løve hidden under her skin waiting for him to awaken them.

1. Gently squeeze the palm of her hand when she is scared, it comforts her

2. Gentle squeeze and rub her back when you hug her tight, it makes her feel safe

3. Grab her bum with no apologies, it makes her feel wanted and desired by you, her man

4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family, it makes her feel secure

5. Gentle rub her hand when she is worrying or has received some bad news, it shows her you care

6. Hold her back when she is in the kitchen cooking and her hands are tied as you tell her how much she means to you, it makes her hardwork worth it

7. Place your hand between or on her breasts as you both sleep, it makes her feel comfortable and warm with you

8. Touch her tummy whenu she's prêgnånt, it tells her she is not alone, daddy is there with her

9. Rub her hips down when she is dressing up or when she is relaxing in bed, it makes her feel sëxy

10. Hold her hands when you two are praying, it shows unity before God

11. Sneak from behind and wrap your arms around her, it makes her feel special

12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired, it calms her down

13. Stroke gently her back, tracing her spine, it releases sweet shivers all over her body

14. Rub her feet when she's had a long day, it tells her you are serious when you say you will take care of her

15. Oil her body, her back, her elbows, her knees sometimes. Løve on the body that you find sëxy

16. Hold her face, her neck as you kîss her, it melts and nicely weakens her. She løves to surrender to your masculine løve

17. Play with her fingers as you cuddle and talk, it tells her you're paying attention.


It's all about care, make her feel comfortable and the best to have you handsome

*AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...

*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

HER PAST WILL BECOME YOUR PROBLEM

Listen up, son.

The world loves lying to men like you.
Telling you her past doesn’t matter.
That love will erase the bodies, the heartbreaks, the reckless years.

It won’t.

Her past won’t disappear.
It’ll just move in with you.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ EVERY HEARTBREAK SHE BURIED, YOU’LL INHERIT
The men she let in, the lies she told herself, the pieces of her she lost — all of it comes to your doorstep disguised as “love.”

2️⃣ A WOMAN WITH TEN BODIES CARRIES TEN LESSONS, TEN WOUNDS, TEN HABITS
You won’t see them — but you’ll feel them.
In her walls.
In her coldness.
In her inability to trust you even when you’ve done nothing wrong.

3️⃣ “EXPERIENCE” DOESN’T MEAN WISDOM
If all she’s learned is seduction, rejection, and trauma, you’re not getting a wife — you’re joining a performance.
And guess who’s footing the bill?
You.

4️⃣ NUMBNESS IS NOT STRENGTH
If she laughs about chaos, mocks broken homes, and treats pain like entertainment — she’s not strong.
She’s numb.
And numb people don’t love.
They control.

5️⃣ NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MAN’S CHILD
A child may be innocent, but the decision was hers.
That isn’t your burden.
You build your own legacy.
Your own firsts.
Your own family line.
Without apology.

6️⃣ LOVE DOESN’T ERASE CONSEQUENCES
No matter how soft she sounds.
How beautiful she looks.
How sweet her promises.

If her past is a wildfire — don’t marry into ashes.

FINAL WORD:
Son, choose peace over chaos.
Legacy over lust.
Truth over pity.
You deserve your own firsts.
A wife of your youth.
Children with your name.
A home, not a museum of old heartbreaks.

Stand tall in that.
Own it.

Because real men build futures — they don’t rescue broken stories.

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

If someone really cares about you, they care about how their actions affect you and how they make you feel.

They don’t just think about what they want or what is convenient for them, they consider your feelings, too. they pay attention to your emotions, see things from your perspective, and try to understand why you feel the way you do.

They don’t brush off your concerns or act like your problems don’t matter. they don’t make you feel like a burden for opening up. instead, they create a safe space where you feel comfortable being vulnerable. and even if they don’t always agree with you, they still respect your emotions and make an effort to be considerate.

Because if someone truly cares, you won’t have to constantly wonder how much you matter to them. you’ll feel it in the way they treat you. and they will never make you feel like you’re too much for having emotions. Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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Today, I want you to remember how much you mean to me and how thankful I am that you always choose to stay with me. I am not a perfect person, and I am not trying to be one, but I want you to know that I will try my best to make you happy. I love seeing you happy; did you know that? I love your eyes, your eyebrows, your hands, and most importantly, your smile. I wish you would smile so often when you're with me. But even if you don't, I will still fall for you.

I want you to know that you mean the world to me. I love you, and I know that you have heard it so many times from me. But I still want to tell you that I love you every day, and I love you still even after a thousand years. Most people will never understand us; some of them even think that we're not perfect for each other. But the truth is, they never know about us. They never know what we've been through just to keep each other. And for that, thank you for still loving me. My love, thank you for still holding me in your arms. I want you to know that I'll be here for you too, holding your hands tighter and reminding you that I will always love you.

* The right one will love you unconditionally. Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age. Time and time again, I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard." It's heartbreaking to see people give up on love so easily. You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? It's over" and throw everything away. *

* If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated." There's no such thing as you being "too crazy." There's no such thing as you being "too much." The right person will love you for who you are, quirks and all, and they'll be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option. No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you. *

* No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much they care about you. No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them. A person who truly values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. They'll hold on tight, work through the tough times, and prioritize your love and connection above all else. And when the dust settles, they'll be there, holding your hand, and loving you for all eternity. *

A man isn’t taking care of you if he provides, but cheats on you. Many times people ask women to settle for cheats as long as they get financial provisions. Provision goes beyond paying bills. How a man treats you asides from financial provision, and how he protects the intimacy you guys share is also provision— the provision of trust and security. Money cannot replace trust in a relationship.

*The Marriage Advice ..*


1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

*LESSONS FOR WOMEN IN MARRIAGE! +18*

Most women complain of sexual dissatisfaction but the question you should be asking yourself is: Are you playing your part as a woman? Do you know the things that turn your man on? Do you know that a man needs to be caressed and complimented in order to feel like making love to you?

May You Try This It May Help:

1. Be romantic, playful, and spontaneous. Touch your man play with his body flirt with him on the phone compliment him always tell him you love him send him dirty suggestive messages.


2. Please do not be afraid: Ashamed or irritated to take him into your mouth it's exciting once you get the hang of it.

3. Allow him unlimited access to your body: Allow him to go down on you. Do not hide your sensitive areas: surely why do hide your breasts ears and womanhood then claim he can't turn me on.

4. Show him you like sex too: It kills a man's ego when he struggles to get it by the time he starts doing it he will be tired from wrestling with you and talking to you to convince you to have it please please if you can convince your man that you also like it and enjoy it it's very important.

Your man thrives to bring you the latest album of your favorite musician which will stop him from bringing you a new style of sex if he knows you like it.

5. Respond to his lovemaking: Do not lie there like you are dead run your hands on his back and spread out those legs for him and move up to meet him, moan and groan, hiss like a snake.

6. If he hits the right spot say it and show it: Urge him on and hold him tight there, speak in tongues.

7. Suggest positions: And fully participate in your favorite position do not be afraid to go on top.

8. Satisfy him first he will eventually satisfy you: Make him happy and allow him to enjoy you he will return the compliment.

9. Do everything he likes and enjoy pleasing him: You think most men leave you because they got what they wanted: No they would have discovered that you are not enjoying what they are offering you so enjoy what is offered first!

IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS.


Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices.

These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.”

1. YOUR EMOTIONS

The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him.

If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies.

Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners.

2. UNMET NEEDS

Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup.
Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water.

When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love.

3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE

A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies…

But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope.

So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later.

4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM

Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation….

But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”.

Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future.

5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF)

When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace.

You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline.
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For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice?

Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you?

How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

As a mother, if you know your baby has running nose, dry catarrh stains and patches on her face, scattered hair gummed with sand and water, dirty clothes on a dirty body with an offensive odour oozing from the center of her head, don't hand the baby to anyone in church or in public transit to help you carry.

Even if you're in a haste, take time to tidy your child up before stepping out.
If it's not necessary or if you can't, stay at home.

No matter how dirty you are please don't transfer it to your child because it always reflect on your child.

I'm saying this because of the experience I had today.
It's the baby that came and held me, he was stretching his hands for me to carry him after he had already stained my dress with all the dirt. At that point, I couldn't just help it, I had to carry him like that.

Put them good clothes, dip face towel inside clean water to clean your baby's face atleast before carrying her along, change the pampers when it is wet, bath them before leaving the house.

Don't attribute this to poverty because poverty and dirtiness are two different things. Make cleanliness a habit. Don't transfer your dirty lifestyle to an innocent child please.

I have delivered my message.

THANK YOU🙏🏽

*Women you need to hear this. *

Women: You don't have to do everything, you don't have to be a supermom, a super housewife, a super professional, a superwoman... Because when your body claims you, there will be few who will remember you tried to be all in one!

So get out of the house, travel, walk, workout, go to the park, go to a gym, eat what provokes you, fix yourself, sleep later, put on clothes you like, be yourself, take care of yourself, love yourself, say no sometimes and do it EXCLUSIVELY for YOU!!

Children grow up and leave, husbands don’t always stay, work can easily replace you, and the house will get dirty again, but your emotional health is also important and you may not get a second chance.

Happy weekend!

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...

Until you date a generous man, you’ll never understand how much men love to provide for the people they love.

Not rich, but generous. The kind who gives without needing to be asked. Who finds happiness in making you feel safe, steady, and cared for.

He doesn’t give to impress. He gives because it’s how he shows love.

To him, providing is not just about money. It’s about presence, effort, and peace.

Settle with someone with a provider mindset.

*AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.

*How to keep a relationship..*

It's not about perfection. It's about effort, every day.
Communicate-talk about everything, the good and the bad. Build trust. Be honest, even when it's uncomfortable.
Be faithful, not just in action, but in thought and intention.
Show up for each other. Be present. Make time— not just when it's convenient, but when it's needed. Leave the past where it belongs, especially the parts that no longer serve the present.
Yes, even the exes.
Understand that arguments will happen. It doesn't mean it's broken—it means you're human. You won't always be happy, and that's okay. Don't expect the other to change
-grow together instead.
Appreciate the flaws. Celebrate the small things.
Become best friends. Laugh. Cry. Fight fair. Forgive faster.
And most of all - Love each other, not just when it's easy, but unconditionally.
That's how you keep a relationship.

Listen to me, son

Any woman you can’t correct, you can’t lead. Any woman you can’t lead, you can’t protect. And if you can’t lead or protect her, you have no business providing for her.

Marry a woman who listens, respects your leadership, and submits to your authority.

A humble, teachable woman with no degree is better than a proud, rebellious PhD with masculine energy.

A woman’s strength is her femininity, not her ability to compete with you. A real woman takes praise and correction without pride or drama.

If you’re scared to correct her; don’t marry her. You’re not her man if you walk on eggshells. You’re her prisoner.

A man leads with love, but also with discipline.
A woman who resists correction will one day wreck your peace.

If she won’t submit, follow your lead, stay loyal, or take correction; she doesn’t love you. She just wants a husband. Don’t be that fool.

Marry a woman who adores you; who listens, respects, and honors your voice. With her, your home will be peace but with a stubborn, masculine woman, it’ll be a war zone.

And hear this clearly: you can’t change her. So don’t try. Just walk away. Your home should be your rest, not your battlefield. Let weak men marry stubborn women.

Clear?

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

*HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN* !!!



A woman loves to be touched by her man, sensations of løve hidden under her skin waiting for him to awaken them.

1. Gently squeeze the palm of her hand when she is scared, it comforts her

2. Gentle squeeze and rub her back when you hug her tight, it makes her feel safe

3. Grab her bum with no apologies, it makes her feel wanted and desired by you, her man

4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family, it makes her feel secure

5. Gentle rub her hand when she is worrying or has received some bad news, it shows her you care

6. Hold her back when she is in the kitchen cooking and her hands are tied as you tell her how much she means to you, it makes her hardwork worth it

7. Place your hand between or on her breasts as you both sleep, it makes her feel comfortable and warm with you

8. Touch her tummy whenu she's prêgnånt, it tells her she is not alone, daddy is there with her

9. Rub her hips down when she is dressing up or when she is relaxing in bed, it makes her feel sëxy

10. Hold her hands when you two are praying, it shows unity before God

11. Sneak from behind and wrap your arms around her, it makes her feel special

12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired, it calms her down

13. Stroke gently her back, tracing her spine, it releases sweet shivers all over her body

14. Rub her feet when she's had a long day, it tells her you are serious when you say you will take care of her

15. Oil her body, her back, her elbows, her knees sometimes. Løve on the body that you find sëxy

16. Hold her face, her neck as you kîss her, it melts and nicely weakens her. She løves to surrender to your masculine løve

17. Play with her fingers as you cuddle and talk, it tells her you're paying attention.


It's all about care, make her feel comfortable and the best to have you handsome

May God bless your relationship/marriage

TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY:

1. PICNIC DATE
There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and a leso, find a spot and have fun

2. WALK DATE
Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this

3. ELEGANT DATE
Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress

4. DANCE DATE
Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down

5. IMPROMPTU DATE
Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontenous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time

6. MOVIE DATE
Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions

7. DOUBLE DATE
Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger

8. COMPASSION DATE
There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love

9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE
There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet

10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE
This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments

11. MAKE-UP DATE
If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love

12. LUNCH DATE
Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so

13. OLD LOVE DATE
Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement

14. SPORTS DATE
Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more

15. FRIENDS DATE
Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends

16. TRAVEL DATE
Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way

16. STAY AT HOME DATE
Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

1. STINGY : stingy is when someone asks you for salt and you said your mom counted it

2. CONFUSED: is when you steal meat from your mother's pot and you forget whether the spoon was placed upwards or downwards

3. SHOCK: shock is when you touch your pocket and you didn't feel your phone

4. CAUSE TROUBLE: is when you enter a restaurant and you discover that all the guys there are with their ladies and you decides to make a fake phone call with your China phone;
"Hello, my man, I saw your wife with a man in a restaurant, come quick quick" after that you turned back only to discover all the ladies have disappeared

5: WAHALA: is after you have been punished by a soldier and you climbed your bike and shout "thunder fire you" and then your bike refuses to start

6. WITCHCRAFT: is when you are in your room and someone passed your window and told you to go and off your Gen but your living upstairs

7:WICKEDNESS: is when you finish reading this post and you didn't react and share.

Enjoy your weekend

A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple.

You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion.

Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded.

Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.

1: Date someone who is matured enough to say…

"Hey babe, this is what you have done and I honestly do not like it, I would appreciate if u stop this type of behaviour cause it hurts me". Cool right?... Instead of someone who'd go out of their way acting childish and ignoring you, while venting to social media with posts.

2: If you're matured enough you'll realize that nowadays, its not about dating someone beautiful, handsome or your type but a loving person who really cares about you.

3: You can never build a relationship with a partner who is living to impress friends... Never!!

4: You don't owe anyone a lasting relationship... You owe yourself happiness... If it gets toxic, leave..

5: Relationships don't need cute voices & lovely faces, relationships need beautiful hearts & unbreakable trust.

#𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬𝐎𝐟𝐀𝐆𝐨𝐝𝐥𝐲𝐥𝐚𝐝𝐲
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*DEAR LADIES, TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!*

Dating a married man may feel exciting. It may look easy. He maybe spending on you but behind closed doors, it’s a path full of pain, secrets, and stolen moments.

Dear Ladies,
No matter what life may throw back at you, never you find happiness in another woman's pain.
A marriage that is built on another woman's tears will never stand.

Don't be an instrument that ends another woman’s happiness.

TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!

1. The only thing he wants is sex. He comes and goes back home to his wife.

2.He is never going to leave his wife for you

3. You are most likely not the only one.

4.After using you he will move on to someone else.

5.He doesn't owe you anything.

6.Getting pregnant on purpose won't trap him; his kids are at home with his wife.

7. His money and property is for him and his family, you only get the small changes.

8. You will never be part of his future.

9. You’ll live in silence.
No public affection. No open love. You hide while he lives two lives.

10. You’ll never be his priority
His wife, his children, his home—they come first. You’re an option, not a commitment.

NOTE:
Sister, You may destroy another woman’s home
And one day, you might be in her shoes.

A struggling young man is better than a married man.
A home built on another woman's tears won't stand.
Look for your own Husband and stop tearing another woman's marriage apart.

Forgive even if they’re not sorry.
Forgive even if their words still play over and over in your head.
Forgive even if they haven’t changed.
Forgive even if they don’t deserve it.
Forgive even if the apology never comes.

Forgive because you owe it to yourself.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean offering them access back into your life.
…and it doesn’t mean giving them permission to break your heart again.

Forgiveness allows YOU to heal.

Being the bigger person isn’t saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It’s saying, ”I’m no longer giving you the power to control my emotions.”

Even if it’s the hardest thing in the world to do…

Forgive them anyway.🩷