My Boss Wants to Sle€p with Me
I work as a house help for a family in Abuja. I am not a live-in house help; I go to their house in the morning and leave in the evening after I’ve finished my work. They are a very nice family, and I was lucky to find this job because it has really helped me take care of my younger siblings and contribute to my family.
My boss is a kind man, at least that’s how I saw him initially. His wife is even bettera loving and kind woman who treats me like her own younger sister. She always asks if I’ve eaten, sometimes gives me extra food to take home, and even surprises me with gifts occasionally. When I think of her, I feel a mix of love and guilt because of what her husband is doing.
At first, I had no complaints. The work was good, the pay was even better, and I was treated with respect. My boss was generous, often giving me extra cash for transport or buying foodstuffs for me to take home. He would smile warmly and tell me to keep up the good work. I saw him as a good man who wanted to help me.
Then it started. He began saying things that made me uncomfortable. Small, innocent comments at first, like, “You’re a fine girl o,” or, “Any man who marries you will be lucky.” I brushed them off and laughed nervously, thinking it was nothing. But soon, his words became bolder.
One day, he called me aside while his wife was in the kitchen. “You know I like you, right?” he said. I didn’t understand what he meant at first. I just smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.” But he continued, he said he want us to be close.
I froze. My heart started beating fast. I quickly told him, “Sir, I don’t understand what you mean.” But he was clear. He wanted me to date him. I immediately told him, “Sir, I can’t do that. I respect you and your wife too much.
I thought that would end it, but it didn’t. Every chance he got, he would try to bring up the same topic. Sometimes he would corner me in the kitchen or whisper when his wife wasn’t around. I kept refusing, politely but firmly, but he wouldn’t stop.
The worst part is, I don’t know what to do. I can’t afford to lose this job. The pay is good, and it’s the only way I can support my siblings. My parents are not in a position to help much, so everything falls on me. This job pays for my siblings’ school fees, food, and even our rent sometimes.
I’ve thought about telling his wife, but I’m scared. What if she doesn’t believe me? She’s such a nice woman, and I don’t want to destroy her home. What if she thinks I’m trying to cause trouble? What if she accuses me of lying and fir€s me?
On the other hand, I don’t know how long I can keep pretending everything is fine. My boss is getting bolder, and it’s making me uncomfortable. Every day, I’m scared of going to work because I don’t know what he’ll do or say next.
I need advice. Should I tell his wife? Will she understand? Or should I keep quiet and hope he stops eventually? I don’t want to lose my job, but I also don’t want to betray myself or hurt the woman who has been so kind to me.
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
I work as a house help for a family in Abuja. I am not a live-in house help; I go to their house in the morning and leave in the evening after I’ve finished my work. They are a very nice family, and I was lucky to find this job because it has really helped me take care of my younger siblings and contribute to my family.
My boss is a kind man, at least that’s how I saw him initially. His wife is even bettera loving and kind woman who treats me like her own younger sister. She always asks if I’ve eaten, sometimes gives me extra food to take home, and even surprises me with gifts occasionally. When I think of her, I feel a mix of love and guilt because of what her husband is doing.
At first, I had no complaints. The work was good, the pay was even better, and I was treated with respect. My boss was generous, often giving me extra cash for transport or buying foodstuffs for me to take home. He would smile warmly and tell me to keep up the good work. I saw him as a good man who wanted to help me.
Then it started. He began saying things that made me uncomfortable. Small, innocent comments at first, like, “You’re a fine girl o,” or, “Any man who marries you will be lucky.” I brushed them off and laughed nervously, thinking it was nothing. But soon, his words became bolder.
One day, he called me aside while his wife was in the kitchen. “You know I like you, right?” he said. I didn’t understand what he meant at first. I just smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.” But he continued, he said he want us to be close.
I froze. My heart started beating fast. I quickly told him, “Sir, I don’t understand what you mean.” But he was clear. He wanted me to date him. I immediately told him, “Sir, I can’t do that. I respect you and your wife too much.
I thought that would end it, but it didn’t. Every chance he got, he would try to bring up the same topic. Sometimes he would corner me in the kitchen or whisper when his wife wasn’t around. I kept refusing, politely but firmly, but he wouldn’t stop.
The worst part is, I don’t know what to do. I can’t afford to lose this job. The pay is good, and it’s the only way I can support my siblings. My parents are not in a position to help much, so everything falls on me. This job pays for my siblings’ school fees, food, and even our rent sometimes.
I’ve thought about telling his wife, but I’m scared. What if she doesn’t believe me? She’s such a nice woman, and I don’t want to destroy her home. What if she thinks I’m trying to cause trouble? What if she accuses me of lying and fir€s me?
On the other hand, I don’t know how long I can keep pretending everything is fine. My boss is getting bolder, and it’s making me uncomfortable. Every day, I’m scared of going to work because I don’t know what he’ll do or say next.
I need advice. Should I tell his wife? Will she understand? Or should I keep quiet and hope he stops eventually? I don’t want to lose my job, but I also don’t want to betray myself or hurt the woman who has been so kind to me.
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
My Boss Wants to Sle€p with Me
I work as a house help for a family in Abuja. I am not a live-in house help; I go to their house in the morning and leave in the evening after I’ve finished my work. They are a very nice family, and I was lucky to find this job because it has really helped me take care of my younger siblings and contribute to my family.
My boss is a kind man, at least that’s how I saw him initially. His wife is even bettera loving and kind woman who treats me like her own younger sister. She always asks if I’ve eaten, sometimes gives me extra food to take home, and even surprises me with gifts occasionally. When I think of her, I feel a mix of love and guilt because of what her husband is doing.
At first, I had no complaints. The work was good, the pay was even better, and I was treated with respect. My boss was generous, often giving me extra cash for transport or buying foodstuffs for me to take home. He would smile warmly and tell me to keep up the good work. I saw him as a good man who wanted to help me.
Then it started. He began saying things that made me uncomfortable. Small, innocent comments at first, like, “You’re a fine girl o,” or, “Any man who marries you will be lucky.” I brushed them off and laughed nervously, thinking it was nothing. But soon, his words became bolder.
One day, he called me aside while his wife was in the kitchen. “You know I like you, right?” he said. I didn’t understand what he meant at first. I just smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.” But he continued, he said he want us to be close.
I froze. My heart started beating fast. I quickly told him, “Sir, I don’t understand what you mean.” But he was clear. He wanted me to date him. I immediately told him, “Sir, I can’t do that. I respect you and your wife too much.
I thought that would end it, but it didn’t. Every chance he got, he would try to bring up the same topic. Sometimes he would corner me in the kitchen or whisper when his wife wasn’t around. I kept refusing, politely but firmly, but he wouldn’t stop.
The worst part is, I don’t know what to do. I can’t afford to lose this job. The pay is good, and it’s the only way I can support my siblings. My parents are not in a position to help much, so everything falls on me. This job pays for my siblings’ school fees, food, and even our rent sometimes.
I’ve thought about telling his wife, but I’m scared. What if she doesn’t believe me? She’s such a nice woman, and I don’t want to destroy her home. What if she thinks I’m trying to cause trouble? What if she accuses me of lying and fir€s me?
On the other hand, I don’t know how long I can keep pretending everything is fine. My boss is getting bolder, and it’s making me uncomfortable. Every day, I’m scared of going to work because I don’t know what he’ll do or say next.
I need advice. Should I tell his wife? Will she understand? Or should I keep quiet and hope he stops eventually? I don’t want to lose my job, but I also don’t want to betray myself or hurt the woman who has been so kind to me.
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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