SAD

Casie revealed that When Nipsey Hussle died , his wife started dating Diddy only after 2 weeks . Casie revealed there was a time she visited Laurent and saw her on Diddy’s bed .

You know the craziest thing ? Diddy and Nipsey were friends . Nipsey went everywhere with his wife .He took her to the studio all the time . He loved and respected her so much . One could never even think Diddy will do that to him .

Moral lesson : Fear women .

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SEASONS TO NOTE WHEN DATING
Not Every “Sweet” Season Leads To Marriage!

Dating isn’t just a straight road to the altar. It comes in seasons, and if you’re not discerning, you may commit to the wrong person or leave someone right for you.

Here are the 4 key seasons every dating couple goes through and what to watch out for:

1. THE HONEY SEASON (Excitement Phase)

This is when everything feels perfect. The frequent late-night calls, butterflies in your tummy, sweet words, constant attention, and nothing is ever wrong about this person at this phase.

They seem like your answered prayer and the best thing that has ever happened to you.

At this phase, you need to be aware of those that show their best side, not their real side.
NEVER make long-term decisions in this phase. Enjoy it, but stay alert.

2. THE STORMY SEASON (Conflict Phase)

Here, disagreements begin to arise. You begin to see attitudes, temper, communication style and how they react under pressure.

This is the time to note if they handle conflict with maturity or manipulation.

You should find out if both of you talk things through respectfully.

This season reveals emotional intelligence, which is a must for marriage.

3. THE SILENT SEASON (Distance Phase)

At this phase, the energy suddenly drops. Calls are reduced. Excitement fades, and It feels like something’s wrong.

This is when to find out if you are emotionally connected beyond physical attraction.

Do you still enjoy each other’s company without constant entertainment?

This season tests depth. It is at this point that shallow relationships usually die.

4. THE DECISION SEASON (Clarity Phase)

This is the phase where you see them clearly. Their strengths, weaknesses, and patterns.

At this phase, you need to evaluate if you are aligned spiritually, emotionally and mentally?

Do you share the same values, goals, and faith convictions?

This is where you decide if this person is your future spouse or just a distraction.

However, you need to know that if you introduce s.e.x too early, these seasons become harder to discern, your judgement may be biased, emotions get clouded and red flags get ignored. You will begin to confuse lust for love.

Dating is not a game, it’s preparation for destiny.

PASTORS' WIVES

With the rate at which Pastors and their wives are filing for divorce, I think we need to do something fast or else, the church may soon be filled with divorced Pastors and congregations. If the Pastor can get a divorce, why can't the members?

I spoke recently to an estranged Pastor's wife and her complain like the complain of other unhappily married Pastors' wives is that her husband had many "strange" women around him and when she complained, he saw her as jealous. He eventually sent her packing with her children and filed for divorce. Case closed.

I'm not here to judge anybody. It is hell going through divorce and no one needs any preaching or correction during this period.

I will use this medium to advise single ladies dating Pastors, buckle your belt. It is not enough to be seen as the First Lady in the church. You will be seen as a spiritual mother who should "accommodate" all the "sisters" flocking around your husband.

Your husband will attract women. If he doesn't go after them, they will go after him, it is natural. Women are attracted to great father figures who treat them with care and listen to their pains and hurts with tender love.

Some of these women may bond with him and want more of him, that is REALITY. The earlier you prepare your self, the lots of headache you will save yourself in future. Now, this is where your work comes in:

PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND DAILY: You will do well to have Stormie Omartian's THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE in your library.

LOOK DROP-D€AD GORGEOUS: Dress fabulous to church with your husband. Let your husband easily pick you out from the crowd of women that flocks him. Always dress to his taste.

DRESS YOUR CHARACTER: Be mature, loving, accommodating and decorate his home with peace of mind. Nagging, complaining and red hot temper can drive any man mad.

BE A CHICK AT HOME. Alright, you are no longer in church, so remove that scarf, wear something kinky and be super delicious. Use your feminine power and be seductive. Men who hang around ladies who send them signals all the time need a seductive wife at home. You've got to display all your assets conspicuously and let him know he's got the best deal at home.

GIVE HIM $€X BEFORE HE STEPS OUT OF THE HOUSE: Drain him. A $€xually hungry man's eyes wander around and he is restless around women. Do not push your husband into temptation. If there are people who need more $€x on daily basis, they are the pastors. Satisfy him $€xually and be super hot in bed.

Abeg, this is not church. This is the bedroom where the man needs to go to heaven and come back as often as possible. Let him wish he carries his bedroom to his office.

When a man is thoroughly satisfied sexually, he feels nothing for other females out there.

BE HIS FRIEND: listen to him, play with him, date him, flirt with him, encourage him, support him and always be there for him.

LET HIM BE THE MAN: Some pastors' wives are proud and pompous. They dictate to everyone around and you wonder whether they are the General Overseer or the husband. Let the husband take the lead while you offer suggestions, encourage and assist.

MAKE HIS HOME A PALACE: Keep it clean, make it comely and allow peace to reign. When a man has a loving wife, a peaceful home and the power of God backing him up, who is the woman that will snatch him?

Singles, this is a tall order. Marrying a Pastor is not a joke, it is serious business. You either prepare to be a great wife and do more than an average wife, or let him go in peace and marry someone you are comfortable with. The ball is in your court...

Thanks for reading. God bless you.

*How to keep a relationship happy & strong …*

Love takes work, but it’s worth it every day . Show up for each other, even when life gets busy . Small gestures matter—text them "I love you" or surprise them with their favorite snack . Laugh together often—joy keeps love alive . Listen more than you speak, and really hear their heart . Never take them for granted—appreciation builds love higher . Keep choosing them, even on tough days .

Fights will come, but don’t let anger win . Take a breath, cool down, and talk it out . Say "I’m sorry" when you’re wrong—pride ruins love . Forgive quickly, because holding grudges hurts you both . Remember why you fell for them in the first place . Love isn’t perfect—it’s two people trying, every single day . Together, you’re stronger than any problem .

Never stop dating your partner—keep the spark alive ! Plan little surprises, like a picnic or a movie night . Hold hands, kiss often, and stay close—touch keeps love warm . Say "I love you" like you mean it, every time . Grow together, dream together, and build a future side by side . Love is a choice—make it every morning when you wake up . Start today, and keep fighting for what matters most—**each other** !

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 30/05/2025*

Gateway Games: Delta wins 22nd national sports festival

Tinubu’s intervention saved Rivers from anarchy — Fubara

Lassa fever, meningitis kill 366 in 24 states – NCDC

Cholera: LASG threatens to demolish buildings without toilet

Deaf students urge Makinde not to sell school land

Gombe unveils plans to tackle out-of-school, almajiri crisis

China condemns US plan to revoke student visas

At least 44 killed in Gaza as Israeli airstrikes intensify

Kenyan student faces trial for fake President Ruto death post

Mauritania’s Sidi Ould Tah elected new AfDB president

Cardoso named Central Bank governor of the year at African Banker Awards

Four Nigerians face deportation over drug trafficking, fraud in India


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* Louboutins’ iconic red soles were inspired by Andy Warhol. The 60s pop artist’s drawing Flowers caught the eye of the famous designer which gave him the idea to add the infamous sole to his designs

* Iceland has a dating app that stops you hooking up with your cousin. The dating app called Íslendingabók (Book of Icelanders) saves Icelanders that embarrassment.
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Tinubu establishes National Credit Guarantee Company

Tinubu signs order to slash oil project costs

Tinubu, Akpabio, Obasanjo, others celebrate Abiodun at 65

Akpabio names Bayelsa senator Konbowei South-South commission committee chairman

Senate panel hails establishment of new universities

Senate grills PENCOM over recruitment irregularities

Reps give WAEC 24-hour ultimatum over SSCE irregularities

Reps to engage govs, media, CSOs in constitution review drive

Ground Rent: It’s Illegal To Take Over People’s Properties, Sen Kingibe Tackles Wike

Edo gov: Appeal Court upholds Okpebholo’s victory

Ighodalo heads for Supreme Court to challenge Okpebholo’s victory

Contempt: Court bars Kanu’s in-law, Favour, from further attending proceedings

32 Internet fraudsters jailed in Edo

NAPTIP summons singer Speed Darlington over alleged minor defilement

DSS, Military Kill Terror Kingpin, Dogo Gide Loyalists In Niger Forest

Navy builds officers’ accommodation to boost welfare, morale

NSA invites Amnesty over insecurity report

FG to concession infrastructure projects to repay loans — Edun

FG plans regional airline, rail firms in N’East

Tuggar hails Tinubu’s global strides in two years

Your bitterness won’t erase Tinubu’s achievements, Onanuga slams Atiku

Gombe, Bauchi meet NEPL, AOML over Kolmani oil field operations

FG rolls out CNG buses in 20 federal varsities

NNMDA unveils herbal medicines for ulcer, diarrhoea

HYPREP raises committee for 100-bed Ogoni hospital

32% of teachers fail professional qualifying TRCN exam, says council director

Tinubu’s performance in two years unprecedented – Wike

Wike knocks Senator Kingibe over Ground Rent saga

First Lady donates 7 buses to CAN youth wing

SWAN organises South, North football match to promote unity

TotalEnergies sells stake in Bonga field to Shell

Fidelity Bank awards scholarships on Children’s Day

FCMB reaffirms support for Ojude Oba festival

CinqTech sponsors Lagos Country Club swimming fiesta

Make ‘Nigeria First’ policy a law, MAN urges govt

PRP urges NASS to reject Tinubu’s fresh loan request

Enugu, Gov Mbah must remain PDP — Nwobodo

June 12: Military forced Nigerians to chose between Abiola, Tofa — Waziri

Tinubu’s $24bn loan request reckless, immoral — Atiku

WAEC exam in darkness, a national disgrace — Atiku

Mid-term: Tinubu has lifted gloom over Nigeria, says APC

Suswam blames PDP’s crisis on Damagum, Bala Mohammed

Rivers: Difficult decisions will be made, says Fubara

Adeleke rebukes NBA, Supreme Court over Osun council crisis, autonomy verdict

Katsina gov calls for information to arrest bandits

Sokoto more secure under Aliyu, says govt

Uzodimma merges two ministries, directs commissioner to hand over

Tinubu deserves second term in office, says Okpebholo

70–80% of insecurity perpetrators live within communities – Gov. Radda

I’ve Not Collected A Single Loan In Two Years – Uba Sani

Gombe gov builds N68.5bn secretariat

Fintiri begins N19.9bn Adamawa conference centre project

Zulum hails NEDC’s contributions to Borno’s post-insurgency recovery efforts

Yusuf unveils re-construction of Kano’s Zungeru road

Ogun traders fault Osun gov over Adire origin claim

Court acquits Jigawa man standing trial for armed robbery

SUBEB hails Alia’s educational strides in two years

Kwara unveils programme to promote healthy eating habits

Police arrest principal suspects in killing of Kano DPO

Police arrest 46 youths after Ondo cult clash

Police kill notorious kidnapper, murderer, M-Kaze, in Rivers

How my estranged husband rapes me – 14-year-old wife

21 corpses recovered as midnight flood sweeps 50 homes in Niger


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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1967, the Republic of Biafra was proclaimed. The short-lived state consisted of Nigeria’s Eastern Region. Its secession sparked the Nigerian Civil War, which lasted until 1970 and resulted in the region’s re-integration into Nigeria.

* On this day in 2011, Germany abandoned nuclear energy. The government’s decision followed the nuclear meltdown at Japan’s Fukushima power plant and years of hands-on protests and activism by Germany powerful anti-nuclear movement.

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Don’t dream of winning, train for it. – Mohamed Farah

Good morning



*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*

SEASONS TO NOTE WHEN DATING
Not Every “Sweet” Season Leads To Marriage!

Dating isn’t just a straight road to the altar. It comes in seasons, and if you’re not discerning, you may commit to the wrong person or leave someone right for you.

Here are the 4 key seasons every dating couple goes through and what to watch out for:

1. THE HONEY SEASON (Excitement Phase)

This is when everything feels perfect. The frequent late-night calls, butterflies in your tummy, sweet words, constant attention, and nothing is ever wrong about this person at this phase.

They seem like your answered prayer and the best thing that has ever happened to you.

At this phase, you need to be aware of those that show their best side, not their real side.
NEVER make long-term decisions in this phase. Enjoy it, but stay alert.

2. THE STORMY SEASON (Conflict Phase)

Here, disagreements begin to arise. You begin to see attitudes, temper, communication style and how they react under pressure.

This is the time to note if they handle conflict with maturity or manipulation.

You should find out if both of you talk things through respectfully.

This season reveals emotional intelligence, which is a must for marriage.

3. THE SILENT SEASON (Distance Phase)

At this phase, the energy suddenly drops. Calls are reduced. Excitement fades, and It feels like something’s wrong.

This is when to find out if you are emotionally connected beyond physical attraction.

Do you still enjoy each other’s company without constant entertainment?

This season tests depth. It is at this point that shallow relationships usually die.

4. THE DECISION SEASON (Clarity Phase)

This is the phase where you see them clearly. Their strengths, weaknesses, and patterns.

At this phase, you need to evaluate if you are aligned spiritually, emotionally and mentally?

Do you share the same values, goals, and faith convictions?

This is where you decide if this person is your future spouse or just a distraction.

However, you need to know that if you introduce s.e.x too early, these seasons become harder to discern, your judgement may be biased, emotions get clouded and red flags get ignored. You will begin to confuse lust for love.

Dating is not a game, it’s preparation for destiny.

*How to keep a relationship happy & strong …*

Love takes work, but it’s worth it every day . Show up for each other, even when life gets busy . Small gestures matter—text them "I love you" or surprise them with their favorite snack . Laugh together often—joy keeps love alive . Listen more than you speak, and really hear their heart . Never take them for granted—appreciation builds love higher . Keep choosing them, even on tough days .

Fights will come, but don’t let anger win . Take a breath, cool down, and talk it out . Say "I’m sorry" when you’re wrong—pride ruins love . Forgive quickly, because holding grudges hurts you both . Remember why you fell for them in the first place . Love isn’t perfect—it’s two people trying, every single day . Together, you’re stronger than any problem .

Never stop dating your partner—keep the spark alive ! Plan little surprises, like a picnic or a movie night . Hold hands, kiss often, and stay close—touch keeps love warm . Say "I love you" like you mean it, every time . Grow together, dream together, and build a future side by side . Love is a choice—make it every morning when you wake up . Start today, and keep fighting for what matters most—**each other** !

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*

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When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

ALL WOMEN NEED TO READ THIS

When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that he's not into you.

It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back and allow you to do all of the calling, telling, dating, and arrangements, talks about the future, etc. It's pretty obvious where you stand in that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan. You will be his priority.

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

Another day to remind you that you mean nothing to a woman that is not your WIFE. He who finds a WIFE should leave other WOMEN alone nobody forced you to marry. How will you feel if your WIFE start dating single guys because men are not polygamous in nature rather everybody is polygamous in nature but it takes discipline to tame it. And to those men thinking men are polygamous in nature and that it isn't easy to eat only one soup for the rest of their lives. Who told you that to change soup is not hungering your women too. These women that noticed the assorted meat in rich egusi soup but decided to stick with your DRIED YAM.

*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*



When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.