Listen up, Men! This “I Owe Nobody” Mentality Is Why Modern Women Are Broken—Here’s the Harsh Truth Women today love to scream, “I owe nobody this, I owe nobody that,” like it’s some badge of honor. That’s how we got to this level of irresponsibility, broken relationships, broken marriages, and a society full of reckless women who hit 35 without a man and a body count that makes a calculator sweat. Let’s be real—this mentality is pure poison. Here’s the truth they don’t want to hear: you owe people plenty. Respect, empathy, compassion, good character, and accountability aren’t optional—they’re the bare minimum for being a decent human. But let’s not stop there. You owe your husband virginity, submission, and obedience—period. That’s not oppression—that’s order. Society crumbles without it. 1. “I Owe Nobody Respect” Is Why No Man Wants You Respect isn’t something you give based on your mood—it’s the foundation of any relationship. Women who refuse to respect men wonder why they keep getting ghosted. When a woman thinks she’s above showing respect, what she’s really saying is, “I’m entitled to everything without earning anything.” Men see that mentality from a mile away and run. And they should. No man should have to beg for basic respect. 2. “I Owe Nobody Empathy” Is Why Your Friendships Are Trash Empathy is about understanding the other person’s point of view—not about making everything about you. Women who scream about not owing anyone empathy are the same ones who can’t keep friends for longer than six months because every conversation turns into “me, me, me.” That’s why they spend their nights on TikTok live streams instead of having meaningful conversations. No empathy, no real connections—simple. 3. “I Owe Nobody My Virginity”—And That’s Why You’re Single at 35 Here’s the hard truth—a woman’s virginity is a gift, not a given. A man who works his entire life to build a legacy deserves a woman who has the discipline to save herself. You owe your husband

I once knew a woman With lines on her face, Who had spent much of her life In a faraway place. A place where those lines Were honored, revered— Where it was known They held the wealth of her years. But here, somewhere else, Aging was feared. She made us all see That beauty lasts through the years. One day she stood And gathered a crowd. She started to speak As we listened, spellbound. We hung onto each word, Completely entranced— For her voice was strong, Knowing, and wise. She smoothed down the crown Of hair on her head, Then lifted her chin And with confidence said: "These lines are not something To hide or to fear— But marks that declare: ‘I have lived. I was here.’ They cannot be counted Like bars on a cage, But like rings on a tree That grow stronger with age. Rooted and vast, Resilient and proud— I have earned every line, And I wear them out loud. And though you may think I’d look better without, Just wait till you learn What each one’s all about. Because I am so much more Than how I appear— And these lines on my face Are like lines from a book. They hold all the stories Of what came before me, So come, sit down, And I’ll tell you, my story."

THE DANGER OF FORCING LOVE It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth. A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don't force yourself on anyone. Don't keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option. Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you! Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you. You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it. You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can't see the right person for your life. Sometimes We may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people's life and act accordingly. It's not pride, it is self respect.

Akpabio Praises Governor Otti, Invites Him to Join APC for 'More Praise' Senate President Godswill Akpabio has commended Abia State Governor, Dr. Alex Otti, for his leadership, particularly in celebrating Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe's 70th birthday. Speaking at the event organized by the Abia State Government, Akpabio described Otti as a leader whose generosity and governance style have positively impacted the people of Abia. The Senate President lauded Otti for setting aside political differences to honor Abaribe, stating that the move demonstrated political maturity and had endeared him to the people of Abia South. Akpabio acknowledged Otti's growing influence, emphasizing that his ability to unite different political interests was commendable. However, his remarks took a political turn when he hinted that Otti would receive even greater recognition if he joined the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC). "The day you join the APC, you will hear my full praise and see how I will celebrate you," Akpabio remarked, suggesting that political alignment could enhance Otti’s standing at the national level. Otti, a former banker turned politician, secured the Abia governorship under the Labour Party (LP) and has been praised for his governance style. While he has not indicated any plans to switch parties, Akpabio's statement highlights ongoing efforts by the APC to woo influential opposition leaders into its fold.

50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR WIFE. 1. Your wife is not perfect, forgive her. 2. Your wife is the bone of your bone, do not break her. 3. Your wife is a gift, appreciate her. 4. Your wife is a rare gem, guide her jealously. 5. Your wife is your best friend, be friendly with her. 6. Your wife is your joy, nourish her. 7. Your wife is to be cherish, be cheerful to her. 8. Your wife is your portion, cherish her. 9. Your wife is not a devil, don’t dump her. 10. Your wife is not only good for sex, carry her along in every issue. 11. Your wife is not your enemy, encourage her. 12. Your wife is not a family material, never commit her unto the hand of your family members. 13. Your wife is not your rival, don’t compete with her. 14. Your wife is a female gender, honor her. 15. Your wife is not common, don’t compare her. 16. Your wife is not a wash hand base, stop abusing her. 17. Your wife is a weaker vessel, handle her with care. 18. Your wife is a beautiful queen, celebrate her. 19. Your wife is not a fighter, don’t fight her. 20. Your wife is not a punching bag, don’t beat her. 21. Your wife is not a game, don’t play her. 22. Your wife need foreplay, don’t rape her. 23. Your wife is a hook, get hook to her. 24. Your wife is all you love, praise her. 25. Your wife is important, honor her. 26. Your wife is what u make her to be, accept her. 27. Your wife is your joy, pursue her. 28. Your wife needs your honor, never embarrass her in the public. 29. Your wife is not a knife, be nice to her. 30. Your wife is a distinct personality, never compare her to any work. 31. Your wife is loyal, don’t be suspicious of her. 32. Your wife is not a fool, listen to her advice. 33. Your wife is not malicious, do not keep malice with her. 34. Your wife is the best friend you can have, befriend her. 35. Your wife is not a napkin, do not misuse her. 36. Your wife is not your house girl, support her in the kitchen. 37. Your wife is passionate, do not by- pass her. 38. Your wife is very important to you, do not abandon her. 39. Your wife is a queen, do not quarrel with her. 40. Your wife is not the only owner of the sit, help her to baby sit. 41. Your wife is reasonable, do not under- rate her. 42. Your wife is your responsibility, provide for her. 43. Your wife is yourself, do not separate her bed. 44. Your wife is number one in your life, priorities her 45. Your wife is your treasure, jealously guide her. 46. Your wife need your help, help her. 47. Your wife need your full attention, do not give it to T.V set. 48. Your wife is valuable, add more value to her. 49. Your wife is your crown, do not abandon her. 50. You will account to God about your wife, handle her with care.

16 HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE WHAT ARE THE HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE? 1.Play with your husband. Don’t be too serious always. Put romance and playfulness in your daily schedule. Look for ways to laugh together. Say something funny and do something funny. 2.Invite and Take a bath with your husband, especially at night. Enjoy the pleasure of bathing together. Showering with your spouse is sweet, intimate, and a great way to get fully comfortable with each other’s bodies. Tell him to help you scrub your back as you bathe together. Play together in the bathroom. 3 Give your husband a serious shoulder, back, and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom, and living room as often as possible. You don’t need to be an expert to give your spouse a good message. Ask your spouse to lie on his body. 4 Say “I love you” to your husband often. Tell him and show him you love him so much. It is not only women that are moved by what they hear. Men are moved by what they hear too. 5 Call, Or Send A Romantic Text Message To Your Husband. Call, email, or send a romantic text message to him when you’re apart so he knows you are thinking of him. Call him on phone whenever he goes out just to say, “I love you”, and you can’t wait to see him back home. Do it now! 6.When your husband comes back from the office, meet him as if this is what you have been waiting for all day. Smile at him. Give him a kiss and a hug. Don’t have a sour face. Smile when you see him always and welcome him home with a hug. Let him know you are happy to see him. Help him unbutton his shirt as he undresses after an outing. 7.When last did you buy a gift for your husband? Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that he’d enjoy having this month. Buy him a new set of underwear. Buy him new pair of socks, belts, shoes, shirts, trousers, wristwatch or handset. Nothing is too small or big to give to your dear husband. 8 Give your “Husband of the Year Award”, “Father of the Year Award” or “Lover of the Year Award”. Organize a special ceremony to celebrate this. Dedicate any award you receive or any book you write to your spouse. 9.Celebrate his birthday elaborately. Don’t take his birthday for granted. Call his friends, your friends, and your families to remind them of his birthday. Tell them to call and pray for him. 10.Never allow family members or friends to treat him disrespectfully: Defend him before anyone who dishonors him or trivializes his position as your husband. 11.Appreciate his efforts. Men like to be appreciated. Nothing provokes a man to perform than appreciation. 12.Cook his food promptly. Specially serve him. Treat him like a king. Serve your husband as your king. Special plates are for your husband, not for your pastor or visitors. Don’t just cook his food alone, serve it specially. Don’t delegate it to someone else. Treat him like a VIP. Treat him like a special guest on the dining table. 13.Dress to attract your husband always. Every man loves a good-looking and attractive woman. Don’t stop looking good because you are now married. Walk like a beauty queen. Put on a smiling face, and properly compose yourself. Get attractive wear (gown) for private use. Invest in sexy attires that turn him on when you are with him. 14.Support his vision and buy books that pertain to his career and vision for him: PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALWAYS. Believe in your husband. Make him know that you believe in him and his vision. Be his number-one fan. 15.Make your bedroom a sex sanctuary. Keep it clean, neat, and smelling fresh at all times. Don’t use your bedroom as a place to throw your dirty laundry. 16.Continue to show love to your husband, even if you don’t receive it. God who sees your efforts will touch his heart. When God steps in, miracles happen. (Galatians 6:9). YOU WILL NOT FAIL IN MARRIAGE IN JESUS NAME God bless your relationship 🙏 Pleas.!! Comment, shear. [1/20, 5:45 PM] Simeon 'Segun Ojo: QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE..... 1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT. She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her. 2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE. Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected 3. SHE MULTIPLIES. She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for. 4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too 5. SHE LOVES GOOD FOOD She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too. 6. SHE'S FUN Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company 7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone 8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued 9. SHE IS CONFIDENT Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities 10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out 11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends. She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man 12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good 13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE She is not afraid to make sexual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her.

Nigeria’s Janet Ekundayo, whose name means “tears turned to joy,” dedicated her life to caring for orphans and abandoned children. Despite having five biological children, her love for children led her to adopt and care for over 500 kids at the Ekundayo Orphanage Home in Isanlu Makutu, Kogi State, a mission she started in 1969. Her selfless devotion earned her the nickname Olomo Yeye (someone with many children), making her one of the most influential women from Kogi. For over 50 years, she transformed the lives of countless children, turning their sorrow into happiness. In 2009, she passed away, believed to be in her 80s or 90s. Many only learned about her inspiring story when Nigerian singer TY Bello honored her with a tribute video and the song Ekundayo in 2008, as part of her Greenland album. Mama Ekundayo remains a symbol of love, kindness, and unwavering dedication. #africanfolder #MamaEkundayo #OlomoYeye #NigerianHistory #Humanitarian #KogiState #TYBello #Ekundayo #AfricanHeroes #OrphanCare #InspiringWomen

Senate 'll Promote Progressive Governance, National Development - Akpabio President of the Senate, Godswill Akpabio has reiterated the commitment of the Senate under his leadership to progressive governance, economic empowerment, and national development. Akpabio stated this in his acceptance speech after his investiture as a Fellow of the Nigerian Institution of Estate Surveyors and Valuers in Lagos on Friday. According to Akpabio, "the Senate’s commitment to progressive governance, economic empowerment, and national development remains unwavering. And I assure you that this honor will not be taken lightly. If anything, it will only spur me to work harder, to push further, and to serve better. "I stand before you today deeply honored, profoundly humbled, and immensely grateful. To receive the Honorary Fellowship of this distinguished institution is not just a privilege; it is a testament that there are values we hold dear—the values of service, excellence, and unwavering dedication to building a stronger, more prosperous Nigeria. Akpabio noted that, "for over five decades, the Nigerian Institution of Estate Surveyors and Valuers has stood as a beacon of professionalism, integrity, and nation-building. You are the silent architects of Nigeria’s urban transformation, the custodians of our nation’s physical wealth, and the guardians of the principles that sustain our economy—accountability, due process, and strategic planning." "Your work ensures that our cities are well-planned, our investments are secured, and our future is built on a solid foundation. Without you, the skylines of Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt would remain concepts, not realities. Without you, businesses would struggle to find the confidence to invest, and without you, the dream of homeownership for many Nigerians would remain just that—a dream. "So today, as I receive this honor, I do so not as an individual, but as a representative of the Nigerian Senate, as a servant of the Nigerian people, and as a voice of the Nigerian people. I also know that leadership is about legacy. Therefore, I dedicate this award to the 10th National Assembly and the great people of Nigeria, who have entrusted us with the sacred duty representing them in the governance of this country.. "This recognition is not just a celebration of what has been done, but a call to action for what must be done. It is a charge to lead with renewed vigor, to continue to fight for policies that will make housing more affordable, land administration more transparent, and infrastructure more sustainable. "It is a call to ensure that Nigeria’s land and property assets are managed with the efficiency, integrity, and foresight that will secure our economic future. "To my brothers and sisters in the real estate and valuation profession, I say—your work is critical to Nigeria’s development. And we, in government, are listening. The policies we craft, the laws we enact, the reforms we champion—all must align with the vision of a Nigeria where economic growth is not just a statistic, but a reality that uplifts every citizen. "To the leadership of NIESV, I thank you again for this recognition. To the distinguished guests here today, I thank you for your presence. And to the Nigerian people, I reaffirm my commitment to you—because in the end, governance is about service, and service is about people. Jackson Udom, Special Assistant, Media To The President Of The Senate

🚨🚨🚨 Gospel Star Moses Bliss Marks 30th Birthday with Stunning Photoshoot Nigerian gospel artist Moses Bliss recently celebrated his 30th birthday, sharing breathtaking photos to commemorate the occasion. On Instagram, he showcased himself in traditional reddish-wine attire, complete with a staff and a beaded necklace, which are characteristic of men honored with chieftaincy titles in the Igbo culture. In his post, Moses conveyed deep appreciation to his Creator for the incredible blessings he has experienced throughout his life. He wrote, “This is 30!Happy birthday to me. My Lord and King I’m in awe of your wonders in my life😭 I give you thanks Father. This new song is the summary of my life: “When I look at my life, when I think of how I got here, I’ve come to one conclusion; THIS IS THE MERCY OF THE LORD.” Under the post, his wife,@marieblissofficial wrote, “3 decades of grace ❤️ 30 never looked this gooooooddd😍😍 happy birthday my sunshine, you are an exceptional human being, a visionary and a shining light. I Join the rest of the world to celebrate you ❤️ #globaldayofbliss” #News #Breakingnews #news #NewsUpdate #newsfeed #entertainmentnews

Yesterday I made a post of victor osimhen retãining and renêwing his multimillion Nïssan Ambãssador contrãct in turkey 🇹🇷, Many people find it difficult to celebrate the good news. People sometimes love båd news.....I have said it countless times, the rate by which we celebrate our own will determine how outsiders will celebrate them.... Osimhen is a blessing to Nigeria and African at large ⭕. We should lêãrn how to celebrate our own just like the oyibo people do, Osimhen is the first African player to sign this contract in the history of football in Africa 🔥🔥🔥. It's a great honor and deserve to be celebrated greatly. Congratulations victor Osimhen 🔥💥💥💥💚💚🦅🦅🦅🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬💚💚💚💚💚 Congratulations, congratulations congratulations

16 HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE WHAT ARE THE HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE? 1.Play with your husband. Don’t be too serious always. Put romance and playfulness in your daily schedule. Look for ways to laugh together. Say something funny and do something funny. 2.Invite and Take a bath with your husband, especially at night. Enjoy the pleasure of bathing together. Showering with your spouse is sweet, intimate, and a great way to get fully comfortable with each other’s bodies. Tell him to help you scrub your back as you bathe together. Play together in the bathroom. 3 Give your husband a serious shoulder, back, and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom, and living room as often as possible. You don’t need to be an expert to give your spouse a good message. Ask your spouse to lie on his body. 4 Say “I love you” to your husband often. Tell him and show him you love him so much. It is not only women that are moved by what they hear. Men are moved by what they hear too. 5 Call, Or Send A Romantic Text Message To Your Husband. Call, email, or send a romantic text message to him when you’re apart so he knows you are thinking of him. Call him on phone whenever he goes out just to say, “I love you”, and you can’t wait to see him back home. Do it now! 6.When your husband comes back from the office, meet him as if this is what you have been waiting for all day. Smile at him. Give him a kiss and a hug. Don’t have a sour face. Smile when you see him always and welcome him home with a hug. Let him know you are happy to see him. Help him unbutton his shirt as he undresses after an outing. 7.When last did you buy a gift for your husband? Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that he’d enjoy having this month. Buy him a new set of underwear. Buy him new pair of socks, belts, shoes, shirts, trousers, wristwatch or handset. Nothing is too small or big to give to your dear husband. 8 Give your “Husband of the Year Award”, “Father of the Year Award” or “Lover of the Year Award”. Organize a special ceremony to celebrate this. Dedicate any award you receive or any book you write to your spouse. 9.Celebrate his birthday elaborately. Don’t take his birthday for granted. Call his friends, your friends, and your families to remind them of his birthday. Tell them to call and pray for him. 10.Never allow family members or friends to treat him disrespectfully: Defend him before anyone who dishonors him or trivializes his position as your husband. 11.Appreciate his efforts. Men like to be appreciated. Nothing provokes a man to perform than appreciation. 12.Cook his food promptly. Specially serve him. Treat him like a king. Serve your husband as your king. Special plates are for your husband, not for your pastor or visitors. Don’t just cook his food alone, serve it specially. Don’t delegate it to someone else. Treat him like a VIP. Treat him like a special guest on the dining table. 13.Dress to attract your husband always. Every man loves a good-looking and attractive woman. Don’t stop looking good because you are now married. Walk like a beauty queen. Put on a smiling face, and properly compose yourself. Get attractive wear (gown) for private use. Invest in sexy attires that turn him on when you are with him. 14.Support his vision and buy books that pertain to his career and vision for him: PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALWAYS. Believe in your husband. Make him know that you believe in him and his vision. Be his number-one fan. 15.Make your bedroom a sex sanctuary. Keep it clean, neat, and smelling fresh at all times. Don’t use your bedroom as a place to throw your dirty laundry. 16.Continue to show love to your husband, even if you don’t receive it. God who sees your efforts will touch his heart. When God steps in, miracles happen. (Galatians 6:9). YOU WILL NOT FAIL IN MARRIAGE IN JESUS NAME God bless your relationship 🙏 Pleas.!! Comment, shear.

The name Steven is of Greek origin (Στεφανός, Stephanos). It means "crown" or "garland," symbolizing honor, achievement, and recognition. In ancient Greece, a wreath or crown was awarded to victors in athletic competitions, military battles, and other achievements. The name Steven is derived from this tradition, signifying a person who is worthy of honor and respect. In Christianity, Saint Stephen (the first Christian martyr) is often associated with the name, adding a layer of spiritual significance and meaning. Today, the name Steven is popular worldwide, representing qualities like excellence, leadership, and distinction.