Forgiveness is setting yourself free, not excusing the wrong."

Forgiveness is setting yourself free, not excusing the wrong."

*POPE FRANCIS RETIREMENT SPEECH THAT SHOCKS THE WORLD* The speech that was read yesterday Regardless of religion, see how Pope Francis has beautifully written about the family. FAMILY, PLACE OF FORGIVENESS ... ©️ There is no perfect family. ©️ We do not have perfect parents, - you are not perfect yourself. We do not marry a perfect person or we do not have perfect children. ©️ We have complaints from each other. We can not live together without offending one another. ©️ We are constantly disappointed. Yes for so many reasons at different times we are disappointed by one another. ©️ There is no healthy marriage or healthy family without the exercise of forgiveness. Forgiveness is the medicine of family joy and happiness. ©️ Forgiveness is vital to our emotional health and spiritual survival. No matter the offence or who is the offender. Without forgiveness, the family becomes an arena of conflict and a fortress of evil. ©️ Without forgiveness, the family becomes sick and unhealthy. ©️ Forgiveness is the asepsis of the soul, the purification of the spirit and the liberation of the heart. No sin is too big to be forgiven. He who does not forgive does not have peace in his soul and can not have communion with God. ©️ Unforgiving is Evil and a poison that intoxicates and kills the one who refuses to forgive. ©️ Keeping heartache of unforgiving in your heart is a self-destructive gesture. It's autophagy. ©️ Those who do not forgive are physically, emotionally and spiritually ill. And they will suffer in two ways. For this reason, the family must be a place of life and not a place of death; a place of forgiveness, a place of paradise and not a place of hell; A healing territory and not a disease; an internship of forgiveness and not guilt. Forgiveness brings joy where sorrow has brought sadness; of Healing where sorrow has caused disease. A family is a place of support and not of gossip and slander of one another. It must be a place of welcome not a place of rejection. Shame to those who plant evil about others. We are family and not enemies. When anyone is going through a challenge all they need is support. ¤ By Pope Francisco Please send to all the families and groups you know. This could help heal family's wounds and settle some battles.

MISTAKE COUPLE OFTEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE. In marriage, couples often make mistakes that can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, or tension in the relationship. Recognizing and learning from these common mistakes can help strengthen the bond between partners. Here are some mistakes many couples make in marriage: 1. Lack of Communication • Many couples struggle with open, honest communication. When partners don’t talk about their feelings, needs, or concerns, misunderstandings can arise, leading to frustration or resentment. 2. Taking Each Other for Granted • As time goes on, some couples may stop showing appreciation for each other, thinking that their partner “just knows” they are loved. Without regular acts of kindness and acknowledgment, a relationship can feel neglected. 3. Avoiding Conflict • Some couples try to avoid conflict altogether, fearing arguments will cause harm. However, not addressing issues can lead to built-up resentment. Healthy conflict resolution is key in any relationship. 4. Neglecting Intimacy • Physical affection and emotional intimacy are essential in marriage. Over time, couples can become too busy or complacent and neglect intimacy, which can weaken their connection. 5. Focusing Too Much on the Negative • Couples can get caught up in focusing on each other’s flaws or the problems in the relationship, leading to a cycle of negativity. It’s important to also celebrate the good moments and qualities in each other. 6. Not Prioritizing Each Other • Life can get busy with work, children, and other responsibilities, but it’s essential to prioritize time for each other. When couples put everything else before their relationship, it can lead to distance and feelings of neglect. 7. Unrealistic Expectations • Sometimes one partner expects the other to fulfill all their emotional and personal needs, which is an unrealistic burden. No one person can meet every need, and it’s important to maintain individual interests, friendships, and activities. 8. Financial Mismanagement • Disagreements about money are common. Whether it’s spending habits or saving, financial issues can cause stress in a marriage. Lack of transparency or poor financial communication can lead to tension and conflict. 9. Not Respecting Boundaries • Every individual has personal boundaries, and not respecting these can lead to feelings of violation or resentment. It’s important to respect your partner’s boundaries, both emotional and physical. 10. Letting External Influences Affect the Relationship • External pressures, like family members or friends, can sometimes interfere with a couple’s dynamic. While outside support can be helpful, relying too much on others or letting them have too much influence can strain the marriage. 11. Not Seeking Help When Needed • Many couples avoid seeking help from a therapist or counselor when they face challenges, thinking they can handle everything on their own. Seeking professional support can provide new perspectives and solutions to issues that may seem insurmountable. 12. Holding Grudges • If one partner holds onto past mistakes or wrongdoings, it can be difficult to move forward. Forgiveness is essential to healing and growth within a relationship. 13. Being Inflexible • Marriage involves compromise and adaptability. Being too rigid in your expectations or beliefs can cause friction. Being willing to listen and adapt to each other’s needs is important for long-term harmony. 14. Lack of Teamwork • Marriage is a partnership, and sometimes one partner may feel like they are carrying more of the weight, whether it’s in household chores, decision-making, or emotional labor. Equal effort and teamwork are necessary for a balanced relationship. 15. Comparing the Relationship to Others • Comparing your marriage to others, whether it’s through social media or real-life couples, can lead to dissatisfaction. Every marriage is unique, and it’s important to focus on your own relationship rather than external expectations. 16. Ignoring Personal Growth • Sometimes, couples grow in different directions and forget to nurture their individual identities. Personal growth and self-care are crucial to maintaining a healthy relationship, as it allows both partners to contribute positively to the marriage. By recognizing and avoiding these common mistakes, couples can build a stronger, more fulfilling partnership. It’s important to remember that no marriage is perfect, but consistent effort, mutual respect, and love can make it a lasting and meaningful bond. TOGETHER WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE~HOSEA CHEGE For continuous growth please follow PASTOR APOSTLE DOCTOR TIMOTHY MUGAMBI HOSEA CHEGE CHARITY online classes ❤️💞🥤🥤🥤 worldwide ❣️🥰🥤💊💊💊💉💉💉

*SMALL THINGS THAT CAN TELL YOU A LOT ABOUT A PERSON?* *SPEECH*. The way, a person speaks tell us a lot about their attitude and personality. The more educated a person is, the more polite he tends to become. *FASHION SENSE*. You should never believe a person who tries too hard to appear cool wearing trendy clothes and costly shoes. He/she is a manipulator and obviously big imposter. *HANDWRITING*. It may be a little debatable but the more creative and lazy a person is, the roughest his handwriting gets. On the other hand, organized and disciplined people have good handwriting. *HYGIENE*. You can easily figure out if a person is disciplined or not by noticing their hygiene. Those who maintain hygiene have high self esteem and they tend to love themselves. *SMILE*. Smile can be deceiving most of the times but it shows the person is strong and he is trying to live a normal happy life. *HOW A PERSON TREATS ANIMALS.* Those who loves animals are often the most joyful and full of life. If a person admits his mistakes immediately and asks for forgiveness without letting his ego come in between, it tells a lot about his upbringing and personality. How a person treats his lover and the most IMPORTANTLY how he treats his competitors. I hope it helps! It's totally based on my observations, nothing is scientifically proven at all. Good morning and have a great Friday! Please stay safe 🙏!!!

Forgiveness is not about condoning what was done; it’s about freeing yourself from the weight of resentment. By forgiving, you choose peace over pain, growth over grudges, and freedom over bitterness. It doesn’t change the past, but it empowers your future. Let go, forgive, and make space for healing and happiness.

I LOVE THIS ANALOGY: You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee? "Because someone bumped into me!!!" Wrong answer. You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. Whatevr is inside the cup is what will spill out. Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It's easy to fake it, until you get rattled. So we have to ask ourselves... “what's in my cup?" When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy, gratitude, peace and humility? Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting tendencies? Life provids the cup, YOU choose how to fill it. Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affrmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others.

TIPS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE: 1. Don't joke with your husband stomach...... Food is very important to men, 2. Don't avoid her food no matter how tasteless it may be...... Encourage her if possible, teach her how to cook 3. S£X is a bound that keeps marriage..... Don't for any reason or reasons deny each other 4. If you have issues among you.... Don't be fast to involve a 3rd party 5. Women, no matter how rich your husband may be...... Find something to be doing, 2 good heads are better than one 6. If you want to have a better and happy family ....... Train your children well 7 . Women: don't wait for your husband to be providing all the family's need..... He will one day breakdown 8. Men, cary your wife along in your plans....... Her opinion could be the best 9. Fault finders don't make good home ..... Have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect 10. The sooner you learn that (I'm right) destroys marriages ........ The better for you 11. Togetherness brings unity in marriage...... Form a habit of eating and bathing together, it increases love among couples 12. Forgiveness a key to a successfully marriage..... Forgive each other no matter the offense 13. I'm SORRY should always be in your lips 💋........... It's just a word but very powerful 14. Don't for any reason keeps a secret among you.......... Trust each other for the good of your marriage 15. Family planning is not only contraceptives or controlling child birth........... Is all about planning together, families that plans together are a step closer to greatness 16. Always involve God in your family..... He's the answer and solutions to your family problems.

"Amazing Grace, How Sweet the Sound" is one of the most beloved and iconic hymns in Christian history. Here's a brief overview: History of the Hymn - *Author:* John Newton (1725-1807), an English Anglican clergyman and former slave ship captain. - *Composition:* Newton wrote the hymn in 1772 as a poem, titled "Faith's Review and Expectation." - *Publication:* The poem was first published in Newton's collection of hymns called "The Olney Hymns" in 1779. - *Melody:* The familiar tune, known as "New Britain," was composed by James P. Carrell and David S. Clayton in the early 19th century. Inspiration Behind the Hymn Newton's experiences as a slave ship captain and his subsequent conversion to Christianity heavily influenced the writing of "Amazing Grace." He was born in London and began his career at sea, eventually becoming the captain of a slave ship. However, after a near-death experience in a storm, Newton began to question his involvement in the slave trade. Conversion and Ministry In 1748, Newton converted to Christianity, and his faith led him to abandon the slave trade. He became an ordained Anglican priest and served as a pastor in Olney, Bucking hamshire. Newton's experiences and faith are reflected in the powerful lyrics of "Amazing Grace." Popularity and Legacy "Amazing Grace" gained popularity in the United States during the Second Great Awakening in the late 18th and early 19th centuries. The hymn has since become a beloved classic, translated into numerous languages and performed by countless artists. Its enduring message of redemption, forgiveness, and the power of faith continues to inspire people around the world.

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE 1. Laziness kills marriage. 2. Suspicion kills marriage. 3. Lack of Trust kills marriage. 4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage. 5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage. 6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage. 7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage. 8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage. 9. Poor Communication kills marriage. 10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect. 11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage. 12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage. 13. Nagging kills marriage. 14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage. 15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage. 16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage. 17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage. 18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage. 19. Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life. 20. Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage. 21. Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage. 22. Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage. 23. Male Chauvinism kills marriage. 24. Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage. 25. Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage. 26. Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage. 27. Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage. 28. Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage. *FOBCARES ✍️*

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE 1. Laziness kills marriage. 2. Suspicion kills marriage. 3. Lack of Trust kills marriage. 4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage. 5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage. 6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage. 7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage. 8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage. 9. Poor Communication kills marriage. 10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect. 11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage. 12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage. 13. Nagging kills marriage. 14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage. 15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage. 16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage. 17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage. 18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage. 19. Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life. 20. Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage. 21. Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage. 22. Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage. 23. Male Chauvinism kills marriage. 24. Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage. 25. Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage. 26. Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage. 27. Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage. 28. Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage. *FOBCARES ✍️*

Forgiveness is not about condoning what was done; it’s about freeing yourself from the weight of resentment. By forgiving, you choose peace over pain, growth over grudges, and freedom over bitterness. It doesn’t change the past, but it empowers your future. Let go, forgive, and make space for healing and happiness.