*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

HER PAST WILL BECOME YOUR PROBLEM

Listen up, son.

The world loves lying to men like you.
Telling you her past doesn’t matter.
That love will erase the bodies, the heartbreaks, the reckless years.

It won’t.

Her past won’t disappear.
It’ll just move in with you.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ EVERY HEARTBREAK SHE BURIED, YOU’LL INHERIT
The men she let in, the lies she told herself, the pieces of her she lost — all of it comes to your doorstep disguised as “love.”

2️⃣ A WOMAN WITH TEN BODIES CARRIES TEN LESSONS, TEN WOUNDS, TEN HABITS
You won’t see them — but you’ll feel them.
In her walls.
In her coldness.
In her inability to trust you even when you’ve done nothing wrong.

3️⃣ “EXPERIENCE” DOESN’T MEAN WISDOM
If all she’s learned is seduction, rejection, and trauma, you’re not getting a wife — you’re joining a performance.
And guess who’s footing the bill?
You.

4️⃣ NUMBNESS IS NOT STRENGTH
If she laughs about chaos, mocks broken homes, and treats pain like entertainment — she’s not strong.
She’s numb.
And numb people don’t love.
They control.

5️⃣ NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MAN’S CHILD
A child may be innocent, but the decision was hers.
That isn’t your burden.
You build your own legacy.
Your own firsts.
Your own family line.
Without apology.

6️⃣ LOVE DOESN’T ERASE CONSEQUENCES
No matter how soft she sounds.
How beautiful she looks.
How sweet her promises.

If her past is a wildfire — don’t marry into ashes.

FINAL WORD:
Son, choose peace over chaos.
Legacy over lust.
Truth over pity.
You deserve your own firsts.
A wife of your youth.
Children with your name.
A home, not a museum of old heartbreaks.

Stand tall in that.
Own it.

Because real men build futures — they don’t rescue broken stories.

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

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*Why Do People Who Care a lot get hurt the most*

Get answered today, and know where to change and where to improve on during your association with people!!!

*Part 1 .*

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Caring individuals might get hurt due to their vulnerability, empathy, high expectations, and selflessness. These traits can make them more sensitive to others' emotions and experiences.

Let's dive deeper into why caring people might get hurt:

*Vulnerability*:

1. *Openness*: Caring people tend to be open and receptive to others, which can make them more vulnerable to emotional pain.
2. *Trust*: They often trust others easily, which can lead to hurt when that trust is broken.
3. *Emotional investment*: Caring individuals invest emotionally in relationships, making them more susceptible to emotional hurt.

*Empathy*:

1. *Feeling others' pain*: Caring people can deeply feel others' emotions, including pain and suffering.
2. *Compassion fatigue*: Constantly empathizing with others can lead to emotional exhaustion.
3. *Blurred boundaries*: Empathetic individuals might struggle to set boundaries, leading to emotional overload.

*High expectations*:

1. *Idealism*: Caring people often have high ideals about relationships and people.
2. *Disappointment*: When reality doesn't meet these expectations, they might feel disappointed or hurt.
3. *Self-blame*: They might blame themselves for not meeting their own expectations.

*Selflessness*:

1. *Prioritizing others*: Caring individuals often prioritize others' needs over their own.
2. *Burnout*: Constantly putting others first can lead to emotional burnout.
3. *Lack of self-care*: Neglecting their own needs can make them more vulnerable to hurt.

These factors can contribute to caring people getting hurt. However, it's essential to remember that being caring and empathetic are valuable traits that can also bring great rewards and connections.

*Part 2*

*Why do good People marry "bad" ones:*

1. *Attraction to confidence*: Good men or women might be drawn to confident, outgoing partners, even if they have a "bad" reputation.
2. *Desire to help or fix*: Some good men may feel a strong desire to help or fix someone they perceive as needing care or support.
3. *Unconscious patterns*: Unconscious patterns or past experiences might lead good men to seek out relationships with women who fit a certain pattern, even if it's not healthy.
4. *Complexity of human relationships*: Relationships involve many factors, and individuals can be complex and multifaceted.

*Part 3*

Here are some strategies for caring people to minimize hurt and disappointment:

*Set boundaries*:

1. *Learn to say no*: Establish healthy limits to protect your emotional energy.
2. *Prioritize self-care*: Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.
3. *Communicate needs*: Express your expectations and needs clearly to others.

*Practice self-awareness*:

1. *Recognize patterns*: Identify situations or people that consistently lead to hurt or disappointment.
2. *Understand your emotions*: Develop emotional intelligence to better navigate complex feelings.
3. *Develop self-compassion*: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when faced with challenges.

*Cultivate healthy relationships*:

1. *Surround yourself with positivity*: Spend time with people who support and uplift you.
2. *Foster mutual respect*: Build relationships based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect.
3. *Let go of toxic relationships*: Distance yourself from people who consistently cause harm or stress.

*Manage expectations*:

1. *Be realistic*: Understand that people and relationships are imperfect.
2. *Focus on the present*: Appreciate the current moment and don't overemphasize future expectations.
3. *Practice gratitude*: Focus on the positive aspects of your relationships and life.

*Develop emotional resilience*:

1. *Learn from experiences*: Grow from challenges and use them as opportunities for personal growth.
2. *Practice mindfulness*: Stay present and focused on the current moment.
3. *Seek support*: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or professionals when needed.

By implementing these strategies, caring people can reduce their risk of getting hurt and cultivate more fulfilling relationships.

Hope now you understand where to work on dear and create your own peace.


Thank you for reading but learn!🙏🏽

If someone really cares about you, they care about how their actions affect you and how they make you feel.

They don’t just think about what they want or what is convenient for them, they consider your feelings, too. they pay attention to your emotions, see things from your perspective, and try to understand why you feel the way you do.

They don’t brush off your concerns or act like your problems don’t matter. they don’t make you feel like a burden for opening up. instead, they create a safe space where you feel comfortable being vulnerable. and even if they don’t always agree with you, they still respect your emotions and make an effort to be considerate.

Because if someone truly cares, you won’t have to constantly wonder how much you matter to them. you’ll feel it in the way they treat you. and they will never make you feel like you’re too much for having emotions. Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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There's a Grace that prospers!!!
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Today, I want you to remember how much you mean to me and how thankful I am that you always choose to stay with me. I am not a perfect person, and I am not trying to be one, but I want you to know that I will try my best to make you happy. I love seeing you happy; did you know that? I love your eyes, your eyebrows, your hands, and most importantly, your smile. I wish you would smile so often when you're with me. But even if you don't, I will still fall for you.

I want you to know that you mean the world to me. I love you, and I know that you have heard it so many times from me. But I still want to tell you that I love you every day, and I love you still even after a thousand years. Most people will never understand us; some of them even think that we're not perfect for each other. But the truth is, they never know about us. They never know what we've been through just to keep each other. And for that, thank you for still loving me. My love, thank you for still holding me in your arms. I want you to know that I'll be here for you too, holding your hands tighter and reminding you that I will always love you.

God protect us all as we step out for our daily bread may we not put to shame in Jesus name Amen

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* The right one will love you unconditionally. Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age. Time and time again, I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard." It's heartbreaking to see people give up on love so easily. You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? It's over" and throw everything away. *

* If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated." There's no such thing as you being "too crazy." There's no such thing as you being "too much." The right person will love you for who you are, quirks and all, and they'll be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option. No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you. *

* No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much they care about you. No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them. A person who truly values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. They'll hold on tight, work through the tough times, and prioritize your love and connection above all else. And when the dust settles, they'll be there, holding your hand, and loving you for all eternity. *

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There's a Grace that prospers!!!
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A man isn’t taking care of you if he provides, but cheats on you. Many times people ask women to settle for cheats as long as they get financial provisions. Provision goes beyond paying bills. How a man treats you asides from financial provision, and how he protects the intimacy you guys share is also provision— the provision of trust and security. Money cannot replace trust in a relationship.

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*The Marriage Advice ..*


1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

*WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED...!*

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Silence can never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one ever had, you must do what no one ever did.

5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy someone, he puts a person in his life.

6. It's better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. Three kinds of men to avoid:

a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Marry someone of similar religious beliefs.

11. Three words that echo peace in a marriage:

a. I love you .
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. It won't last forever. Be happy and get busy with your life.

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Masturbation is can affect your marriage negatively.

15. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

16. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.

17. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

18. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

19. A man and women need wisdom in choosing who to marry.

20. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.

May you not fail in Marriage...!

GOD BLESS YOU

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.